Emotional Goodbye

Thanks, man. Love you guys. Love you too. I love you so much. It's okay. We'll be back, honey. What have I done? What have I done?  What have I done? Oh my gosh! So you know I'm into fitness. You know, I have a garage gym. I work out a lot in there. I play soccer in weekends. I like to go runs around neighborhood. I'm a fitness guy, right? I get a phone call from one of my friends. She is the co-founder of KultureCity, a nonprofit that we so proudly support. We love the initiative that they're

doing... and she calls me and she say, "Hey, Logesh. Do you want to run in a marathon?" And I'm like tell me more. And she says, "Okay, you can represent KultureCity to run in the New York City marathon... and at the same time you can help us fundraise." I'm like sign me up. Let's go. Let's do it. And she's like okay, great. I hang up the phone and I googled what a marathon is. Fam! You have to run for 42 km. That's 26 miles. I've never run that in my entire life. The most I do is like run a

round neighborhoods for like 20-30 minutes and that's about it. I don't know. I don't know what I'm going to do. Like marathon? It's happening. I thought he was 100% joking. I was like, "Oh, that's funny", and he's like, "No, I'm going to do it". So then I actually said I'm going to do it too. But the good thing about this is we have time... because the New York City marathon is in November... which means training needs to start tomorrow. We need to go get shoes. Zae Zae, do you know that Mom

my and Daddy are going to run a marathon? Yes. But how many miles? That is 26.2 miles, my friend. Oh my gosh! That's far, right? Do you want to run with Mommy and Daddy? No. No? You want to run with Mommy and Daddy, Ky Ky? No! 26.2 miles. It's going to be in New York City. New York City? Yeah. I'm serious. Okay, I hear that running shoes are very... What is this? Socks have like grips. This not my socks. Okay, so we need specific kind of shoes to start training... because those shoes apparentl

y will help us run better and not get injured. Okay, let's go. Okay boys, Mommy and Daddy's heading out for a bit, okay? Bye, guys. Bye. I want to go with you. No. Not this time, baby. If you guys out there have experienced running... leave it down in comment below what should we be thinking about. We're going to get some shoes right now. We're just excited too a little bit. We'll go check out what they have here. What we need. I don't know. We'll find out. How flat my feet is? Look at that.

You have very flat feet. What have we done? What did we sign up for, man? Pouches. Hydration vest. Dude, we're going to need all this while we're running. What's happening? What is it? Posture support. Dude, pumping bottles. It does remind me of pumping days. I mean I could get these and then I could just not run with these on most of time. And then when you really need it, then you have it. Yeah. Instead of buying two things, just buy one. You like that? I mean, it... Yeah, I want to see tha

t happening in the run. Oh, the size is nice. I like how anytime you try anything running, you immediately start running. But it's like you put it on and your body is like I supposed to run,. Okay, run. Run. Run. You look great but the real question is how do I look? Great. This is the kind of stuff that I'm going to hate because I totally hate like all that processed crap, you know. And all this is like super processed. It is but you need energy. Thank you so much. Daddy, what is for breakf

ast? Beignet. Daddy, is this ready? Almost, baby. Hold on. Daddy, I like the dough so much. It's a weekend, so training starts Monday. Eat all the fried food now. Perfect. Hey, Zae Zae. Can I match you with your brother? Yeah. Yes? Okay. Film free for this. All right, everybody ready to go? Sunglass, check? Got it? I got it. Yeah. Do you guys know where we're going? Napa. Napa! So it's Logesh's family's last full weekend here in California. So we want to take them to one of the most beautiful

 areas you could possibly go to... which is Napa, Wine Country. But there's more than just that. There's so many other beautiful things to see. But it is going to take us over an hour to get there. We have the Caravan because not all of us fit in one car. You want to go swimming? No. The marketplace? Yeah, let's go find for some cheese and some meat and some wine. That's what Napa. So you think the family is going to enjoy Napa or no? I think they already are. We've just started though. They

're taking the pictures with flowers. Hand me a baby daiyuns. You want to go with Daddy? No! No! Hey, we talk about these big fun things. Remember? Me. You. Okay? Let's do this. And Mama. Dada? Both of you. This is the milk. The low fat is so good. The salted caramel is so good. Now I got to try this one. Got sugar? Yeah. Would you guys drink? No problem. Okay. He double dip. This is American Napa wine picnic without wine. You ready, boys? That's not wine. That's just grape juice. We need to ra

tion it because we only have one bottle. My wife let me buy only one bottle. Ky Ky, smell and tell me what do you get? What do you smell? Yummy. Yummy. Mango. Mango? You smell like a mango? Okay. Okay. It has a slight smell like a mango. Oh, I love it Where's one for me? Whoa! Thank you. Oh, you got more? Oh, wow. They just keep coming. Oh, your brother's coming with more, I think. Hold on. Are you laughing because I'm so white? Yes. You blend out, man. You blend in with the sun. Let me see. I

want to see. Let me see. Oh! That's so cute. Chibu, what's everyone doing over there? What? Let me see. Picking oranges. You want to come? Yeah. Let's go. Come on. Show me where. Up there. Hey, you guys stealing oranges? It meant to be plucked, so we're not stealing. See, the bunch there. Hey, what yall doing? What is going on here, friends? Hey! Hey! You can't even put it in your pocket, man. It's too big. What? Fam, it's a very emotional day today. We're here at Whole Foods to pick up a cake.

.. because we're going to celebrate two very special people in our live. Rachel. Rach. They don't have a cake writer, so he's trying to write on the cake. And we're just going to take whatever we get. We have to take whatever we get. I used to decorate cakes, so this is... I mean if it's really bad, we just run away. Stop. Right? We haven't paid it. You'd never show your face here ever again. That looks good. Yeah, we'll take it. Thank you so much for doing this. Thank you very much. We apprec

iate it, man. Thanks. He's like, well we just don't make what the bakers make. So we like made him do something outside of his job. It's okay. Take your time. It's all right. For those of you who don't know, my parents have lived with us for over 3 years and... they've never owned a house. They finally got to buy one which is wonderful. The problem is it's all the way over in North Carolina which is the opposite side of the continent. Tonight we're doing a farewell dinner for them. It's okay

, baby. Her parents have been living with us for several years... and they're finally moving out because they got a house which is great. It's heartbreaking because you know we won't be with them. We won't be close to them. But we're happy for them. Because they finally are able to own their own home and move in their own home. And they're going to be near my sister. And she's got two little ones, so like I'm so glad  that they going to be near their grandparents. But selfishly, I want them

for myself. So tonight we're just going to go and celebrate them... because after this, we just we don't know when we going to see them again. But yeah, let's go give them a good farewell. Okay? Let's go. You okay? It's okay, baby. Rachel, I got you. Yeah, Avengers. I got it from Mimi too. Mimi. I know but mine's traditional. Reusable. You know what's even more special about it? I got it from Mimi. Oh, you got it from Mimi? You got it from Mimi? Oh, it's a cycle. Mimi makes me cry but she suppl

ies tissue. The chicken tenders. You want the tenders? How do you ask? Please. Of course. Would you like fries with that one? Yes. Okay, perfect. Hey, Kyren. What's in your pocket? Why is it so heavy? I can't even dump this out with one hand. Okay. I think he spent for dinner. Oh, great. He's got lots of gold coins. Yeah, I do. Not going to lie. This looks incredible. Pretty close to Danielle's. No, it doesn't. Come on. It's huge. This is amazing. Do we sing a song for this? Where's the candles,

Rachel? I was about to put the candles... She asked about candles but no candles for going away cake. A sparkle? Yes, that' be great. Thank you. She asked you. Why you said no? Because it's not a birthday. Why not? We don't put candles on going away cake. It's more festive. Wait for my going away party. We had like sparkles. It is a black and white cake. So we thought it'd be appropriate because we got you know, brown family, white family. And it's mixed. It's mixed. The cake is mixed as i

s our family. Thank you! Did you read what's written on it, Grandpa? We have to sing something. Decide. Decide. Quick. We have to say something. Maybe see you again. Yes. Yes. Yes. And I'll tell you all about it when I see you again. It's been a long time without you my friend. I'll tell you all about it when I see you again. Yeah, that's all we know. Blow it up. Blow it up. Oh, thank you, Zae Zae. Zae Zae blowing it from all the way over there. Yeay! What's your favorite part of living  with us

that you can remember? I think that's really easy. The boys. I knew he was going to say that. Yep. I mean... The top three. Top three? Okay. Zaden, Kyren and Zaden Kyren. Yeah, Zae and Ky. Definitely. I mean... When I'd sit out in the morning reading... and the boys would come and jump in my lap early in the morning. I mean it doesn't get better than that. Yeah. I loved being exposed to the food. The Malaysian food. Yeah! Okay. Okay. Even the durian. Okay. Okay. I think just living with family

, just being with you guys. It was good. What's your least favorite part of living with us? I think what it was as time went on and we were unable to visit Miriam but especially Sarah... So your other daughters? Yeah, the other kids. And then Mimi's health was declining. And so it's like... As you know, we came into it not expecting to really leave. At least not for a long time. That was the least favorite part was not having the freedom to go... and to do things especially with the other ki

ds. That would definitely be it. What is one of your favorite memories? I think definitely when we went to England and France. Oh, yeah? That was fun. I wish we had a few more stairs to climb. Lots and lots of stairs. But yeah just taking the boys to soccer. That would be something else that  you know was really good. Just waking up in the morning and and being with you know one of our families. One of our daughters and son-in-laws. So yeah. Don't cry. It's okay. Stop. We hated every minute of

it. It was horrible. Well anyway thanks for living with us. Choosing to use your time to live with us and serve us and we appreciate it. We'll miss you. And likewise. We'll miss you. I mean we already do. It's okay. We'll be back. But thank you guys. Yeah. It's okay, Rach. You are my favorite youngest daughter. Thanks, man. Love you guys. Love you too. I love you! I can't even get words out. I know I'm so blessed to have lived with my parents for so long... and to have them close... and that t

hey're both still alive. It's not that they've gone away forever but... I didn't expect it to hurt this much. It just makes me think of even for Logesh leaving his country, moving overseas and leaving his family. Like good byes are really hard. Even if it's for a good reason.