Celebrating Indian mom in America.. more heartbreak

Happy birthday to... Eat it. Eat it. Yes! Can we go wash his hands again? Don't listen to Daddy. The murukku is going to taste very flavorful. It's going to be a very tasty and flavorful and expensive murukku. You made it all by yourself? Aww, Pati looks like she's going to cry. We have a special mission for you. Are you ready? Yeah! Okay, we have to go give Pati her card because inside is a special message for her, okay? Tell her she has to open it right now. What's that? Open it right now.

Open it right now. Thank you. They're taking you out to celebrate tonight. Happy birthday. The Kumaar's. Love, Zaden and Kyren. Pati, happy birthday to someone who makes the world a better brighter place. Thank you so much. Why were we not signing the card? We're the Kumaar family. We're taking you out right now. Are you ready to go? Yeah! Okay, let's go. Let's go! Don't tell her! She knows now that we're... She doesn't know where we're taking her, but we're taking her out, okay? Do you know,

Zae Zae? Where are we going? Shhh, don't tell her. It starts with an 'M'. 'M?' Malaysian food. Did I guess right? No. Oh, no? Okay, everyone got the sunglasses? Check. Ky Ky, sunglasses? Check. Zae Zae? Check. Okay, we're ready to go. Yes! The place that we're planning to go to is closed. No! Oh, no! It's closed on Tuesday. Oh, bummer. We're going to go to my other favorite place nearby. Oh, perfect! Yeah, that's great. Okay, I'll see you there. See you there. Bye, baby. Okay, bye. The most

important thing is that hopefully Amma likes this food. Got rasam or not? Mom likes mutton, so remember the mutton roast. That's what we're talking about. Feel a bit at home now? It's $10. All Amma wants for her birthday is rasam. That one mine? This is yours, baby, but we'll share some with your brother. Thank you so much. Is it soft, Mama? Zae Zae, you want to try some? Is it soft? It's very soft. Yeay! Which dip dip do you like the best? Show with your hands, man. Not your mouth. That one

? What about the other ones? No. No? You haven't even tried it. Mom, did you taste this? No, I didn't. Can I try some? Yes. Taste it. Is it spicy or not? Is it spicy? No. Try and see. Yes. That's good. How is American Indian sambar  compared to Malaysian sambar? Same. Same? Cauliflower 65. Why 65? Why is the number 65? Chicken 65. But why not like 37 or 28 or you know, 39. Why 65? Eat. Eat. Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday, dear Pati. Happy birthday to you. Make a wish. That's mine. I paint

ed all of these crossette. Did you? Wow! Did you paint this also? Yeah! Yeah! I love this! I love this! Do you know who picked it? Who? Me! Awww, how did you know that I like this? What is this? This is from the Kumaar Family. Oh my goodness! Ky Ky is really obsessed with his own gift. He put a lot of heart into it, guys. Thank you very much. Bye! My mom is currently here with us from Malaysia... and there's really no better support system than family. After transitioning to a full-time YouTub

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Yeah. Why is Madagascar your favorite country? Ky Ky said because it's so beautiful. My favorite country. South Africa? Oh, you guys are spending too much time with Dee Dee. And Brazil. Brazil? What about this country right there? I was looking for Malaysia. Malaysia, Daddy. I was also looking for Malaysia. Mom's calling you to make murukku. Oh my gosh! Murukku time already? Okay, murukku time. So are you guys ready? Zae Zae, you want to help us make murukku? Of course. Why not? Ky Ky, you want

to help us make murukku? He's thinking. I'm using 165g butter. Normally 4 packets. Do you understand what 165g is or not? I don't but I can remember that. Just eat it. No, don't eat it. Eat it. Eat it. Eat it. Yes! Can we go wash his hands again? Stop, we don't listen to Daddy. Do you see what (()) is doing? She's breaking it. The murukku is going to taste very flavorful. What? She said bloods, snots and tears. Ugh. That's propbably more like it. Don't lick your hands. Do not lick your hands.

Show me your hands. If you lick your hands, you got to go wash it again, okay? So don't lick it. What's happening? Murukku making masterclass. Oh, yeah. Okay, keep it inside. What happened to the murukku? I don't know. It's going to be a very tasty and flavorful and expensive murukku. Touch. Your hand always must be wet. You take the flour. The flour must melt like this. Me and Logesh is here to taste them. Okay? And then you put it in. Yeah, we are professional taste testers. That's our job.

(()), can I try to do it? Can. You want to try? I want to try. I want to try first. Okay, come. What is this? Tamarind sweet. So we're going to put inside here? No. Put inside that. Inside the oil? Why? I never heard of that. It makes the murukku crispy. That's the secret. No! Is that why your murukku is so good? So who's going to eat that? You'll take it out. I ain't eating that. Woohoo, finally! Yeay! Rachel! Rachel! Rachel! I cannot stress how difficult it is to cook with a three-year-old.

How does it feel to be in a room with 7 colored people? Feels delightful. Oh, really? Yeah, I like it. Culture. Bring the onion. This is like absolute chaos. It just feels like we are in a... What's happening? After burn, we take out and throw. After burn, we take out. So apparently legend has it that whoever eats that tamarind will become... Huh? Will live forever? We'll become rich. Don't... Let's not push it. I heard you said we'll become Rachel. Oh, baby! Zae Zae, how is it? Is it good? Ky

Ky. You guys are retired from making already? Sitting and eating. I always say they are like the two best well fed children in California. But they still complained. They still do but I'm like my goodness! What I was eating at your age is nothing compared to what you got to eat. You don't know how good you have it, Zae Zae. Oh, no! Rachel! What did you do? I dropped it right there. What? Rachel! You saving it for later? Indian moms, they just put their hands inside to take and play. Put it

on the surface to see if it's hot enough. God, no. We don't do that. Crazy thing about this, Dee... it's finishing as they're cooking it. Well, it's so good. But you know what? Tea would be so much better with it. Come on, Logesh. Okay, time for some teh tarik. Not Masala chai, okay? I'm making Malaysian teh tarik. Boh tea is the best tea. Not sponsored. I wish it was though. Your majes-tea. Ha ha ha. Is this your special-tea? Because it's really quali-tea. I am positi-vie. Positivi-tea. You

got to stop at some point, you know. He broke my sister thing. You all right? Are you all right? You want falafel? I want this. Okay, okay. Don't give sugar to me. All right. Don't give sugar to me. Okay. Don't give me sugar. Okay. No sugar. Nobody gives you sugar. Not yet. It's been a little bit of a sad day today because... Logesh's Mom, Auntie and Uncle are leaving tomorrow. So it's just kind of all the last final wrap-up things... but they've been so sweet today. They've been cooking and m

aking tosai and chai. I keep teasing them I'll steal their passports and not let them leave. There's been way too many goodbyes recently. How do you feel about Pati (()) going back tomorrow? Sad. What about you, Ky Ky? Happy. Oh, you feel happy? Why? How's all the packing going you guys? The last one. You guys are taking potato chips back? Yes. Is there something special about the potato chips here? Potato in America tastes weird. Amma, what are you going to miss the most about America? You a

nd Logesh and the kids. Me? Of course. Secondly, shopping. What's your favorite store here? Ross. What about Target? Okay. I like Target, Mama. You like Target, Ky Ky? Okay. But I like the one near your old place. Oh, that one? Yeah. San Francisco... San Francisco Premium Outlets. That was super big. What do you try to tell me? You know why I like Target? Why do you like Target? Because I like the bandaids. Oh, because you like the bandaids there? Okay. That's one reason to like a store. (()) Ye

ah? What are you going to miss the most about America? Miss my little boys, Zaden and Kyren. And miss you all. Miss the cool environment. See you. You are going to see her in here in June. America. All of America? Yeah. Bicycling. Oh, your cycling. Yeah. You've been great about going out almost every day and cycling. Yes. I think the boys are going to miss your tosai the most. They're going to miss it so much. Oh, look! That looks amazing. Zae Zae, what are you going to miss the most  about ha

ving (()) to go back? Their food. Their food. What about you, Ky Ky? Their food. Their food. But we're going to hang out lots in Malaysia, right? We will go to Malaysia again. We will go to Malaysia again. You're right. How many bags are we trying to fit in this car? Six. Six large and then two... Three small and... So this has to fit in here like this. 15 minutes later, we're still... figuring out how to put all these pieces in it. It goes this way? Yeah, like that. Oh, no! It's not closing. Do

ne! Thank you for coming. Bye bye. Yeah, thank you for everything. Of course. Thanks for everything. God bless you. Bye. I love you too, buddy but I'll come back and see you. Daddy's just going to class. I'm going to class, baby. I'll be back. Okay, I go first. Bye. Thank you. You're welcome. Bye. Safe fight. Okay, love you. Love you. Bye. Zae Zae, what did you make, bubba? You made it all by yourself? Yes. Awww, Pati looks like she's going to cry. Yeah, I'm so sad. That's so sweet of you. What

did you say? I look like I'm not going to cry. You looks like you're not going to cry? Good night, Pati. Good night. I love you. Good bye. Bye. I said goodbye and good wishes. Goodbye. Goodbye. Byeee! Bye, Dee Dee! You doing okay, my love? So sad. I know. It's been a lot of goodbyes recently. I'm so sorry, my love. We're all checked in now. Everyone got all their bags. Amma's not feeling well, so she's going to get  a special ride through security into the gate. Hopefully it goes smoothly. Bye

bye, everyone. I'm going to miss you guys so much. I'll see you guys in June. Take care. I'll miss you guys. Bye. Bye.