How to be SO CHARMING that PEOPLE CAN'T IGNORE

if there's one skill that you must master in order to get anything in life be it in relationships be it in your career or be it even in your friend Circle then that is the skill of charm and Charisma and yes you may think that charm is something or Charisma is something that some people have some people don't have and that is just the way it is and these people who are Charming just get their way with everything they get the best jobs they get the best relationships everyone loves them they don'

t really have to try too hard and life just seems so easy for them and while you may think that charm just has to do with looks or just has to do with how someone dresses or how someone speaks I'm here to tell you that charm is something that you can work on and charm is something that you can build and honestly guys once you build this skill of Charisma and once you build this skill of charm you can quite literally live your life on an easy mode and just have everything come to you everyone att

racted to you and life becomes a lot more interesting and that's why in this video I'm going to share with you how you can build your charm how you can build your charisma and how you have everyone respect you and admire you but at the same time also adore you so without any further Ado let's get into the exact Charming recipe the reason why we find some people so charismatic and so charming and while sort of not very impressed by others is because the people who are charismatic and the people w

ho are Charming have a very good balance between their energies and when I say energies like don't get scared I mean I'm pretty sure a lot of you open this video thinking that I'll give you some tips about you know dressing well smiling putting on perfume and all these things but come on we've heard all of that already and that's why we want to take a little little bit deeper and get into the exact thing and that is where energy comes into place so the thing is that we as human beings all have t

wo very prominent energies within us and whether or not we realize it or whether or not we sort of work towards it they are still present so the two energies are called the yin energy and the Yang energy so the yin energy is more on the feminine side it's more on the lighter side so if someone has a lot of Yin energy in them then they have a lot of empathy they have a lot of nurturing aspects to them they have a lot of kindness to them they can listen to people they can empathize with people the

y can always understand what the other is feeling and they're also very open like when you meet someone who has a lot of he energy in them you can go to them you can talk to them you can have a light conversation with them and you won't feel any sort of way with them you won't feel intimidated you won't feel like they're judging you cuz it's very open it's very feminine it's very nice it's very nurturing and all these things and the second energy that we have within us is the Yang energy and yan

g energy is more on the confidence side right so someone who has a lot of Yang energy in them then they seem like very confident they can speak very actively they can think very clearly they can always go after their goals and they're very determined and they are sort of assertive come across as more dominant they'll always get the work done they'll seem very goal oriented they'll seem very productive and they'll seem like this person has their together but at the same time if someone is predomi

nantly in their Yang energy and they lack any sort of you know Yin energy in them then they'll also lack compassion for others they lack some empathy for others they'll sort of be stuck in their goal oriented mindset they'll be stuck in their masculine mind mindset and they'll always see things as tasks they'll always see things that okay I have to get this done I have to get that done and that's why when someone interacts with them they'll sometimes come across a little harsh and a little rude

and at the same time if someone is predominantly in their Yin energy then people just won't take them seriously yes this person is nice this person is sweet you can go to them you can talk to them you can dump everything on them but someone who has a lot of Y energy in them they also sort of lack boundaries within themselves so when you speak to them they'll listen to you they wouldn't know how to you know say no to you they'll always do everything for you they'll be nurturing for you they'll be

kind for you but at the same time they'll just keep on training themselves because they can't have that a Cess about them they don't have this confidence about them that can tell people you know what I'm a nice person but I can still say no to you and I can still do what I want to do and that is exactly where being predominantly in your human energy will be a disadvantage to you so the thing is that the only way you can come across is confident amazing empathetic goal oriented and all these thi

ngs in one package is by being at a balance with your hin and and a Yang Let's do an exercise right now guys think of your favorite celebrity right now someone that you just adore and just admire and you know whenever you think of them you're like yeah this person seems so Charming like this person just has it going on for them and everyone seems to love them and somehow I also can't like say that I don't because this person is just so Charming think of that one person okay and now tell me if yo

u think that they are predominantly in their masculine or in the feminine usually these people have a good balance of both not not only are they goal oriented masculine and all these things but they also have a nice soft feminine nature they listen to people they're empathetic and all these things and when you have a good balance of both of these energies then you become sort of Unstoppable so let's take an example over here my sort of favorite celebrity or someone that I can look up to and some

one I think is super super Charming is srk Shah ruk Khan and it is not a coincidence and it is not surprising that he is so so famous everyone loves him everyone adors him when I first heard one wherever he goes he always gets the respect he's also famous worldwide even if he goes outside India he'll get all the appreciation it's not often that I'm downright intimidated by the person I'm about to interview but srk is a legend he'll get all the praise and for someone who's come from such humble b

eginnings you have to give it to him for winning literally everyone's heart because if you watch any of his interviews whenever he's speaking he speaks in a very confident manner he speaks like he knows what he's talking about and at the same time he also Smiles he also has this empathetic nature to him he also likes to listen to other people's perspective and most importantly he always stays humble and people love a person like that right someone who has everything one could aspire to get someo

ne who has achieved so much in life but at the same time the person chooses to stay humble the person chooses to stay positive the person chooses to stay more on the nicer side and because he is in his Divine masculine he can also be such a man and that is very well complemented by his feminine side so that is exactly how you charm people and that is exactly how you have a good balance between Your Divine masculine and your divine feminine so let's talk about how you can actually balance these e

nergies and how you can use it in a way that is very charismatic and very charm so step number one in order for us to balance a yin and a Yang is to actually understand where are we lacking so if you're someone who has a lot of Yang energy in them so you have this goal oriented mindset and you always get the work done and you always have all these things in place but at the same time people don't think you're empathetic people don't think you're sweet and people somehow are always intimidated by

you then that is a good sign for you to see that you have a lot of Yang energy and you need a little bit more of Yin energy and at the same time if you're someone who's super sweet super amazing super nice super empathetic and everyone sort of takes you for a ride and then you wonder that why this is happening to you all over again again and again and people just don't take you seriously people don't respect you a lot then maybe you lack a lot of Yang energy in you so if you're someone who lack

s in their feminine energy if you feel like you're progressing in your work everything in your work life is as amazing as you could ever imagine but when it comes to relationships you somehow suffering somehow feel like okay maybe this is not going very very well then maybe you're lacking in your feminine energy and that is your Yin energy the way we can build our feminine energy is to sort of connect with our gut feeling or connect with our intuition intuition is this Instinct that we have abou

t things right so you meet someone and you're like something is not right with this person I don't know what it is but I know that something is not right with them and that is your intuition telling you that sometimes you feel like I just have to do this I don't know why I just have to do this I just have to go for it I just have to do it and that is also your intuition guiding you so when we more in our logical mind AKA our masculine mind we don't work from our intuition we don't work from our

gut feeling and somehow we also don't go for our passions go for our dreams so next time when you get a gut feeling about something or you get an inclination about something then try tapping into that energy and try doing that thing okay instead of just shoving it off and being like no my logical mind is going to guide me don't do that just relax and follow that gut feeling and let things go and live life as it is meant to be the second thing is to embrace receptivity or to embrace receiving som

e when we more in a masculine energy we feel like we can't take help from anyone because I'm going to make it on my own I'm going to do everything on my own and no help for me thank you please cuz I am boss or whatever the thing is that when you rely more on that strategy step more into your masculine energy and you leave your feminine energy behind so again if you want to be charismatic you want to be charming and you want a good balance of that so the next time someone compliments you take tha

t compliment okay someone thinks that you're pretty just say thank you like don't be like no no no I'm not pretty whatever no no like don't say that to me no just say thank you and just take that compliment if someone wants to support you someone wants to help you out in anything take that be grateful for them you know be grateful for their help because we need each other to sort of build right so we can't just do everything by ourselves is that you have to be open to receiving you have to be op

en to receiving compliment support help all these things that doesn't make you any less of a person and that does not make you smaller than the person who's trying to help you so try to step into more that receptive energy more of that receptive mode the third thing that you'll do is you'll nurture yourself and you'll nurture your body you'll nurture your mind you'll focus on your well-being you'll focus on your physical health your mental health and all these things because again when we more i

n our masculine energy we more in our masculine side we don't think about ourselves we don't think about our body and we never kind to ourselves and that is exactly where nurturing yourself comes into place so take some time out for yourself and do what matters to you you know have some skin care days have some you know self-care days I mean I don't have to explain any of that do all these things do things that make you happy and then once you feel like you've nurtured yourself enough you feel a

mazing about your body you feel amazing about your emotional health your mental health and all these things then extend this nurturing nature to other people okay be kind to others be empathetic to others because anyways it's a very rude and a very harsh world we live in so a little bit of kindness a little bit of nurturing and you know all that amazing kindness going out in the world will only do good to everyone else and to you as well and it will also help you build that feminine energy in yo

u the third way you can nurture Moree of your feminine energy is to get ready for things you know don't just show up maybe you can you know take effort into your appearance take effort into how you look and you know you can wear some makeup and if you're a guy then you can at least look crisp clean wear some colong you know brush your hair and all these things because you want to be presentable and being presentable is one of the feminine traits and that's why a lot of guys don't do it and as a

female again you have to do all these things you have to take care of your hair you have to take care of your body you have to dress well you have to smell good and the last thing that we'll do in order to build our feminine energy is to connect with nature and to ground ourselves in so again when we in a masculine energy all we're thinking about is I have to get this done I have to get that done you know I have to be at this place that place and that sort of clogs our brain so again when you go

out in nature you connect with Mother Nature you sit with the trees you sit with the breeze and all these things it helps you calm down gets you into that receptive amazing calm mode and helps you live a more peaceful life so now that we've spoken every thing about feminine energy and Yin energy and if you feel like yes I have enough Yin energy with me but I somewhere lack some masculine energy and I somewhere lack some Yang energy so say for example if you're a guy and you have really good fem

ale friendships around you and you feel like yeah we have a nice friendship you have a nice Bond you know you can understand them they can understand you everything on that front is good but when it comes to dating them if you feel like you like someone and you tell that person you always get friend zoned then there is a reason to that and that is that maybe you have a lot of Yen energy in you which is not a bad thing which is actually a good thing but you do lack a lot a lot of Yang energy and

that is actually a problem a lot of the guys are facing these days and somehow people say or guys say that you know nice guys finish last nice guys finish last but I'm here to tell you and take me as your younger or your elder sister whatever you'd like and this is not just my opinion this is also the opinion of a lot a lot of female friends that I have in my life so nice guys don't finish last guys who are nice but not mascul Uline are the ones that finish last right nice guys who are masculine

always finish first right they are the only people who finish first and then everyone else comes after them so it's not a bad thing or a good thing so if you have a lot of feminine energy already in you you have those skills of empathy and you have the skills of listening people you have the skill of understanding people that's not a bad thing that's a very good thing but you still need those masculine traits in you right still need that trait of being confident enough when you're outside being

confident enough to protect the partner that you have in your life being confident enough to take responsibility for them you know taking care of when you need to or being that person that women can depend on when needed so I feel like both men and women need young energies but they need them in very very different ways a man needs it more to lead to protect and all these things and sort of to become a shiverers gentleman and a woman needs it to sort of maintain her Integrity maintain her moral

s maintain her viewpoints on saying during her job if she is in a professional career then to you know assert herself in that career build her place to make that place and to make it stick for herself and either way we all need masculine energy so if you are someone who lacks masculine energy then let's get into how you can actually build that hand energy for the rest of your life first thing that you'll do is you'll start building your internal self-confidence that is your internal confidence i

n your abilities in your way of speaking in your way of doing things and in your way of you know going in the world because confidence is so so important you guys confidence is one of the traits or one of the very very big traits of masculine energy the reason why why so many guys get friend zers because even though they are the nicest guys they don't have that confidence about them and they walk in the room they don't walk with that okay I know stuff okay when I'm going to talk people are going

to listen they don't have that energy about them and obviously women can sense that and that is why they don't feel attracted to that and even as a woman you need confidence right when you're talking you need to be assertive you need to speak like you know what you're talking about confidence has its own energy honestly confidence has its own Aura and sometimes people can just fake it sometimes people can just wake up with it but either ways you have to build it and I've made a separate video a

ll about how to build confidence which I will link right here so if you want to check that video out you can check it out but as for now just know that the basic way you can build your confidence is start setting small goals for yourself so if your goal is to basically be more social from today and set a very very small goal and Achieve that so maybe talk to one person and then set a bigger goal about that and then try to fulfill these goals you know step by step step by step and once you keep d

oing this your confidence in your abilities and your confidence in yourself will start to BU and you can also do self affirmations for yourself you can always wake up in the morning and say to yourself that I am a confident person and say it so much that you start believing it when I was building my confidence when I was building my personal abilities I used to wake up every single day and I had a set of affirmations for myself which I used to say every single day and uh one of my affirmations w

as I own every room I walk into I own every room I walk into and while it felt a little weird when I was seeing it initially the more I kept seeing it the more I started to believe it and then like a few months later when I was walking into rooms I was walking with that energy and I knew I knew for a fact that because I had that energy about me and because I was walking with that confidence people could feel it and people were so gravitated so that's exactly how you know affirmations can help yo

u so again affirmations also are a very very good thing the second way how you can build masculine energy is to take responsibility okay stop showing it down on other people stop giving away your responsibilities to everyone else and not being accountable for anything being responsible and being accountable for your actions helps you build that Yang energy in you and it helps you build that you know internal stamina in yourself internal confidence so the next time when you want to avoid responsi

bilities or you know when you don't want to take any accountability for your actions know that you're aligning yourself more in the yin energy and if you need a good balance you have to take up some responsibility you have to be accountable for your actions you have to do these things and the third thing is to set boundaries for yourself so boundaries for yourself is having a very clear understanding of what your limits are and what you will and will not tolerate and being very clear and being v

ery assertive about those boundaries to the world the next time someone tells you that you know stay one more hour or you know do this for me do that for me and if you don't align with that and if that is somehow testing your limits and somehow making you less of a person then you put your boundaries there and you say that a no is a no I am not going to do this for you that is not aligned with my morals which is why I I will uphold my boundaries I will be assertive about this and I will not go f

or it and a lot of people have spoken about emotional boundaries in friendships and all these things but I also want to speak about physical boundaries if you don't want to go in a certain direction that you are being led to and you feel like that is not in your interest or that is not aligned to your personal self then you also have to uphold that physical boundary and say no usually when we in a situation we start to think with our emotions and we start to think about all the possibilities tha

t the situation can us even though that is not promised and that is exactly where we don't uphold our boundaries and then we wonder why we keep getting hurt again and again again and again it's like shooting yourself in the foot and then asking why you got hurt so be very mindful about what you're getting into and if you actually want to get into that or not and if not then please learn how to say no because if you're not being promised commitment or if you're not seeing genuine interest for com

mitment then I guess it is completely fair to uphold that physical boundary for yourself cuz when you don't uphold your physical boundaries with someone then their energy enters your pure body and then your gut feeling and your intuition and all those amaz is all messed up and the more you do it the Lesser it gets so that's why it is not just a thing to protect yourself but it's also a thing to protect your inner body to protect the amazing gut feeling that we have the amazing feminine energy th

at we have so to protect it as well we need a lot of boundaries for ourselves and that is exactly where a masculine energy comes into place the next way you can build masculine energy you can build Yang energy in you is to build resilience so if you're faced with setbacks if you're faced with challenges if you're faced with failures do not give into those failures do not just succumb to those failures and do not just be like this is who I am you know this is what is happening to me I will raise

my hands and now go back to my old self CU this is not meant for me if you keep doing that then you'll never build that resilience in yourself and if you don't build that resilience if you don't build that stamina to face challenge challenges regardless of you know what is happening in your life you will never build that masculine energy in you the next way you can build your yang energy is to honor your values so we all as human beings have certain values certain virtues that we stick to right

this is what I value this is what I don't value this is what I believe in this is what I don't believe in so when you have such strong values for yourself and you abide by those values you build a lot of yank energy in you but at the same time if you keep on shoving down your values if you don't respect yourself enough and you don't uphold those values if you don't uphold those things that you promised yourself predominantly shift in your H energy which also means that you won't be taken serious

ly the next way to build masculine energy is to practice assertiveness be assertive about your opinions be assertive about what you're speaking and say it with confidence and there's a very big difference between dominating and being domineering so dominating is a person who is assertive who knows what they're talking about and they'll do the work they'll get it done in a right way but a domineering person is just someone who's aggressive so usually either people are not assertive at at all evil

people are not dominating at all and when they do get dominating they become domineering they become super aggressive so don't be such an imbalance okay you have to balance that energy and that balance is when you're assertive in a nice respectful manner if you have certain thoughts that you think are very true to you then stand true to those thoughts stand true to those opinions and be assertive about it be confident about it don't think so much about what this other person will think about yo

u or you know how many people will judge you none of that matters and the last on how you can build your yang energy is to honor your commitments so do not fail on your commitments if you've made a commitment to a certain person that I'll be there with you you on this day at this time then do not just cancel last minute because that sort of decreases your credibility that decreases your reliability and the next time that person will trust you a lot lesser you have to show up when you promise to

show up okay not just for a meeting but for everything in life if you promise yourself that you'll do this much by this week that and you have to get it done okay you don't have to wait for another week to come and that is where discipline comes into place which is another Yang trade so you have to be disciplined you have to be committed you have to be consistent all these things will also come under Yang energy so try working on all these things you can watch this video again things and try to

see how many traits you already have and how many traits you lack if there are certain traits that you lack and certain traits that you have then you can start working on the traits that you lack and if there are a lot of traits that you lack both from Yin and from Yang then try to combine a list of all those traits for yourself and start working on them because the more you work on them the better it gets right and once you start working on these trades you know trade by trade trade by trade tr

ust me guys you will balance out that energy you will balance out your ying and your yang and you will eventually become very very charismatic so if you're interested in content like this such just content about productivity content about self-improvement and honestly content about making this life your best life possible and this channel is for you so do hit the Subscribe button down below and hopefully I will see you on my next [Music] one