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Introduction, Congratulations on choosing this book and thank you for doing so. Have you ever been in a situation where you are very confident at first but very confused when you step out of that situation? Ho, without any validation, what did the other person do that you agreed with him ? Has it ever happened that you walked out of a conversation agreeing to do something for someone, but not knowing that Why have you agreed in the first place? Chances are you've been manipulated, either by pla

ying on your emotions or by persuasive words. You were led to believe and act on something you initially believed completely did not agree rest you may be completely confident before starting you may find yourself at a loss for words manipulation may feel like you are being controlled and doubt your own abilities if you are constantly Plated, you start feeling dejected and discouraged, you'll be wondering and wondering why you didn't see this coming, though you could have rocked it if you knew h

ow to analyze the signs that Signals that something is not going well Manipulates exploit your emotions and use their influence by distorting your mental perceptions to gain advantage from you They prey on your weakness and block communication between nations Those who take advantage of you are species designed to distract you so much that you don't see what they are doing until you are too scared. It is important to recognize what you need to do to protect yourself from being taken advantage of

. It facilitates a healthy balance of power in a relationship and it begins with learning how to analyze people to tell if you are being manipulated. Body language ranges from recognizing what someone is trying to eat or trying not to eat when you know what to look for to powerful words and subtle distress. Learning to analyze others can reveal some fascinating secrets and just as importantly, open your eyes to signs that you can take advantage of so that you can make progress. Thank you for pic

king up our book so that you can be fully up to speed, know that we know there is a lot of dumping material on one topic and we try to get maximum information that you can use every day Chapter One Manipulation ki tera niyama kya will you believe that in every jain wale moon of your life your mother is being manipulated or controlled in one way or the other not necessarily always by someone you know social media online news content whatever The advertising conversations you see and hear in tradi

tional media that we see and hear at work or in our personal lives are all some sort of manipulation or mother control and most of the time it is happening without you even realizing it. What you are going to read in the next chapter of this book can also be a form of manipulation that affects your thoughts to a certain extent. Why is it sensitive? How can our mind be known as holes This experiment on conformity was conducted in 1957 by Ashe in a series of psychological tests to find out the ext

ent to which a person's opinion of others can be influenced. The results were surprising . With peer pressure people were willing to ignore the facts or reality that were in front of them and resort to giving false or incorrect responses in order to conform with the rest of the group. Before that here is a quick question: do you consider yourself a Seen as a non-conformist or as a conformist most people believe that when they know what they are right in the larger part of things, they can be non

-conformist in the right mantra to stand against others. Research would suggest otherwise and that people may be more prone to conformity than they initially think. Here's a quick test. Imagine you are part of a psychological experiment with a group of many other people where everyone is taking a test. You are shown a series of oddly shaped images and asked what do you see when you look at them Some of the participants unanimously declared that they can see this exact image, but when you look at

the picture, you're seeing something completely different. It's you who's seeing the same picture of every other participant in the room. unified answer is what you would announce what other participants are giving Can be pressured to conform even if they know everyone else in the group is wrong The main purpose was to demonstrate how powerful conformity is power When a group didn't do their own experiment there were participants who were running in were pretending to be like all the other part

icipants as well as those who were actually unaware of what was happening. People who knew what was happening would behave in a certain way and the aim was to see how their behavior Each experiment consisted of a naive participant who was paired with a group of conscious participants. The group consisted of 50 participants and all were told that they were to participate in some sort of vision test. Those who knew what was going on were told in advance what their response would be to the task pre

sented. The naive participants had no idea that we were the ones who were blissfully ignorant. All Participants were given a line task and each had to announce verbally which line A, B or C was closest to the target line. A total of 18 different trials were conducted and participants who were aware had 12 out of 18 trials. The answers were wrong would change the creo according to how everyone else responded Everything was going well Aware people answered questions correctly even though they late

r started giving wrong answers as they were instructed by the users Results Interestingly, at the end of the Ash experiment, it was found that 75% of the participants in the conformity experiment at least once agreed with the answers of the rest of the group when all trials were combined that the naive participants agreed with the group's answers. Confirmed with incorrect answers about a third of the time. To determine whether participants could actually guess the correct length of these lines g

iven during the vision test, each participant was individually asked to write down the correct match. Results Participants' judgments were accurate based on the correct answer being chosen 98% of the time. Such experiments did not show how much the number of people present within the group could influence conformity when only one other participant was present. There was no effect when there were two participants, their answers had little effect on the answers of naive participants. In the presen

ce of 3 or more participants, there was a significant difference in the answers given by naive participants. An aware participant preferred the correct answer. While the rest of the aware participants gave incorrect answers, up to 10% of the participants knowing with other group members suggested that social support was an important element when it came to conformity when compared to naive participants. I was asked why they chose to go with the rest of the group even though they knew the answers

were wrong. Most answered even though they knew everyone else was wrong. They wanted to protect themselves from the risk of ridicule. Some participants believed that the rest of the group had the right answers and that those who were wrong were the ones who found out the truth in the larger of conformity which is actually influenced by the belief that other people may be smarter or more elegant and the rest Desperate to want to fit in with the group, why do we conform? For those who understand

how human beings do less then it becomes so much easier to take full advantage of the leverage they have to use this to their advantage. Using knowledge you can easily influence all other unsuspecting individuals with just a few well placed words or simple commands. Manipulation easily pulses you into a position of power when you play on someone else's emotions. easy target if you can convince someone and make them believe that they will be happy to do what you want they will be willing to bend

to your rules if you make them feel guilty enough they will try and will do whatever they can to make things right, even playing on someone else's fears, making them easy targets, convincing them that they can't tolerate what they're doing , or making any requests won't motivate further experimented and discovered that the actions we perform make us hypersensitive to conformity when more people are present when less is more difficult and we are faced with the uncertain we affirm when we believe

that others have better knowledge of the subject than we do when we view other people in the group as having more power or influence when participants are individually able to respond differently from others If the person concerned has at least one other person within the group who supports their point of view, the conformity is less . society and the fact that they are sneaky deceitful and secretive they will resort to using any tactics if they get what they want at the end of the day they have

little effect on your or anyone else's feelings here Even the ones they love. The only thing the mains have is their own agenda and getting what they want or will use over any other. This is the oldest and most effective method. Manipulators often resort to this tactic. when trying to avoid responsibility or twist the truth to their advantage. Some manipulators even resort to lying when there is no real reason to do so, just to create chaos or play with someone else's feelings. Flaunt the joy o

f knowledge A skilled manipulator knows how to reduce it so subtly that you don't even realize it's a lie . To hide the real radon so you don't know what they're doing. An employee who was worried about their job could contact a lot and ask about exposure or the possibility of exposure. In an attempt to hide what is going on, the employee may simply tell the employee that there is nothing to worry about. Plans have already been made to replace him after he actually underperforms on the assigned

project. A coworker who He's got an eye on a promotion He can rock potential information so he can put himself ahead of you Rule two Attracting attention A little drama in life is about keeping things interesting But drama is too often for a manipulator Why because they This is done intentionally . Manipulators like to be the center of attention to validate themselves and give their selves the confidence they feel they need. This ensures that peers A and B are at odds with each other. One partne

r in a relationship may constantly fight to ensure that the other's attention is constantly focused on them . and it's trying to fix a problem that doesn't exist Rule 3 Behaving Emotionally Manipulators can be overly emotional people when wanting to have things their own way Can be prone to outbursts Can be unpleasant Over de top even the slightest provocation resort to an emotional outburst that is applied most of the time in a social setting because one partner is behaving inappropriately when

things are not the way they are take recourse hoping that their partner might be embarrassed enough to give in to their demands then this is an extremely effective manipulation technique by ruling out playing the role of a victim everyone always pity them luck is the worst it doesn't matter what problem you're having it finds a way to make you feel guilty for even talking in this big how their problem is 10 times worse than yours we all have from time to time suffers from a blow of bad luck but

the manipulator skillfully manages to use her unlucky luck to elevate the status of her victim and place herself above everyone else . constantly plays the facade . He is resorting to this blatant tactic to attract attention. Tell them you had a bad day because your tire was punctured this morning on your way to work. Manipulators resort to this emotionally draining tactic to gain sympathy from others. Another way to gain attention and ensure that have everyone focused on them taking credit whe

re it's not dev manipulates swoop in to take from last minute like they've accomplished the lion's less it maneuvers manipulative cum around to hand over Run away when not really doing anything but when it comes time to take credit they have no problem taking you for ideas and the less you have done the less they are supposed to make you feel like that you need them in your life that you can't live without that makes you desperate to be part of a group be partners in a relationship that constant

ly remind you what would you do without me without kaise zindagi aahoge do the business a favor and help you at a time when you need it the most so that you feel indebted to her husband so that he can later make it up by living this date manipulators making this false impression You really need them in your life because the more you depend on them the more control they have over you all they really want is prey on the weak and make yourself the avoidant friend in your life What they have created

in this particular situation is that the more you lean on them for support, the more opportunities they have to prey on your emotions and exploit you for their own gain. Chainal honesty with the law. Have you ever felt that way? felt so wrong when you realized you only half knew what was going on it was because the person giving you the information was a manipulator and did it by either patting you in the back or hitting on the wrong have to feel from you because they only gave you the informat

ion they wanted you to be intentionally unaware of selective honesty a powerful manipulation tactic that can be used to disarm an unsuspecting victim a tactic that is especially common in settings today very prominent in the low but the manipulators use it all the time to push forward [MUSIC] who they know as well as reassure everybody that this is really what's going on Being generous by putting your leads on her but really making sure you're at least two steps behind her at every turn Rule 8 P

retending to be a friend Do n't be fooled by the overly friendly person you meet on your first day at the office Your elder may pretend to be your friend while gathering information that you can use to your advantage in an argument, although some people may be genuinely friendly if the person is a little too friendly by asking very personal or probing questions. start raising red flag especially if you are prominent within them that there is some band then maybe this manipulator may also exist w

ithin your own circle of friends pretending to be your friend who is in control of the conversation will always be the ones who say goodbye it should happen and it will only happen when they determine it should If you really have a friend then you will do this for me Roll the jeep of the manipulator very easily and always to their advantage Non committed person is not your friend He is a manipulator He takes pleasure in withholding his approval or support If it means giving yourself the opportun

ity to control the situation to your advantage, they are only looking out for themselves and they will avoid doing anything especially if it means taking responsibility. Being non-committal is an airfare strategy. which is often used in romantic relationships. When one romantic partner has it, it is to keep the other on their toes and have them lay back the more bananas. This gives the manipulator the upper hand. The longer their commitment. The more you back off and stoop, the more you'll be wi

lling to do just to get their approval. Rule 10 Playing the Ganges Is that coworker you know is really clueless about what's going on? Pretend innocence to avoid taking on extra responsibility. are doing Playing the Ganges is a stealth strategy that is often overlooked but if you look carefully you will find it evident in a lot of Peshawar settings. If you are a leader in a group project on the assign additional responsibility to something that was not certain in the larger of the few or delegat

e that additional responsibility to another The employee who was playing the fool then gets away with little but everyone else in the group gains recognition when When a conflict occurs between a group of friends, is it a friend who doesn't know what's going on, knowing full well that they were responsible for instigating the conflict in the first place ? The partner who does not know what you are talking about has been telling the truth when you tell him about an issue is he playing a silly gam

e to save his life from being caught in a lie Sometimes the innocent party is so innocent Power is there even if you are not. Law 11 Pointing fingers at others. A manipulator will always try to keep his hands clean first. Never assume responsibility. And the other will always try to point the finger so that whenever there is a problem, he is the one to save. Especially when That problem is potentially putting their reputation in jeopardy and power by exposing them for who they are . When you bla

me, you may be dealing with a manipulator. Keep an eye out for someone whose pattern of behavior always involves making someone else a scapegoat. Law 12: Telling You What You Want to Hear When You're Being Flattered It's hard not to feel good and you're inclined to like the guy who's flattering than the others. If you have that one guy in your life who always tells you everything you want to hear, are you his? Wouldn't be willing to follow or spend more time with them It's hard not to feel good

around people like that but telling you everything you want to hear isn't necessarily the mark of a good friend They can butter you up so that they talk date a big favor you can call it a crime to help them because i'm too good for you rule 13 controlling your judgment a classic setting when hair as controlling other's judgment exists within a romantic relationship while it is perfectly normal for you to base or change your crops because of your partner because there is a true exist within you t

o please them you are doing this because you don't want to risk offending them There 's a very fine line between manipulation in a relationship. If you find yourself redefining plans with your friends too often because your partner expresses their displeasure, it makes you feel bigger, then that's manipulation at play . If you want to avoid wearing clothes your partner doesn't like or prevent your partner from getting a haircut because they told you they don't like short hair, they are controlli

ng you without making it clear. It might start out as innocently enough with a couple of comments, like expressing that the clothes you're wearing don't look good here or that the way you're dressing should be something else, and suddenly you find that your life is clouded with nothing but decisions that don't make you happy because they are being dictated by someone who loves you the ethics of manipulation is it possible manipulation can be both good and bad Mention the word manipulation and wh

at immediately comes to mind is the negative connotations that come with the term. The use of dishonest and covert tactics to take advantage of someone else. The term has certainly gotten a bad reputation over the years. Even the phrases used to describe manipulation in drama paint a picture that is quite ugly or unpleasant. She's got it all wrapped around her little finger. I told my bus exactly what He wanted to hear they are supposed to be heart breakers I asked my friend to do what I wanted

This specific example of manipulation certainly does not have a positive effect on the situation for both the animals involved Bhima selfish cheater to those and using someone else for one's own benefit makes the larger disproportionate also makes one vulnerable to character. Allowing oneself to be so easily fooled has then always been seen as an act that is ruthlessly clever but manipulative and always one where a person is exploited or taken advantage of. Manipulation is viewed even more negat

ively when it is clear that the manipulative person has brazenly ignored the other's feelings and put his or her own selfish needs above everyone else's. Exploited others by pretending to be their friend and then using that information against them in the conviction whether in our personal or professional lives a fact which is a relief no one likes to know they have been mugged With such negativity attached to this difficulty , it is almost impossible to believe that there is a possibility that

manipulation can be used for good , even though it may be possible to make a difference. As surprising as it may sound, manipulation is not a bad thing. Manipulation is all around us and you often don't have to look very far to find evidence of it. Take for example advertising and marketing in their constant messages to stop us from buying this, buying that. And to stop doing so say they all are trying to do manipulation in our crops in some n some way which form of recent manipulation are reall

y trying to make us change better kheri and try to eat healthier But trying to do this to bring about a positive change in this matter quit smoking is for your own benefit so it's been healthy if you're for your own well being so isn't this manipulation a positive way around the world governments do to their people yet we sometimes choose to ignore it because it comes from more official research so to speak. Businesses do not exist without manipulation by creating products to increase their sale

s figures and then telling them to consumers. they always have to manipulate their customers whether it is used for good or bad manipulation still at the end of the day no one really has any right to dictate the actions of another even if we believe that it's to their advantage. What's such a convenient fallacy to deal with is the idea of ​​manipulation. Perhaps the fact that we don't like someone else's idea of ​​what we should do or motivates us to do something trying to do what we would not d

o otherwise. At least the manager tries to manipulate his employees all the time, however, good leaders do this to motivate their employees or to make them perform at their best. Effective managers skillfully use positive manipulation. has mastered the art of engineering and clouded it into an effective tool for managing its employee's performance to motivate them to reach their goals. This specific description can be classified as hell-fire. and what is referred to as persuasion is still a form

of manipulation but what separates it from the negative reputation attached depends on three things first your intention second your sincerity third the patriotism you try to persuade What is going to be of benefit or positive effect for what is being done Manipulation Vs Aun Aun means 3 major points are becoming the deciding factor whether you are trying to persuade or not to do manipulation when you persuade usually for the good of the other person when you manipulate you lie you deceive you

try to hide what is really happening when you persuade what you are trying to do In his big are able to be honest and forthright because you have no reason to hide let's not done for personal gain answer manipulation so there is no positive effect or benefit on the other party only on you When you persuade, you are trying to influence the other party so that he or she gets the most out of the situation. Every time you resort to persuasion, to create a positive impact on the world, to make others

act better. try to change they persuade donors raise the necessary funds and try to promote awareness among others at large of important issues that need to be addressed or changed The manipulation and evidence of these laws in our daily routine are manipulative puppet masters who sit behind the scenes pulling the strings playing mind games and persuading you to do the dirty work for them when you find yourself in a problem and you Don't know how this happened then the manipulator may have some

thing to do with it because this is where you spend most of your time Monday to Friday coming into contact with all kinds of persons some signs to look for that There may be a manipulator in your midst. They include any of the following: Too much flattery Seems insincere To a degree Showers of charm False sympathy Conversations that are one sided and you are the one who usually doesn't benefit from it You Attempts to verbally dread team projects where you find yourself taking on more responsibil

ity than others capable of shouldering the burden of a lesser but somehow not passive exposure feeling on the wrong or what is happening until the last minute Its big part is being left in the dark feeling left out on a life-threatening decision being very scared feeling like you weren't privy to some information spreading rumors or gossip around the office from one colleague to another Trying to pit yourself against a coworker who refuses to admit their mistake and tries to make up for it by sh

ifting the blame onto someone else always seems to be more brahma than a solution after you do. What makes these manipulations so dangerous, even when blatantly wrong, is that they sometimes don't stop. You may have fallen for people who are in your immediate circle of friends or family, even though they don't know. It's so hard to see who they are and what they're up to because you're not a star you want to believe. These people you admire can resort to this kind of behavior . All four exist an

d it is only when we wake up and pay attention to the following evidence that we begin to realize that there may be more manipulation in our lives than we would like to admit and Manipulation preparation rules can happen to you right this minute they build your confidence when it lowers it in their favor only to tear you down when you are meeting someone for the first time if they immediately praise you and Be careful when you start showering flattery, it could be one of the 13 Laws of Manipulat

ion when they tell you what you want to hear they can play you like a fiddle by telling you everything you want to hear And if you think they might be playing it a little too thick, you're probably right. They can build your confidence and coerce you into believing that you can trust them enough to reveal information. They question your reality only to read you later when it's convenient for them. The friend who tells you you're just imagining it. You're making a big deal out of it. Not doing it

for the sake of it. It 's okay to vent your fear from time to time but every time you bring it up your pitiful dismissal or ridicule rises up to assure you that you are over reacting. sounds pretty honey but if it goes on for too long it can make you start cringing at everything making it hard for you to trust your own judgment they off topic Starting to delete is a classic sign that you have less on your hands with a potentially manipulative character who veers off topic and takes the conversa

tion in an entirely different direction than they do. There is a reason and that reason is often to make you feel confused and disinterested. This is a favorite tactic of many politicians who use topic differences as a distraction. They target you by telling you that you are too emotional to seek your opinion. scolds you for your views even give you a negative label so think twice before you express your opinion social media has made it easy for the manipulator to sit comfortably behind your key

board or your screen and maximize your symptoms made it easy to make long general statements aimed at recognizing the emotional damage that many of his statements have no basis in fact You will see that many of their statements do not have any rational basis for these claims in fact. Their only motive is to serve their own goals. They love skin labeling. You know this in your life who make exaggerated claims. Likes to make you feel big which exposes how biased you can be will turn around and mak

e you the big man if you show him how much you like him in a big way comments you can't take a joke they never appreciate you no matter what you do for them There'll never be enough hymns no matter what you do Won't be satisfying enough Tell me you can dance And they'll ask you if you can do math while you dance Tell them you've been doing it for a while Happily married he will ask how long have you waited and why haven't you started a family yet Tell him anything and everything If you go out wi

th another group of friends he'll be more likely not to invite you Will make you feel bigger in a relationship when you don't live up to their expectation. The manipulative partner can make you feel bigger if you tell them you can't manage dinner and a movie together because you're afraid. Need to slow down and ask if it's okay to have dinner alone then you might get an answer like sure I feel like it I was really looking forward to both of you but I guess if you're happy with it then it's okay

Subtly turning things around and pretending that you are at fault is what manipulators do best. This toxic person can even be a member of your own family and this is one of the hardest truths to accept. Thinking that your own family may be capable of manipulating you is a thought that no one wants to face but it just so happens that you are dealing with manipulative family members in your home then look out for the following signs Keep every encounter makes you feel tired because it's always in

his big He almost always involves high emotions Whenever around he makes you feel big in his big He constantly tries to find fault with you Constantly either play the victim or refuse to admit your mistakes You find yourself shielding yourself from their company because you don't want to be around them You always have to give in to your desires to satisfy their needs You find yourself having to show what you say around them because this isn't the first time they've tried to use what you say to a

ttack you personally . You feel guilty for not spending time with them You feel like you have to pretend to be someone you are not when you are around them Chapter Two I feel like I am being manipulated There are certain people in your life who make it so difficult for anyone to get along with. They can be unbearably bossy, emotional, domineering, unstable, arrogant, rude, and a whole host of other challenging personality traits . can be influenced even with careful management. Some characterist

ics and traits may be more harmful than others to such an extent that no amount of management will be able to ameliorate the toxicities of their behavior. These people are usually manipulative. are doers and don't want to be exposed directly explain dark psychology they don't call someone a manipulator why being called a manipulator is seen as taking you against someone else's character and sometimes we are manipulative gaslighting A general manipulation term is when you try to encourage someone

else to make a pact with you on your own decision in favor of life If we are, it is a form of manipulation . Being pressured to agree with the group just to get approval or approval is a form of manipulation. This is happening all the time around us and in society . All the other motivators we use separates manipulation from triangle Which is being manipulated For example open cigarette advertisement it induces you to sleep it is call but it directly has harmful effect on your health Phishing o

r scams which manipulate you to sleep that you a big amount Politicians in some countries rely on manipulation tactics to undermine the bulwark of democracy in the form of fraud or identity theft. Direct and more often than not the harmful effects of manipulation that What differentiates it from all other persuasive tactics is that is why it is not referred to as persuasion. Lastly and there is a genuine desire to create a situation that benefits the other party . That is persuasion. If you are

sincere from the beginning in this big what you are trying to do . Manipulation doesn't necessarily produce much less deleterious consequences if your intent is to confuse, ridicule, blame, cause guilt, and use them to your advantage even if your actions blow the way out. It's manipulation you know it. that it might upset someone else or see the larger yet you do it anyway then it is manipulation if you don't let the consequences of your actions flow into the larger and what they can do to someo

ne else unless Believe it or not it is manipulation At the end of the day it is the intention that determines whether your actions make you a manipulator or not From social media to advertisements we see covert manipulation tactics are everywhere even in person Sales tactics are also attacked when trying to make a purchase. Even children resort to manipulation tactics from time to time as they begin to experiment with the various triangles that reduce them to give them autonomy. are those you lo

ve and trust the most and here are some examples of everyday normal individuals who may resort to dark psychology more than others [MUSIC] People who have been medically diagnosed as Narcissistic Cysts especially their own values ​​carry a preconceived notion which means they always need to validate this belief by making them superior to others around them worshiped and worshiped by the public Jaan 's dream haunts him and he worships him. The type lacks the ability to realize favoritism and isn'

t genuine because they are only doing it for their own benefit. The third fish people are someone who has a hidden agenda and puts themselves first before others. Black has the ability to resort to manipulation tactics if the result is a victory for them. 4th politician votes for themselves which they need and to get the public to vote the way they want them to. Politicians are used as means to serve their ends. Guilty of resorting to dark tactics of persuasion as a fifth lawyer Some lawyers wil

l stop at nothing if it means winning their own way even if it means they have to resort to dark tactics to do so against someone else Things can be so focused that they have no problem resorting to manipulative tactics to get the buyer to do what they want . Seventh leader Not all leaders are there to inspire and some are there to satisfy their demands. Rely on manipulation to get others to speak Eighth time in public Not all public speakers can be trusted and there are some who will resort to

manipulation if it means doing so has the opportunity to sell more product These are just a few of the many examples that would appeal to the more malevolent side of the human personality spectrum and not always for others but for themselves. Personality traits within a society can bring about the spectrum. To name just a few, research has shown that these malevolent traits all share one thing in common: that they have a It is quite possible that if you exhibit one of these tendencies, you have

the potential for others . Sadistic behavior has the potential to overlap. You may have even encountered a Scientologist once or twice in your life. Maybe deliberately misrepresenting it in an unflattering manner with the intent of getting another person to recognize the damage to their reputation. Double life Secrets that anyone knows To be private Intentionally trying to frame a coworker behind their back Intentionally jeopardizing a coworker's reputation by their absence A coworker, family me

mber, friend, or even an acquaintance intentionally mocking intentionally attempting to harm someone else's relationship resorting to intellectual property theft I recently lost my job and he was struggling with depression and anxiety because he was having difficulty trying to find another job. John found comfort and support by talking to his brother in his elder but specifically requested His brother keeps this information to himself. John's brother agrees. After some time, John is invited for

an informal meeting at his brother's house. Thinking nothing of it, John is surprised when Several of the guests express their sympathy at the fact that she threw her job and can't find a job elsewhere. Embarrassed and angry, John immediately knows it was his brother who wrote his secret because he took his troubles out to someone else. When John confronts his brother, the latter denies any knowledge and does not know who John is talking about. John's brother denies the accused outright. Continu

ed Joe felt guilty for suspecting John as the guilty party. It takes John a while to realize that this isn't the first time he's been doing this to his brother for events that have led to this situation in the past. Denying any responsibility that John has to either hurt or embarrass, but pests are always lurking lurking around making you question your sanity as they knowingly sneak into your life. cause harm and injury and then deny any responsibility for it Clues that indicate you are prone to

manipulation The reason why manipulators resort to tactics they know is often because they Able to ask for what they need Able to express their needs in a healthy direct manner Because they lack these skills, they resort to emotionally unhealthy taxing tactics to control others around them Manipulation comes in many forms to try and force them to bow to their will and can range from ever abusive to just having a bus-around personality you could be a victim of a psychological bully Those you wan

t to keep an eye on you are always forced to satellite. If you don't go along with whatever they want, they make you feel guilty about it. Even though you had every right not to eat. Feel pressured or coerced to do something you don't want to do You are being manipulated If you are afraid not to eat You are being manipulated If you are being threatened with someone else's demands If you feel you are being manipulated the manipulator is exp at playing the victim card and they will play it perfect

ly to make you feel as guilty as possible as if you are doing something wrong because you chose not to tell them So you always find yourself questioning your judgment when suddenly something you were very confident in 1 minute ago floods you with messages that you second guess your own judgment after conversing with a manipulator Present them with an idea or an opinion and they will somehow find a way around what makes you indecisive and hopeful. Spend enough time with them and they will make yo

u feel like you are a complete failure and all you can do is can do that will never be the right choice No favors come for free if someone does you a favor you can put on a shirt whatever he does with a request it is never a real favor there will always be an ulterior motive why are helping you Because you know you'll owe them for it later, you're cheating with a manipulator, so you expect to pay. You'll be the first one to tell me you owe me and you're doing all you can to help. Will feel oblig

ed to go out of the way because you feel guilty for not eating Tell them no and they will make you feel like the most grateful person in the world You are always blamed even when you have done nothing wrong So you are guilty in some n way The driver friend who always has a sister to blame for his whole behavior or poor judgment The one who always makes you a scapegoat He is not a friend He is the letter It's your fault You made me sleep like this But forced me to do it if you agreed I wouldn't b

e recognized when somehow you're always on a mission and made to feel like you're wrong can't really be heard when in fact I don't listen when you're speaking they may look at you when you're talking but at the first chance it clouds the conversation back into something they're involved in everything is always their big The only time they really seem to be engaged is when they're gathering information that they can use against you later when the time is right. Be careful what you say when you're

around them. Stay and never trust Never give them confidential or important information They come to you when they need something Friend can manipulate you especially if you are the one who is constantly doing those favors but when you need help the most they are never around or they always have someone n some sister to help you Why can't you however when they need something from you act like you are their best friend in the whole world Being in a relationship with a manipulative can be emotion

ally and mentally damaging to you Manipulating partners Tries to control you by curtailing your freedom Tries to control every decision Tries to target you and damages your self esteem So you start to self-compromise and believe that you are lucky because no one will not love you as much as they could make you dread this relationship and make you fearful of entering any future relationships because you have been traumatized by this past experience Another relationship with someone you Being in a

relationship with a manipulative can leave you with emotional scars and scars that will take a very, very long time to heal. Some of the more common signs you're in a relationship with a manipulator are when your partner constantly abuses you. Forcing you to look or dress in a way that only acknowledges who you may or may not spend your time with. The love and support that is supposed to come from real relationships is not something you can expect from a manipulator. If your partner is someone

who is manipulating or lying to control you and in their favor the situation is something that is going to be a common occurrence in your relationship and to see One clue is lying to make you feel guilty for spending time with others because the manipulator wants to be in control so I would try to limit the time you spend with your family by trying to cut you off from your support system as much as possible He will resort to lies and run-of-the-mill stories about how hurt he is that you expected

more of him and will tell you that he thinks you always put other people's needs above his goals . Trying to isolate yourself from other people so that you become totally dependent on them and the more you trust them the more controlling power they have over you they may be forcing you to spend time with other people to do Say no rather plainly they try to lie inches away from your social dares they go around making you feel guilty for their actions they lie and criticize when you are with some

one who One who manipulates every little thing you do is subject to criticism. The biggest part of it is when they tell you they're doing it because they love you. In the larger part of everything you do. Will constantly criticize the longer you are in a relationship with them, the way you dress, the way you talk, the buttons you wear, the way you spend your money, your passions, your hobbies, the crops you grow, even Will criticize everything when you suggest fun ways to spend quality time toge

ther If there isn't anything they want to do they will find a way to criticize it They will criticize you so often that you feel incompetent and safe Pretend you don't feel comfortable making a decision without running it by them first They're not trying to help you They're trying to undermine you Now may be the most honest and trustworthy person in the world but a The manipulator may make you feel otherwise. Two people as deeply in love are still individuals in their own right. Everyone is enti

tled to their privacy. Unless you are in a relationship with a manipulator they will completely ignore the fact that Will not be satisfied until they can control every aspect of your life The manipulative partner will refuse to acknowledge your right to privacy The answer you try to protect your privacy is a crime of lying feel like you're the one who has something to hide that you ca n't be trusted because you choose to keep your emails or text messages down if your They will also try to make y

ou feel bigger in order to keep your diary safe. The manipulator thirsts for control and when he can't get it, he will use any means necessary to try and invade your privacy. Sahara Liet Your privacy is your right and you should never be forced to reveal what you are not comfortable with Manipulate your passwords Social media accounts and may even demand access to more personal information In this large Hearing some story about how they are afraid that you might cheat on them and break their hea

rt. They might even tell you how they were cheated on in the past, how much it hurt them to have their heart broken, even To remedy this, two people who are in love should never keep secrets from each other. However, there is a big difference between having secrets and the right to privacy, and being in a relationship doesn't mean that you get to know everything. They talk a lot in order to protect you which of course is nothing but another lie when it's coming from a manipulator I'm not protect

ing you I don't think in this big Deep down Connie wouldn't like Jan's idea that there is someone out there who loves them enough to save them from the big bad world. That person exists. When you love someone , there is a natural desire to protect them and keep them from feeling hurt. When you love someone, you are willing to do anything to keep them safe. The manipulative partner will have you believe that this is what they want for you, but red flags should start to rise when protecting them o

n their terms means that they It's up to you to make all the decisions about how you should live your life They will lie in the thick of it wanting to protect your finances Protecting you from friends who are not a good influence on you Where are you going and what are you doing Protects you by keeping a constant eye on it when you tell them you are such a controlling sage they turn around and lie once again assuring you that she is doing it out of love and because I want to protect you when the

truth is he is trying to do the complete opposite he wants you to be someone other than him Don't be dependent on them so their reading will always be heavy. If you were in a truly healthy relationship your partner would be protective but also realistic. They know they can't protect you from everything and they certainly do what they can to do. Won't try to dictate how every aspect of your life should be run When you're in trouble they'll find creative ways to help you out when you feel too big

for not listening to you They'll ask you in the name of your safety won't demand to give your password or any other personal information provoke you with lies Sometimes a manipulator may resort to coaxing you into a tizzy by lying and exaggerating blow things out of proportion because he knows That when he does this it pushes your buttons. Eating things that trigger negative feelings in you is characteristic of even lying to make your partner more believable. Why do they do the way they do with

the child's annoying question because sometimes I just want to push your buttons to make you angry enough to eat something I can use against you later when You tell them their star doesn't mean anything then they'll put on an Oscar worthy show of how deeply you hurt them if you let them they'll push you straight over the edge and whatever you say they'll can be used against you and will be used against you the next time they tell you they will die without you probably one of the biggest lies th

e manipulator spins is the lie telling you they can't live without you if you Leave them dog they will be killed they are not leaving and they certainly won't do anything to recognize the loss to themselves it's just a lie when you see them for who they really are then strike to end the relationship I'm harvesting you to make you feel guilty There's a term for this kind of behavior and it's called emotional blackmail and it's called emotional blackmail and it's common in a relationship with a ma

nipulative person One of the most selfish features of being someone is that they shouldn't make you feel guilty for wanting to do what's best for you, and they certainly shouldn't put the responsibility for their life on you like that . That if you ever leave them they will be killed is nothing but an empty threat and once you know for sure that you want to break up with the manipulator they should never blame you for this decision Don't let them feel you have a responsibility to your own well b

eing and it is up to them what they choose to do with their life twisting the lie with even more lies manipulators can twist the lie as thinly as A spider spins its prison, it will tell lies, twist those shoes and twist them around, and twist those liars around until you know what's true and what's not, twisting the facts. Being embroiled in lies is a favorite tactic of manipulators to confuse and disorient you. More lies will drive you insane and make you question your sanity. And they do it so

efficiently that you think you are . There's something wrong with you at their time. It can be hard to keep track of the tangled web of manipulative lies, but you must learn to trust your instincts and trust your judgment, even when they're trying their best to make you think you're wrong. If something doesn't quite sit right with you then trust your eight friends because you are probably right especially if you know you have caught them in a lie more than once before you had a relationship wit

h them you trusted your own judgment And now you need to trust your judgment more than ever story don't let them mislead you with their lies chapter 3 we know manipulators exist and they are all around us but who exactly are these people how do they have The personality of a partner in a romantic relationship who is abusive and controlling will not only damage the relationship between the two of you, but also bring down your self-esteem. In a family, it is the family member who constantly They c

reate disturbance and chaos. They always want to be the center of attention may it be sister, brother, uncle, cousin, mother or father. They make everyone around them feel safe. The manipulator may be your next door neighbor's friend who enjoys pitting one person against another and then standing back and watching the fight. Less commonly, the manipulator may be a co-worker whose dishonest and Has a track record of being unethical, willing to stoop as low as he can for whatever he wants and putt

ing everyone on his toes for life One who relies on deception and distraction to get you out of earning your car without knowing you can take you in broad daylight and covertly covert your tracks to avoid detection A can in any shape or form is sometimes the person you least expect to be suffering from some sort of personality disorder that makes them In 1835 the medical doctor James proposed the term moral insanity to describe these individuals Those who, although not technologically advanced b

y today's standards, had very significant and distinct differences in their behavior and morals, in their emotional reactions or the way they react to certain situations, yet despite these apparent differences compared to other individuals, they were considered moral insanity. Those classified under showed little social or emotional distress over their behavior. Individuals who suffered from some type of personality development had a long history of emotional personality relationships and behavi

oral difficulties that were completely different from their families or even culture. The behavior pattern displayed was dysfunctional and intrusive in nearly every aspect of their lives, causing problems with their emotional and personal functioning, which likely contributed to their manipulative tendencies. Personality types that resort to manipulation include : Unique personality type Individuals with this pervasive behavior have a tendency to seek attention and resort to excessive displays o

f emotion, often called theatrics. When involved in a relationship, they use highly manipulative behavior to get what they want. Antisocial personality types. These individuals are capable of manipulation because they have little regard for the social rules that everyone follows. These antisocial personality types can include a variety of behavior patterns. Believing and irresponsible. deceiving others and for those who have no regard for the fundamental rights of another person may even resort

to activities Clinically these individuals are extremely selfish Physical aggression is also part of many behavioral patterns they could potentially display. The Borderline Personality Disorder This person can be intense and stable in their thoughts, moods and relationships. They have a lot of power to control their impulses. having little or no competence and common characteristics associated with this type of behavior include being abandoned when it comes to their self image being unstable in

social relationships displaying inappropriate but intense feelings of anger and sarcasm and even committing harmful acts Resorting which includes substance and alcohol abuse is a motivating force. Cystic Personality Disorder was previously discussed in Chapter 2. Having a narcissistic personality is a disorder that leaves a sense of primal need for admiration and a sense of self worth. Inflated self-esteem Lack of empathy for others Arrogance Increased self-esteem Sense of entitlement that leads

them to believe they deserve special privileges have the right to exact revenge which they do not pay due respect or appreciation to which in large they believe the real soul is not capable of love because those who struggle with the narrowness of the grandeur they hold within themselves actually lead to such dysfunctional behavior and why these individuals are often not described as demanding selfish patrons and manipulators their friendships are not protected from family life romantic relatio

nships and even attitudes What makes it difficult is that people with this personality disorder are reluctant to change, preferring to expect others to conform to their needs. What makes a dangerous manipulator is not just the arrogance and conceit characteristic of systs, but the sense that they want to be more important than everyone around them because they don't just believe they are. They deserve respect and recognition rather they demand it. They have created a skewed perception of reality

in their mother in which they are the star of their own show and everyone else is only a supporting player . There is danger for the simple reason that they have no remorse and are ready to exploit you for their personal gain without any shame or remorse that they are entitled to treat you any way they want and that they will ever Will not view the actions as wrong or immoral in any way. Will not think twice about coming to the Big Band for no other reason than to fulfill their need for you for

the narrator, only to abandon you when you serve a useful purpose for them. They can be both unfortunate and oblivious at the same time. Mostly blind to their own authority. They are able to sleep on how their actions can affect everyone else if it means going their own way. If they see you as trying to push back against them then they resort to lashing out at you to inflate their already inflated egos so in their mind they feel safe to challenge them in this way n bully Intimidation, humiliati

on, humiliation, dismissal, and ridicule are just a few of the many tactics they will employ in an attempt to get you back in line and put you in your place. The manipulator and their covert aggressive personality. When it comes to aggression, they In two categories A can resort to either overt aggression or covert aggression when someone is blatantly direct and open in a way that allows covertness to stand still although a very powerful manipulator will find that both traits are used How to do

and harness the combined power of both to protect you from any full display of extreme aggression while still being able to intimidate you enough to get you to do what you want. The covert aggression manipulator when it comes to interpersonal introversion. The preferred mode of operation of Mother Control is possible Well Influence The Psychology of Unhappiness A book written by researcher Do Robert in the 1980s, highlights several different scientifically proven triangles and principles that ca

n be used to influence others. Along with many tips on how to do it. Since it was written it has become one of the most important books in the marketing world and businesses use placements all the time trying to sell their products to consumers. do mother control magic powers or some sort of supernatural knowledge in large not at all in fact mother control in its most basic form exists as marketing and advertising trying to determine the outcome then to everyone around them Mother controlling te

chniques are used by manipulators to control Mother controlling techniques are all around us once we open our eyes and start looking around Social media is another major problem that most of the people of the world are exposed to on a daily basis. Facebook has successfully built its global empire which boasts of 1.6 billion users who are actively participating on this platform. And counting and yet hardly any user is likely to realize how Facebook has wielded the power from the middle and one su

ch technique is to instill fear within its users of what is happening. Humans have always longed for contact with other humans since the middle of the century and historically we have never encountered loneliness. We each have a deep desire to feel accepted. There is a community that we can relate to or identify with. And it's actually the fear of having a connection with your friends and followers on your social media accounts that keeps you coming back for more. Social media is still not the w

hole story because mind control technology doesn't stop there either. what do you think happens every time you type into your google browser do you really believe that you have complete autonomy when you are doing your online research what is really going on that is called search engine manipulation The effect is called so now the effect lies in the fact that whenever someone uses dog to search for something online we click on G half the time there are first two results which appear on the first

page of google More than 90% of the top 10 results shown to you by Google are getting clicked Other results are pages from other websites and links which still contain the words you are looking for but it is Google who decides what do you want to read what happens most of the time what happens on the first pan and here we are thinking that we have full control over us right from the middle of the known manipulator we have a common example of mother control technique being offered so many option

s that you have a choice and making your own decision when in fact they have already decided what to do Repeated an idea or phrase so many times Now that your brain has been properly manipulated, you will be demonstrated a technique known as brainstorming. This place will prime a series of brief transcripts from information on topics, train you, and give you the information you will receive on a number of topics. You will feel overwhelmed with information. This overwhelming feeling is exactly wh

at you want yourself to feel because it makes you turn to them for answers and want to send. They make you more vulnerable to being with them before you even have time. You are given many instructions and then easily presented with the solution and you feel so relieved that you accept without a second thought Controlling the mother at workplace Manipulating your emotions by putting you in a position where your emotions The more overwhelmed you are, the more difficult it is for you to think strai

ght. The more difficult it is for you to concentrate, the easier it is to control your mind by planting thoughts on them. Knows how to read the people around him impressively. He has worked hard to develop it as yesterday which is mainly driven by a strong desire to control his symptoms and establish lord how his Symptoms are to be detected quickly but accurately assessed. Continue to collect more information in the bulk of your symptoms which gives them more leverage and control . If you feel s

omeone close to you is using subtle mother control techniques against you. If you're doing this, consider the following button: You feel isolated and you've realized that you've somehow managed to alienate your friends and you suddenly feel very lonely. You're not quite sure why. How did this happen? And the only friend you can cloud is the one who caused the breakup in the first place. Change your behavior for them. When was the last time you did something that made you truly happy in your roma

ntic relationship? The manipulator will try to control you by relying on nonverbal signals of concern for you to control a technique called meta-communication salt to replace your mother . For example if you were to suggest that You and your partner take her out to dinner at a pizza place but they don't so they can agree but she should come up with a loud nod to yes and a temple with no room for a shoulder except they would prefer to say no at its more efficient than the middle of neuro linguist

ic programming manipulate manipulate use nlp as one of your many mother control videos nlp is a technique that uses manipulator language to layer certain ideas that does for what you want to put into your subconscious mother without you knowing and then uses language to make a suggestion for example if person A was someone who was more visual then the menu plotter would use language from the middle of the visual prompt can use NLP by replacing the that mind control is not dirty it is in the hand

s of the manipulator yes mind control is a bad thing power is but mother control in itself is not that big there are many forms of mother control techniques that are being practiced today that make our lives better these techniques include meditation a practice that has existed for centuries meditation is one of the oldest most effective mother control techniques in the world today you need to calm your thoughts by deliberately emptying it of all the noise Encourages you to take control of your

mother so that its hour can affect the calmness within you and help you . Visualization is an exercise that has long been used by many successful individuals to help mentally train themselves for success. Is an exercise tool used to train moms for success no matter how inaccessible or possible those goals are. Sports coaches and athletes rely on visualization techniques at all times to perform at their skin best. Trust Lebanese American author and poet Khalil Gibran famously penned his couplet i

n which it is written that whatever you ask of a mother from the universe the universe will bestow upon you . Talking to yourself in the mirror is considered as a tool, but another example of a mother control technique is to strengthen your belief, just like making positive affirmations. Self-hypnosis is a form of control because you have to deliberately remove all other thoughts from your mind and focus on only one goal. Hypnosis or self-hypnosis requires the virtuosity of a mantra and it is re

peated often enough that your mind It sticks in. This technique is often used to free people who are struggling with soul destructive habits and behaviors like alcoholics . Goal writing Nothing seems real enough until you see it directly in front of you. You may not have thought that the act of writing down your symptoms is another form of mind control, but it is. When you write down your symptoms, you are giving them a concrete form on the sheet of paper in front of you. Seeing the writing on t

he piece makes it more real than when it was just a thought spell floating in your mind. Seeing it in front of you clouds your mindset and gives you something concrete to focus on and gives you a sense of country. She's going to lead to the success you want to achieve. Run with reading the body. As much as we'd like to believe we 're doing a great job of covering up our true feelings, we do little. feel our bodies give away as much as we want human body muck language tells more in this big what

you're thinking he's responding he can see there's really something else going on if you Knowing the clues to reading another person's body language can be a powerful advantage in your quest to discover who is manipulating you and who is genuine. Understanding can be beneficial when you are trying to subtly manipulate or persuade someone to do what you need them to do because you will be more aware of the signs that your truth is being told. Although reading body language is not as simple as we

think, a sign can have many different meanings that usually change depending on the context and other factors that influence the way the person perceives it. For example, you might assume that a person crossing their arms across their chest when talking to you is either angry or cold, but if they were in an environment where they were feeling particularly cold, If they were, they might simply put their hands up in an attempt to be sad and nothing else. The next best thing you can do in a situati

on like this is to pay attention to the subtle signs that what they're verbally telling you he's in sync with their body when someone is getting mismatched that's when you want to start paying more attention to people who think and feel in this big always Mohit Rahein is an amazing skill to develop body language it can reveal hidden riches Strategies With Analyzing Head To Toe Body Language Your Body Language Is Really Your Body Language Contrary to what many people may believe facial expression

s are not the only clue how you are feeling Face as they say is a lot under the seven There is something that remains to be uncovered. When we communicate, our whole body participates in this whole. Every aspect of your physical and mental state is contributing to what is happening. Before you jump in with strategies for analyzing people and reading body language, your body language has just as much power to give you away as anyone else. Stay calm and relaxed, stay natural and Without being too

critical and don't consider all the signals you receive to understand the secret feelings that others are hiding here are the accompanying strategies you may want to use Strategy A person's appearance Perhaps the most obvious cheap and The immediate clues you want to pay attention to when you meet them are whether they have a power suit with freshly shined shoes what they feel like whether they have any religious beliefs. You can learn a lot from there by looking at the way they look. Strategy T

wo Posture Does the person talking to have their torso held high confidently or their shoulders slightly slouched indicating that they may be feeling secure What can indicate a sense of judgment when in a crowded room gather around walking around puffing up their chests who seem to have a large ego to give off confidence in conversation see if the person is leaning towards you trying to distance themselves from you normal On the other hand, if we like a person or feel comfortable in his presence

, we subconsciously lean towards him and when we do not like someone, we try to distance ourselves from him. Touching is the easiest posture of the body, but the fingers should also be taken care of. If you see someone's fingers or head pointing towards you, then it is a sign that they feel comfortable with you. Strategy 3 Face Of all the other physical parts of the human body, nothing tells how a person is feeling more than their facial expressions . doing whatever we can tell from the emotions

etched on our faces; thin lips; wrinkles around the eyes; often accompanied by a genuine smile ; when you look at them and if ever you were to look for a sign the facial expression would be a smile that doesn't reach the eyes and does it in a way that only a real smile has the power to tell you that this person is lip syncing to someone's fake smile on their face for good measure when in fact may not be smiling at all if they can get away with tactfully eyes how many times have you heard the ph

rase look into my eyes and tell me the truth We deduce this based on the assumption that when a person is lying it becomes difficult for them to make eye contact. To some extent there is some truth in this but skilled liars who deliberately tell lies who say that will intentionally maintain eye contact but it slips where they are most likely lying by prolonging eye contact made by over vibration setting until just one person with for 10 seconds Will maintain eye contact at all times if listening

attentively Slight fear When someone is forgetting you Which makes you hope Especially if it is accompanied by hard blinking and completely still body position This is your sign something may not be right and this person may be lying on your face the other 38% remember the voice from which year it comes how to analyze the person in front of you the familiar tone and normal voice used during a conversation with someone Can you make a big deal of the person's feelings ? Is the tone being used soo

thing, low and comfortable? Do you feel completely relaxed and comfortable talking to this person? Is that short sharp friction that biting? Then you definitely feel hopeful because it gives you the sound that this person is less than romantic to talk to you use we use to make a speech he creates company and a person uses g vowel he way to influence the way you feel strategy 6 torso let us always stand up straight keep your back straight stand up straight and good Maintaining said posture is not

only good for your posture in general but it signals to others that you are confident and in control. An overly emotional person will have difficulty sleeping straight. Let yourself focus on standing straight if you observe someone who has chronically with loose posture suffer from low self esteem when one prefers to avoid attention strategy with but the way a person stands or sits are important Can be an indicator of what they are thinking and feeling. Crossing them tightly when sitting down i

ndicates feeling close to the other person. When a person is particularly relaxed during a conversation, relaxed . If a woman is not feeling well, it shows up. For example, if a woman wears a skirt that is a little shorter than she should be when she sits down, then the concern about a possible wardrobe malfunction is reflected in the rest of her body language. Mother is distraught The conversation deteriorates rapidly When her obvious discomfort becomes apparent which sends a very loud clear me

ssage to everyone around them that they are feeling either anxious irritable or both given that the largest organs we have on a person are those In addition to using your eyes to see all the signs you are trying to find, there is one more thing you need to rely on when it comes to reading body language accurately, your intuition. Listen to your gut feeling and what it's trying to tell you even if you're trying to listen to your head. There's more to understanding someone than relying on the star

s alone. Difference Between Knowledge and Empathy will take you even deeper into their story of what your eyes are letting you see. One of the main skills people with high star emotional intelligence possess is the ability to empathize with others. Use your intuition to evaluate what is happening. Subtle energy cues can be a strong indication of a person's personality. Being around positive optimistic people increases your enthusiasm, improves your happiness and overall mood, while adding -Being

around destructive and negative people makes you feel happy and exhausted. The emotional energy that is emitted is often overlooked but it is actually one of the indicators that you can use to have it. what someone's personality can be if you've ever been around someone who seems like they have a cloud over them no matter what story they tell or what they do, that might be the clue you need. so that you can know that this person is a strong negative hold that he may be of manipulative nature wh

en you are trying to analyze also pay attention to other body language cues handshake a nice strong torso handshake There's nothing like knowing when someone is feeling comfortable and confident but can't wait to let go of your hand almost as soon as they release it, although this doesn't necessarily mean anything less assertive. Shaking hands together can only indicate that the person lacks self-confidence, is feeling hopeful, non-committal, is timid or introverted in nature. On the other hand,

cold and clammy hands can indicate that the person is feeling anxious and nervous. micro express strategy number these very small facial movements are known as micro expressions and they specifically focus on the area around the mouth and eyes along with the rest of your facial expressions these micro expressions you You can totally make out what they are doing and anyone who is skilled at reading nonverbal cues will pick it up immediately. A person may be under the impression that the waiter i

s doing a good job of hiding. are whenever she is trying to impress the person she is talking to they don't just happen when someone is feeling nervous or anxious they also happen when someone is telling a lie little white Hiding a lie isn't so easy when the little muscles in your face are pushing you away. There are only three main factors that will lift someone off their ground. In casual conversation, try raising your ground and see if it's easy to do. You can sound awkward at best when someo

ne is talking to you and the conversation doesn't involve a topic that either scares or surprises. Or be a cause for concern even if they've happened so keep your antennae up because there might be something else going on under the seven even your little garden has its own secret language it's trying to tell the world while You are completely oblivious unless you make a conscious effort to do so. Others may get the impression that you are as you are. Even the way you read your garden around othe

rs lets them know that you are. How do you feel on the inside Shy introverts who clearly find hope in being in a large group of people tend to lower their [ __ ] to look at the floor Avoid eye contact when that those who are confident and balanced keep their arms straight and steady The Common Cross We already know that crossing of arms plays a role of context but usually if you are crossing your arms during a conversation for example What you're indicating is she's feeling restricted by what th

e other person is doing even if they have a smile on their face when they're doing it engage in conversation pleasantly enough how they feel in the setting When his sister casts the cross in front of him and mentally feel the band to whom he is talking and what is being said to him can speak after shaking excessively mr. Tends when simply giving a series of instructions and they are trying to impress them by showing that they agree with what they are doing The only time they send is when they're

feeling stressed. If you see that the words they say may sound like they're fixated on an idea. This is a sign that tells you what you need. That 's not okay with the idea as they're leading you to believe but another digit on your body that you get that could be sending a message that could land you in trouble. When you tap your fingers to someone It can give the impression that you're feeling anxious. You're in a hurry to end the conversation. When you're trying to get the other person's atte

ntion, tapping your fingers is one way they'll go unnoticed. Not wanting to come off the ring finger typing gesture is one of the reasons people tend to taper their ring fingers but that doesn't mean it's the best way in the world anyhow especially when If you constantly pantomime someone else then you are being considered rude. Imagine how it would feel if someone pointed fingers at you. Everyone has their own unique way of writing which is often as unique as their personality. While graphology

can serve as a fun way of trying to predict what a person's personality might be like, for example, unlike reading body language cues, it may not be the most accurate, but it is. Still, a person's capitalization can reveal some interesting clues when you're trying to figure them out based on their handwriting alone. Large personalities tend to write in capital letters while shy introverts prefer the small print that you have. Have a strong ability to focus and concentrate on what you are doing.

Seeing the space between the words. The bigger the space, the more the person will enjoy their freedom and independence. likes to squeeze together prefers the company of others over exercise If you have written your sentences in a way where the words seem to be completely packed together then handwriting analysis has shown that you have a more intrusive personality then you may be the kind of person who Love meeting new people and if your writing is to the left then you prefer to work less in s

olitude and you are introspective and reserved in nature . Pressure applied gives an indication of your personality at large. Writing with pressure may indicate that you are feeling stressed or angry. On the other hand, moderately applied pressure is a sign of commitment according to graphology. Those with the softest touch. are the ones who are most empathetic and empathetic towards others but lack vitality then handwriting experts say your personality may be one with an active imagination and

the other is a sign of a detail oriented and organized personality if If your eye is tilted to the left then you can be a dot metal person and if you dot your eye with a small circle on the top then you are playful or childish at heart Signature Legibility People who are confident strong and are comfortable in their own skin Their signatures are the most legible A signature that is difficult to read is often someone who likes their privacy The shape of the letters Intelligent people have sharper

letters while Rounded letters indicate a more artistic and creative personality It also has some meaning People who are impatient and like to waste precious time Dependent and systematic person takes their time to write the words whatever they want to say Connect Disconnect Pen Ware House believes that those who are logical when it comes to decision making tend to write letters that are linked together. Disconnected letters is an approach that has a more impulsive and imaginative tendency to wr

ite with. Baseline If the sentence is being written on lined paper then it is easier to read Pay attention to the sentence's co get what we want it is almost impossible to speak without some kind of agent from time to time when we need help from a friend we may resort to a little manipulation or persuasion to try and get them to When we need a colleague to follow through with our agent, we may resort to manipulation or coercion to comply with them . or rely on some form of manipulation technique

to play on your emotions and brother to get you to listen and follow their instructions. Manipulation is all around us despite the negative associations with the word. You are either manipulating Are you or are you being manipulated? Manipulators as we now know Always want to be in control Want to make yourself and everyone around you feel superior Be the one pulling all the rations and everyone else is eyeing the beat of his own drum. To achieve this, he will do anything and everything to knoc

k down your confidence so much that you second guess yourself. You may have done something like this before even though you Manipulate yourself as good. Have you ever told a new co-worker who was laughing and joking as they tried to get everyone to take a low back and calm him down? Maybe you got a little felt jealous that everyone was so quick to show gusto towards a new co-worker and didn't like the feeling that your popularity might be in danger must have been taken aback Wasn't as accepting

as they thought or maybe there's a coworker you're in danger of getting promoted and to throw them off their game you subtly point out all the mistakes they've made while getting over their insecurities Maybe you have done this with yourself too where someone has made such a comment which has rocked you completely made you feel stupid he doubted himself your fundamental right this is the fundamental right which we all have and no one should be denied their rights There is no right to shake insid

e. Remembering these rights when dealing with a manipulator will help you strengthen your resolve to fight them. Remember that you are responsible for your own life and your own happiness. And those two things should never be put in someone else's hands especially if that person is a manipulator. The next step is to manage the manipulator in your life. Stay away from them to reduce their effect on you. This is the only way if they are not your close family members then consider staying away from

them completely if you can even break ties with them as it is unlikely unless they change their ways Relationship is ever going to give you a hymn if manipulatives are your family members then you may not be able to completely break relationship with them but you can reduce the contact time you get with them spend alone time with them Keep yourself too busy to interact with children too scared and be judicious about how much time you allow yourself to spend with them. Some manipulators will res

ort to bullying if they begin to defend themselves against their bullying. They will know their targets are vulnerable. Manipulators whose personalities fall within the Dark Triad may also take pleasure in trying to scar their victims mentally and emotionally while enjoying the power I feel when they know They have struck fear into the hearts of others to protect themselves from their intimidation. Remember that the manipulator is clinging to what they perceive to be your weakness when you choos

e to stand up for yourself and stand up for yourself. If you confront them they back down and will never again put themselves in a position where others can see their true colors Don't let them pressure you but don't let them know Stand your ground Stand up and say it firmly I need some time to sleep its big Whenever you feel the pressure flooding inside you take a deep breath remind yourself that no one has the right to tell you something like this force you to do what you don't want to do you

have every right not to eat if you want to and you don't need to feel guilty for it you must stand your ground and let the manipulator do it once and for all be told they can't pressure you saying no is not the most pleasant feeling in the world but as much as you feel guilty its big your happiness and yours must come first you owe nothing to the manipulator and They have no right to expect you to bow to their wishes. Learning to say no is the key to learning to say no. You're not intentionally

upsetting anyone. You're respecting yourself and setting your own boundaries. how you stand up for yourself reminding yourself that you will no longer be pressured and within your right to say no if it doesn't make you happy indicate consequences when you can see If the manipulator is putting you in a situation where you are feeling verbally and emotionally abused, tell the manipulator that you are aware of the larger consequences by pointing out the possible consequences. You'll take them by su

rprise and signal to them that you're not someone to be messed with. You'll force them to re-evaluate their strategies and be more likely to try to take advantage of you in the future . Bar will think when he knows that you are not going to turn around so easily don't expect anything from him especially if you are expecting him to see things from your point of view it is not going to happen because most manipulators are soul absorbed Individuals are concerned only in the larger of their own need

s and interests. They have little regard for the feelings or opinions of others and they certainly aren't going out of their way to try to see things as they are. If you find yourself in a confrontation with the manipulator there are only two goals to keep in mind. You must diffuse the situation and then get out of it . will insult you will argue with you on those things Who are you trying to tease you by putting on what you never did just trying to get you out of you Who are you trying to suppr

ess your anger and even your anger until it becomes too much and something Don't be prone to doing things you'll regret Accepting your own skills Dealing with the Manipulated requires the emotional intelligence of a certain star to successfully rock them Patience Maturity Discipline Self control and spirit Regulation and the tools you need to open yourself up to stop reacting in this way Your own skills and larger awareness of what you are capable of will allow you to stand your ground and keep

things from spiraling out of control There is power in getting help. For example, if you feel you may not be emotionally flexible or confident enough yet to stand your ground against a manipulator, enlist the help of a trusted friend to mediate the situation. If you feel more comfortable sending a professional email in person than if it gives you more confidence, then sending an email can be a good option too. Be sure to read on to ask for help. It may take time to build up the intelligence need

ed to do that. You'll get there eventually. Until then, your own strengths will help you make the most of what you have. For those you haven't completely cut out from your life, the best thing you can do is rebuild your borderline. As hard as it may be to accept that your loved one is capable of such a thing. Maybe you need to come to terms with this so that you can start easing up on changing your expectation and setting the boundaries that you need to protect yourself. Take small steps towards

slowly implementing these boundaries. You can keep pacing it slowly anyway with less pick up time as he is used to doing so just thank him and leave it at that you don't need to follow his advice anymore let him know if Do you want to avoid confrontation or deal with the manipulator why are you setting boundaries against them so do it in small steps be subtle in setting your boundaries big manipulators use validation on their traits all the time This is what you are going to do with this Bhima

by not letting your feelings make them feel disinterested in the conversation not to invalidate the conversation emotionally but let them have no power over you. Here's what the word Aman means. But let's get something clear whenever you invalidate a person you're basically making them feel like you either don't understand them and their feelings or you understand them and you're not an influence anyway These are the exact types of tactics a manipulator tries to use on you. Validating conversati

ons can be from subtle triangles. Gyms include the following who use controlling-in-validation to see how to reduce their there will be no problem to try they can also tell you straight that this is how things should be done manipulator not that how do you do it because i told you the best way to solve the problem is to invalidate them How to do that I respect that but I believe my solution is just as reductionist so I'm just going to go ahead with this nothing to do with mounting the manipulato

r to the wall to see what they want Especially since expecting to hear from you anyway because they told you so Being inattentive not paying attention to the conversation makes the time feel like you guessed it like they do n't care or what they have to say is worth your time An example of how you can use not important enough to be manipulative I'm so bored that no one around the office helps me when I must read Going out of my way to try and help everyone how would you invalidate them nature is

being really nice on the group project don't you think you can sabotage their strategy by not acknowledging what they're trying to do Invalidating and telling them that you know what they're trying to do and you're not going to go along with it anyway, or else you're invalidating Manu's efforts to let things go . try to see things your way so you want to do what you want manipulator I think you are being rude in dismissing my idea when I have told you clearly how it should be done you How would

you invalidate them? With all due respect, your idea was an inappropriate solution to the situation when we both know there are more effective ways to deal with it. Being combative lets them know that you 're not afraid to voice your opinion, and if Do it right then you are ready to castrate them Being a judgmental turn The judgmental manipulator will minimize what you find important because they don't think it is important or beneficial to them Being final in a relationship and invalidating yo

ur partner's feelings Sex can cause a disconnect that makes you feel like your interests take a back seat to your partner's. Somehow you always find yourself doing whatever you want while sometimes entertaining yourself. What do you want to do why don't we go out for a hike this weekend I haven't done that in a long time and I thought it might be fun for us to spend some time together Manipulator no I can't interest that end I'll stay and watch my favorite Netflix series You can join me You rare

ly spend time with me watching my favorite show I'm going for a hike Guilty enough to do what you want to watch later Realize a classic finesse india is less to invalidate someone else's feelings than it is to have less men than yours. If you've ever dealt with someone who feels entitled to disagree with you or tell you how to react What should be the appropriate way then that person may be a thrashing you were expecting magic promotion he didn't like so very sad why are you sad in its big you s

hould be happy that you have a job you always I have a right to be upset about this in a big way This was something I was really looking forward to Standing up for yourself and acknowledging that you have feelings You are taking control away from the manipulator Allowing you to extend yourself taking them for granted and invalidating their opinion by telling them how you feel is just as important as letting go of some relationships can be heartbreaking others hurt more than others and when we kn

ow We try to find reasons to keep at it even though we shouldn't. If you're struggling with letting go, ask yourself this simple question: Does this person know they're taking advantage of you most of the time? The answer is going to be us they knew it and they did it anyway because they chose practical tips you can use every day to keep your mother and your feelings safe maintaining close relationships you can count on keeping in close contact with family and friends you can count on will help

you minimize the mind control efforts of the manipulator g family and friends you can trust they will give you the support you need and strengthen your belief in yourself There is no room to shake bones or your confidence. Talk to your friends and family . Another reason to never allow the manipulator to disconnect you from the people you love and trust is that you will always be there for them. But you can trust that they have your best interests at heart. The people who love you will always be

looking out for your safety. If you're ever unsure of whether you're being manipulated, talk to them about what's going on. See how she reacts. Her immediate reaction if this is shock and anger. You must serve tomorrow. Choose not to tolerate your mood. Hairers in relationships often do things their own way. become irritable or resort to temper tantrums if you enable them then only you are being emotionally affected by such behavior when sanity resorts to such behavior then other then away from

the situation Go ahead and choose not to put up with it. Expect them to be the best practical advice you can apply to yourself. Ignore them because they are not worth wasting your time, effort and emotions when they are trying to give you advice. Ignore them when they try to tell you what to do I'm Going Deeper Fast Remember they're trying to confuse you enough so you can't see that when you're an emotional wreck and every time you try to fix the situation you make it worse Posturing they set y

ou up to spin you around their little finger how you react so they can figure out your triggers and use them to their advantage doubt yourself n want that from you That's why this is what you shouldn't do. You know yourself better than anyone else and you shouldn't rely on someone's validation to tell you that you're good enough just the way you are. Wrong crowd Trying so hard to fit in Band if you try too hard to fit in with a group of people then that's not the right group for you Manipulators

are charming and popular who make you want to be part of their crowd And they like to feel in control by making you work hard to earn their approval. They know that keeping you in this state allows them to get away with more favors because you will be willing to do whatever they want. If you are then don't let yourself be subjected to their manipulation triangle Turn the tables Manipulators will constantly try to con you against you It will befriend your friends and then try to turn them agains

t you They will make you believe most of the con And then behind your back it's more ceiling equals will tempt you with this name and see you try to chase him relentlessly they will remember all your past mistakes and won't give you any chance to feel big in its big try what they are doing is to continue to make your life a big dream even harder to reduce then you need to turn the tables on them and hit back find out who is supporting them and then undermine it So that the manipulators have enou

gh base n this support their followers supporters subordinates any skills they have or any resources they can control befriend their supporters and make them your allies others who have social skills Build relationships with people so that the manipulator is not the only one in control. Clapping them and loosening their grip will throw them off balance so no longer focus on trying to dominate your life but in your own circle Don't compromise. Compromising your own morals and values ​​is one of t

he many big mistakes you can make when dealing with a manipulator. You are playing right into their hands. When you go against everything you believe in to do what they want, it's okay if they make you feel big or guilty about it. Let them do what they want. The important thing is that you are happy now. Feelings don't compromise Time and energy and moving around in circles trying to accommodate them Ask yourself if the roles were reversed Do n't ask for permission Asking for permission is a har

d habit that's hard to give up when we We have been taught to do this since we were children . Whenever we want to do something , we ask permission from our parents. In school, we have to take permission from our teachers for things we need. Asking for permission from supervisors or managers In a relationship, we ask for permission from our partner before we do anything. Because of this, asking for permission can be a difficult habit to break. So you must constantly control yourself. your purpos

e is definitely not to do what the manipulator makes you do It is easy for those who do little without a sense of purpose to be controlled by people with strong wills and agendas. This is why manipulators continue to have influence today because so many people move around without a sense of purpose. Going out there is leaving yourself open to being taken advantage of. When you don't have a strong sense of purpose of your own you tend to believe what you are told and do what you are instructed to

do. You are more vulnerable to risk taking because you don't have that big of an objective to focus on to base your decisions on. New opportunities are all around you. You just need to be brave enough to take a chance and take a leap of faith. Manipulation Bullies want to stop you from taking new opportunities because they want to keep you in a routine that you stay in this cycle as you are because it makes it less easy for them to maintain control. self-doubt and why they try so hard to discou

rage you from improving yourself or seizing new possessions. Every time you become stronger and more self-confident you are weakening the hold that they If they put you down they're trying hard to stop you will go to great lengths to put you in your place even going so far as to take on new opportunities to make you feel embarrassed even sleeping in large don't let them stop you And don't let self doubt get in the way Even successful people make a lot of mistakes on their way to where they are W

hat they did was different from everyone else Courage to take the leap and change for the better Punching Be a bag Manipulators will continue to treat you like a punching bag if you let them do so Respect yourself enough to stand up and tell the story you don't deserve this kind of treatment Go back to your fundamental rights once again Where you have a right to respect yourself whenever someone takes advantage of you then he is not respecting you whether to put up with it or not is completely i

n your hands people use you abuse you and take advantage of you will try but you have a choice not to eat all of these no one has the power to manipulate you unless you allow them to do punching bag banna band answer for your decision start taking curd and make yourself Reminded that you have no reason to feel guilty for standing up to someone who isn't treating you fairly. Manipulators will always try to do everything in their power to shake your confidence and Will weaken you in order to gain

control over you They will pretend to be concerned about your larger or that their mother only has your best interest They will make you believe they want to help when the truth is they are only one person want to help and if they have to put you on their fingers to do so they will Once you have them in your life getting rid of them can be difficult but now it can be done You know how the ultimate key is to develop your own confidence never put a band down the stronger you are the less control t

hey have over you