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How to support friends and family just diagnosed with cancer

With the recent news of Kate Middleton’s cancer diagnosis, we’re speaking with Siteman Cancer Center’s Psychologist Dr. Jessica Vanderlan to offer helpful tips on supporting friends and family just diagnosed with cancer and ultimately normalize the struggles families have with a new health crisis or diagnosis.

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