[Music] hey what's up it's me Jessica J sorry I was karaoke all weekend and I only just now realized that I still don't have that much of a voice however it's time for a video and I was wondering if you were wondering how to not be boring even though you're quiet like me right now and to make sure you never miss out on another opportunity to hear how you can make an impact when you don't have that much of a voice or another one of my videos don't don't forget to hit that subscribe button with th
at notification Bell okay guys sorry I'm going to have to you're going to have to bear with me and hopefully my editors can increase my volume so y'all can hear me anyway so I have a lot of clients that come to me and you know they're not the extroverted boisterous loud obnoxious type that they think they need to be in order to get women but I'll tell you right now that's not what we interpret as boring is guys who aren't like that you don't have to be extroverted or talk a lot to get women want
ing you in fact that's my favorite consequence of being in this program is my clients realizing that they actually don't have to talk as much or they could afford to talk a little less so if you know you want to get to this place where you are captivating women you want without having to say more especially if you are the quiet type book your call with me and my team right now Jessica J dating.com SL book and we'll make it happen for you so I talked about how being quiet isn't what we interpret
as boring but what we do interpret as boring is when we don't have a vested interest in what's being said to us I'll tell you right now I've been out with plenty of super extroverted super talkative guys who never [ __ ] shut up about things I'm not interested in and I'll sit there in my head thinking oh my God I'm so [ __ ] bored right now and here they are thinking that they're like so good at talking cuz I I like to talk I could talk to anyone that's not necessarily a good thing when it comes
to women but here's the thing that's why most men think that they need to have common interests with women because when they happen to come across a topic that she's interested in they think she's interested in him but I'm telling you you talking about the thing that she's interested in is not her being interested in you and that's why it's going to feel like hit or miss and that's why you can have great conversations with women talking about common interest and never [ __ ] hear from her again
because let me tell you something if that were the case every woman would be attracted to every man who had common interests with her and I would have been done [ __ ] every single dude that liked Game of Thrones I'll tell you right now that's a lot of dudes I haven't done it take my word for it but here's the beautiful part that works to your advantage our number one interest out of anything out there we could ever [ __ ] be interested in is ourselves so if you can be relatable every single ti
me you open your mouth mouth which is what I talked about in Monday's video she will be hooked every single time you open your mouth just imagine if every time you said anything it was interesting you Captivate by the [ __ ] millions and the way to do this and I know it's going to sound a little you know you're going to be a little scared all my clients are a little scared at first of doing this is to say exactly what you're thinking the second it happens that is your truest most genuine self is
that split second thought that you have the second that you have it that's the closest you will ever be to being yourself is that first initial thought that we normally filter and fine-tune before we give out to the world but if you could say exactly what you're thinking when you're thinking it anybody listening will be interested 100% of the time because you are giving your in the- moment thoughts you are giving your in the moment self and every human being has that Split Second in the moment
self that they can relate to but I get it it's easier said than done like I said I have clients came in they're like Jessica I can't say that can I I'm like [ __ ] try it [ __ ] try it with my girls that's the whole point of this program and then they say it and then they can't believe they're making these [ __ ] laugh they can't believe the they're getting these girls interested in them because when you're out there trying to talk to women it can be a little jarring your uh defense mechanisms g
o up your anxiety goes up your survival instincts go up cuz you don't want to blow it you don't want to feel like [ __ ] and that's why my program is designed the way it is where we week after week after week after week you practice utilizing these new modes of communication with my girls in a safe space where you get to see in real time how these women respond you get to go back to the recordings and see how what you tried to do differently worked out really well for you so if you know that you
want eyes on your interactions with women to try out this stuff that you know you're supposed to be doing but can't seem to conjure up in the moment book your call with me and my team right now Jessica J dating.com book and we'll make it happen for you in 90 days or less okay so I don't even know if this video is going to be made cuz I don't even know if y'all can even really hear what I'm saying but my point is if you're a shy quiet guy you do not need to be anything more you just need to know
how to Captivate whenever you do feel like opening your mouth or not and the way to do it is with me and my team or by just saying exactly what you're thinking every single time you do and if you want to practice doing so Jessica dating.com sbook thanks for watching and and I'll see you guys next time
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