Is He Cheating?! | Reading Reddit Stories

hello I'm Shane and we're back with more Reddit stories today's theme is cheating or insecurity or paranoia of being cheated on a real juicy one today with me are two of the biggest cheaters I know Angela and Spencer just kidding uh but they're both wearing the same hat so I was going to say we both look like we're waiting for our flight in an airport look I got nothing I got nothing to add that was good this is going to be fun with you bud yeah we didn't I I was not I didn't check on what the t

heme was until we like got into the studio and I was like oh it's cheating oh and then I actually found out what cheating was this morning you did turns out I've been doing it for 30 years I'm just kidding um all right are you guys ready oh I'm so excited okay this isn't cheaters Monopoly you know what I mean yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah just saying some games together him away Xbox Xbox first story I a woman at 24 found red hair in our uh male 32 shower I'm blonde I knew you were going to say that

I a 24-year-old woman left our house for about 5 hours last night leaving my boyfriend who's 32 home by himself not too long after I got home my boyfriend told me he was Finding balls of black hair so he swept the house I thought it was weird but didn't say anything once I went to shower I noticed my shampoo which I don't keep in the shower was on the shower floor and when I picked it up I found a piece of hair that looked black but once in the light it was very obviously red I have blonde SLG g

ray hair then when I got in the shower there were a few strands wrapped around the shower handle still didn't say a word and just started to observe everything else there was a charger on my side of the bed that isn't mine that doesn't use that outlet or go on my side of the bed and then there was nail polish remover that he he asked if I left it out and it wasn't me I decided to change the bedding and was taking my time because I knew uh I was too bothered to go to bed anytime soon he kept maki

ng comments about me looking for something that he know and he knows how long it takes to make a bed so I'm obviously doing something else oh and this phone holder we have that was above our bed was moved and place at the head of our bed how can I get the truth out of him because I can already hear this I'm not doing any and how everything is just a coincidence or something like that what would you do dude she sounds paranoid as h no that's dude like the hair the hair alone would is like a red f

lag the charger to me is is a army of and that's like that's insane it's like bro I don't know man I don't know what that is well who's that lady over there your husband's cheating on you they were and her phone was charging yeah no um yeah it's that's crazy it's laid out as as clear as it it's like and then I saw Footprints yeah Footprints and then there was several women yeah I just want to read these comments first maybe she left the hair moved the shampoo and left the charger uh on purpose s

o op would know sounds like an escort uh op said no he definitely doesn't have money like that and I know that for a fact lol he doesn't even have a bank account dude and she's 24 he's 32 yeah maybe he doesn't have a bank account that she knows of like yeah that's a good point not having a bank can you do that yeah can don't you get one when you become a citizen no I mean you don't no like what the like how do you like how do you how do you do you just write a check like what like how do you pay

your rent just like in cash that's kind of wild I will say okay maybe we're really out a touch and a lot of people don't have bank accounts and if that's the case I will go on record and be that is a surprising fact to me I think a lot of people don't but I think in this scenario where she's talking about this guy he's third to get to 32 without a bank account oh that's it's crazy yeah like I think if I met like if I met someone in their early 20s they're like I don't have a bank account I'd be

like oh get one like um what's what I'm obsessed with is this like alternative theory that whoever he's cheating on her with is leaving signs for her I know that's wild I'm like no I think they're just careless like I think they're not thinking about it here's if I was the guy I would I would try and convince her that red hair isn't real yeah that's awesome I think that could work um that's so cool dude like well it's there's no such thing I find it crazy that you were gone for 5 hours and some

one most definitely had sex with your boyfriend but then charged their phone did their nails and took a shower they were not acting like they were on a time crunch LOL uh 2,400 up votes someone said you post you posted in our swingers a few days ago saying your boyfriend found that lifestyle appealing what more do you need to know to make a decision whoa yeah bro it's it's clear this guy is just kind of Li Smoking Gun I think this guy is not thinking or concerned at all I love when these Reddit

people recognize each other out in the wild out there well so no this person you can go to this person's account right often often times people say you when are swingers often times people will click on uh the username and you can go and you can see their history everything they ever written if they've ever commented you get to see it all um you know which is nice can also be bad for people uh there was a guy Ken Bone is the famous one he was this guy he was this guy back in when the 2016 electi

on was happening he was this kind of sweet like like just silly looking guy uh in a red sweater and like uh red tie and he he asked a question that was very like a neutral question for both Hillary and Trump and people just thought he was kind of charming and he became really famous overnight just as like a meme uh and then oh on the debate on the debate yes okay okay okay I think I yes and he became Super Famous he decided to do an AMA on on Reddit and ask me anything and he goes on there he's

like ask me anything and they're they're asking him questions but then people went to his profile now that he had revealed what his profile was and they found that he had commented on a bunch of pregnant porn uh like women who are pregnant having sex like he commented on all the time there was a famous quote where it was it was two women in a pool and he said two beautiful submarines I don't remember that his stuff was everywhere but also unfortunately he had like some takes on extreme extreme s

ocietal political things and people were like oh like his whole like charm was shattered dude two beautiful submarines that's not that's kind of P that's literally that's so insane but it's like you know people can see it all ask okay ask someone that's bit on this show listening to the insane things people comment on each other's reddits the fact that there's a book of it all and you can go to a catalog of it makes me surprised that people are still this feral yeah no and like and even when you

delete stuff there's like archives of all like pretty much everything deleted yeah no you can't it's on the inter for are still mean people are still just literally like pouring their like like it's the myth of anonymity is the problem well I mean you are Anonymous and it allows for a different kind of up until you're like I'm 32 live in Los Angeles and blah blah blah BL people find you yeah they'll find you um anyways yeah that he's he's not even trying to hide it I think I think if she asked

he would just be like yeah yeah I I had like five ladies over it's also just like kind of crazy this it feels like this woman is on the go she's like got her charger she's like oh I need some nail polish remover she's just like living in there yeah I do still agree with that comment even if she thinks he doesn't have any money it's like maybe he doesn't have money CU he doesn't spend like he's just spending it immediately on things I don't know next story here uh this is a recent story as of rea

ding this right now um this is from relationship advice as well I a 24-year-old woman think my husband who's 30 is cheating on me SL meeting up with somebody under the guise of getting me coffee literally never posted on Reddit before but I feel like I have no one to talk to I don't want to accuse him without being 100% confident but I don't want to tell anyone without asking him first please help basically my husband and I have fallen into an accidental schedule on Sunday mornings basically I l

ike to sleep in LOL and I will sleep until sometimes 10 to 11:00 uh 11:00 a.m. my husband is a morning person and every week he gets up at 7:00 a.m. goes on a run I hear him return at 7:30ish get in the shower do whatever he does for a few hours and then he goes to a local coffee place and gets us breakfast he wakes me up every Sunday at 11: with coffee and breakfast it's been going on for like over a year now few weeks ago though I happened to wake around 9:00 my husband was literally already g

one I checked his location he has mine too and saw he was was at the coffee shop I figured he just went early except he did not return until 11:00 like usual when he got home I asked him if the shop was busy slash did he stay and do some work and he was just like no not really that was weird but I didn't say anything more until the following week I heard my husband doing his routine and I stayed awake until I heard him leave this time around 9:45 the coffee shop is 10 minutes away he didn't come

home until 11:10 I asked him again and this time he did he did have his work last lap top he said he worked for like an hour I was so paranoid now that I had I asked to go with him this past Sunday he said no just stay in bed he wasn't nervous just more being thoughtful when I was persistent he got mad I said I don't care I want to come and he eventually groaned and said fine on the way there he sent several texts with his phone turned away from me am I being crazy or does that sound like cheat

ing to you I don't want to accuse him but I just can't shake that horrible gut feeling how do I even appro approach this um wow yeah feel like we need more info yeah I definitely need more info on this I before I'm about to blow these people's relationship wi open I think I need a little more info yeah I this is crazy though that's crazy yeah it's like it's a little it's a little sus it's a little sus I would I totally understand her her her like her um spiraling a little bit because it's like w

hoa yeah especially when things like one thing kind of like you know it was like a little thing and then you know when you try and push back then you get a little resistance I I can see where it's really hard once that like thought has been like put out there it's really hard to like shake it it's true and there's so much uh you know people communicate through body language more than even verbally like we we communicate in ways we don't even realize this and the communication I've realized in re

lationships the communication with uh your body language with your phone is so intense like the there there's a simple art of just like putting your phone down face down versus face up says so much more than you could just say in a conversation um especially if you believe that something's going on it's also tough because I've been there where you're starting you you're fully suspecting and then you just start to see the signs everywhere and then you're like well wait am I looking into this too

much that's a tough spot to be in and I almost can't blame her for for coming to Reddit because I'm like you do just want just a completely outside but also what's tough is we don't see this we're getting the the transcript so we are visualizing something different reading oh if I walked into that coffee shop with him I'd be like looking at every single person yeah that looks at him and I'd be like I bring him my sniffing dog yeah I bring some dogs yeah I bring a pack of them I bring my boys my

Huskies uh so comments here let him go the next two weeks like he was let the routine seem back to normal then go spy on the third Sunday follow 10 minutes after he leaves and see what's up someone else said it sounds like you're being paranoid do you think he's having sex with someone in the coffee shop bathroom he may just enjoy some quiet time out of the house to sit enjoy a coffee and scroll through Facebook unless he's done anything else to make you suspicious I think you have zero grounds

to not trust him I could see that but like why not just say that talk about it why not just be like like I want to I'm going to hang out the coffee shop alone like I don't know the the the when she's like oh she knew he was there for 2 hours she's like oh are you there for a long time whatever he's like no like that's weird why are why are you lying I think he is a crush on a barista and that's it well that's my idea of this is that he's just he likes going there a lot by himself he likes hangin

g out maybe he has her phone number now and they talk a little bit but besides that I think it's just a little bit of a CR maybe maybe he spends like you know maybe the cheating hasn't happened yet yeah but maybe he's like meeting someone there like maybe there's some yeah yeah the Nerfs are in the gun so there's a there's an update what like the Nerfs the Nerfs are in the gun oh okay the barrel the Barrel's loaded than you but you said the Nerfs are in the gun like yeah that's crazy the Nerfs a

re in the gun you said the PG version of yeah yeah okay cool I you know yeah we have a little update oh I love these a little one so because of these comments I waited two weeks and then asked my sister to spy on my husband I know how that sounds it's okay she was down for it though also some context I should have added is that my husband and I live in a big city where there are apartments above places like this coffee place for instance oh my God is there an apartment above the holy he didn't a

ccount for the Y AIS anyway anyway my sister went and she said he definitely didn't notice her but he definitely wasn't doing anything suspicious she said he got coffee and sat down and was scrolling on his phone for a while then one of the Barista girls talked to him for a while but she said the she said he seemed more annoyed than anything so shut up he sat there for about an hour and then left so yeah that's literally it I think I was overreacting sorry for the underwhelming post I love him h

er going um he definitely didn't recognize my sister she's in there with a huge trench coat and a mustache Das coin yeah she he's he CL he's immediately and it's just like he clocks her immediately and then when the Barista that he has a crush on comes over he's like e gross get the away from me away I'm just sitting here reading the Bible on my phone okay I'm scrolling on Facebook so yeah maybe this guy truly does want to go to the coffee shop be alone I don't love that he can't just communicat

e that to her yeah like I think this pattern will continue of him not communicating and then her being paranoid because she has a void of information yeah and he's being weird yeah so I think that's I he could be going to that coffee shop to text someone that's not even at that coffee shop but that's when he like sexs somebody or something the tough thing is cuz you know I've been cheated on once you get into that space of paranoia it's like you can just find yeah you can find all that reasoning

but I also am of the belief of like if you're in that space where you're paranoid you have to fi like if you can't solve that and get out of that space that relationship won't work yeah like you should have trust on a level that you're you're not thinking about that him getting upset that she wanted to go to the coffee shop is like the this something that's bad yeah I would say I'm seeing red flags for this relationship even if he's not cheating yeah like they need to communicate I don't think

he's respecting her yeah in a way is my thought yeah I think he wants some alone time if he's not cheating on her and for that reason something under the hood is just something going on yeah and it's I I think it's okay to want aone time you got it sounds like you no yeah just like you know it's just so important that you like communicate like hey I like you know that so it doesn't feel like you're dodging your part yeah that's what I think it sounds like like he's trying to avoid her yeah and t

hat's bad it's like cuz like alone time nothing nothing better nothing wrong with that no no no no no I'm I'm I'm a very introverted person so every time I'm in a relationship yeah it's I try to communicate of like oh I it's not that I don't want to be around you I don't want to be around anyone that's soen truly just want to yeah or sometimes in relationships I've been in like I I love doing errands alone because I want to be quiet right and like I've had relationships be like hey I'll come wit

h you do all those errands I'm like can you just be more fun if I'm just like silent yeah it's like no problem I ain't it's valid yeah it's valid yeah red flug red flag red flag in the play What flag on the play oh there you go Nerf guns in Nerf on the gun flag on the play there's no red flags video games football but Mario there should be there's a red card in soccer football of the yellow card uh Ocean Avenue scene okay next story someone give me a word I'm sensing a pattern here I a 24-year-o

ld woman caught my husband a 33-year-old man coming home from the neighbors uh 20-year-old woman uh coming from their house how do I confront him a lot of 24y old women writing into redit um about 30-year-old husbands there it's that tweet the uh oh the a24 uh 30 dudes in their 30s love films so much they they date a 24y old that is it's insane so stupid it's so dumb oh man okay all right so a 24-year- old woman caught her husband coming home from the neighbor's house uh where a 20-year-old woma

n lives how do I confront him uh she's got a house I'm at a loss for what to do I've been married for 2 years and my husband Chris has been amazing I know there is a large age Gap but he looks young for his age and honestly kind of Acts young as well oh then okay yeah that's dude it's chill oh oh actually sorry it's chill now officer yeah what the it's just 24 to 33 24 and 33 they've they've been married when you're like it's so they probably got married at 22 and he was 30 and so they probably

started dating when he was I don't know it's just like I get it I get it the age Gap I think like Smooths out the older you get but like when you're like 20 and dating like a 28-year-old I don't know it's it's it's not it's not illegal no but it's one of those things where I'm like I don't know I always I question as now that I especially now that I'm in my 30s yeah like the way I see like young like people in their early 20s I'm just like oh the difference I'm like I question the intention tota

lly I just question it and but he looked young so yeah but he looks young I was just hanging out my 20-year-old female neighbor bro we're playing a name a game any game yeah I'm also I have I have to be honest I'm biased now that we've read so many Reddit stories where there's just patterns that to OCC in this and there's such a pattern of like in theirs who are dating young women they they often exhibit controlling Behavior yeah I just that's that's based on the stories we're reading so I'm bia

sed in that way okay we met at a bar on my birthday and it's been an amazing time until now which birthday yeah I'm guessing so I'm guessing they met when she was 21 that would make sense and then they got married a year later and um okay yesterday I came home early from work usually I get home at 4:00 but I wasn't feeling good and left around 2:30 as I was driving down our street I noticed a man leaving our neighbor's house it's a family with a college AG daughter Rachel I see Rachel give the m

an a kiss goodbye and figure it's her boyfriend when I when he turned around no when he turned around it was my husband I immediately pull over and park so he doesn't see me honestly I didn't believe it was him until he walked to our house once he was inside I drove to a park and just cried I pulled myself together did my makeup and returned home acting like everything was normal Chris was his normal loving self he made me dinner rubbed my feet did everything that he usually does that before yes

terday made me feel like the luckiest woman alive now it feels so dirty and gross I don't know where to go from here I have no proof of what's happening I don't know how long this has been going on I'm just thankful that we don't have kids in case we divorce in case in case we divorce how do I confront him on this okay here's what you do you hit him with your car Jesus I think we but we figured it out before that yeah I I mean this this plays into the pattern that I'm talking about it's like oka

y he has a very clear like intention for yeah seeking out young women because like when we hear these stories like in my head I'm like oh you should just pull over right there and be like hey and like yelled but like I wonder like if my body would be like run away run away because that's really sad and scary and very vulnerable but she's about how dides she confront him and I mean she saw it mm there's no there's no I don't know if I would be able to like confront the person like but that's just

me I have like confrontational issues like it's like you know I would almost just want to like pull out like like just like wait till they go to work and then just pull all my out of the house and just like be like okay like bye like you know what you did like don't even like give them the satisfaction I think there's a lot of situations where the advice and though this is usually more in situations where things are there's threat of like Danger or whatever where it's like just speak to a lawye

r get all your stuff ready and then get out I don't think I would judge her for that I mean she she has her answer she could do whatever she want she has her answer don't be married to this person you witnessed him cheating on you in a very disgusting way like um and uh he's a creep like it's and so it's just just get out um uh some comments here don't confront him call a lawyer do what the lawyer says get your stuff together and leave when the lawyer tells you to don't confront him he'll deny i

t all anyway I agree with that yeah that's very much but also I totally understand wanting to say something oh yeah and just watch him see you see that he's up so there's another comment he married a teenager when he was 31 now he's messing with the teenager next door you need to dump this loser immediately and never look back Opie responded I had some friends warning me about him being so old they were right unhappy face yeah yeah are you ever going to get the reaction you want like when confro

nting someone about their cheating I think um healing is different for everybody and I think sometimes they want closure and they want to say something some people don't like you're right confrontation is so specific to each person like I grew up in a household where confrontation was normal and then but like I have like my best friend like they don't like confrontation because it makes them feel a little unsafe which is fine like I it depends on what I'm not typically confront ation because I v

iew things in the way of like what's going to make my life better a year from now and I also view it of like I sometimes can be pessimistic with people where I'm like if someone disrespects you that much I'm like they're never going to respect you never and you're never going to get that response out of them so I'm like I I'd almost say it's something more up in me where I'm just like all right detached from you completely and I'm going to remove you from my I disagree too though because it's no

t a response I'm looking for it's just me responding to what I seen I don't need anything from you that's why a lot of in a lot of situations you see her be like like the whole um this is a Vander pump thing but I don't know if but like it the whole scand ofal she just like she says her stuff and she's like I don't need to hear a word from you because this is just me taking back my power that's cool I like that I I get that I and I I totally respect that it depends on the person I've never judge

d people for doing it for confronting I'm like yeah and in fact in a lot of ways I'm like oh man that's really awesome but yeah I I think I am of the Viewpoint of like what's best for me and and they're doing what's best for them in that situation I've just never seen someone actually change from it it's sad to say I'm just like when people are that far gone I like I think they can change it it's just going to take a decade I agree with like the sometimes when it's too far gone but I also do see

like you know there have been times where you know not to get too like specific but like you know even like here when it's like some some someone does like confront me about something like earlier rather than later and like it does help you like work through and it like and like and you help it helps you like but you're a good person and you respect the people who are bringing that to your no for sure like and it's like and I think it is figuring out that like communication style cuz like confr

ontation was never my communication style and you know so when I do encounter people whose communication style it is it always like kind of scares me but then afterwards I'm like I'm glad cuz it's like well you know that helped you kind of like talk through it it's just a familiar thing or if it's not it's that's confrontation amongst people who respect each other I don't even view that as confrontation I view that as communication yeah confrontation in this regard when someone has dis shows the

y are lying and disrespecting you to such a degree where they can actively cheat on you and then come home and be rubbing your feet and like when it's at that level I'm like oh so there's we're not in love we're there's no connection here there's nothing like that's yeah that's where my mind goes but I completely agree with what you said yeah uh I do think confrontation can be valid I think she's allowed to do whatever she wants yeah she's allowed to show her hurt just like he you know she's yea

h she could do whatever she wants it's healthy for her yeah but that's hard when you're that heartbroken gosh that sucks that's a bummer yeah all right moving on I a 34-year-old man failed a Tik Tock relationship test and my wife wife 32-year-old woman is upset with me how do I make it up to her talk about the problematic age Gap first yeah two years whoa uh this comes from relationship advice this guy's just seeking advice on what to do here uh my wife and I were recently at a local mall when w

e were approached by a couple of younger guys with a microphone and a camera filming content for a Tik Tok Channel they asked us if we'd be okay answering a couple of questions about each other and being posted online it sounded fun and I've seen videos in this vein before so I said sure my wife said okay as well they asked us questions about each other first basic stuff like eye color or favorite food but quickly getting more specific and Niche I don't know if it was being put on the spot or ju

st me being off my game so to speak but there were several questions I couldn't answer immediately or correctly like our anniversary or her parents' names or if she has any allergies my wife is beyond upset and says it's clear that either don't listen to her or don't care I know why she feels that way and I totally understand but she's wrong I do care and I do listen I just couldn't remember those answers in the moment I'm planning a trip for us over spring break we're both teachers but now I ju

st want to solve this before I surprise her with a trip what should I do how can I show her that I do care well he's clearly cheating I was going to say I get served the Tik toks where people they they're at the mall and they have them switch phones and they look through their messages and stuff and W uh my theory is often that I'm like oh this has got to be staged but I I I guess not I being in this industry would never agree to to being on camera from some random people in the at the mall I wo

uld just be like no no thanks they're at the mall wow what were the can we go over the questions again so the questions that he failed parents names uh parents names their anniversary her name no I'm kidding yeah her name uh their anniversary her parents names and her allergies parents names that's pretty bad that's kind of crazy uh that's pretty rough you're you're you know uh yeah they're married it's like my wife and I it's like you probably should know her parents names but what he's saying

is he maybe he was just put on the spot that's what it feels nervous if he's not a performer I think for us it's hard cuz I'm like oh like whatever you're there but for a lot of people they they're super nervous and you kind of when you put on the spot um you can kind of blink adrenaline sometimes hits people weird ways and then you're like uh 911 didn't happen at 9 you know what I mean yeah yeah exactly yeah I I have blanked on Dumber things yeah yeah uh and you know being asked questions with

very simple answers sometimes is not as simple as it seems yeah was that profound profound I would say because these sound so obvious it's like like okay yeah maybe you were nervous maybe and he feels really bad about it yeah like he shouldn't be worried about the trip he's planning that sounds sweet yeah I just hope he can remember her birthday when he types in the flight info they show up to the the the airport and he's like oh I forgot what planes are I forgot sir is this your flight I don't

know I have no idea I don't know who I am she's allergic to peanuts he's like she'll take some here take some uh couple comments here do you struggle answering quickfire questions like if someone asks your age you have to assess what's been uh what's been asked fully before thinking about it than answering do you struggle with auditory processing op said not usually 415 down votes like Boo uh like just answering a question truthfully everyone just be like no no dude uh someone said try learning

her parents' names and the things that will kill her that's a good start someone said dude when you said the questions were Niche I was thinking stuff like what's her favorite okra based recipe or which member of The Avengers does she think is the best with cats not when's your anniversary that is true he did he did say like the questions got really Niche like what's her parents' names no this this guy just sounds legitimately just kind of dumb like that's like the ultimate problem is just like

yeah I don't think this guy's I don't think this guy's uh super smart yeah or this guy just just like really doesn't know what happens when you put a camera in his face he's like it's it's one of those two things right like it's obviously yeah he probably could have saved himself in the moment if he was just like honest of like I'm really sorry I'm really nervous I'm blanking right now I'm struggling to yeah if I were her I wouldn't be upset if he answered those once the camera guy left and he w

as like no obviously your mom's name or is right but like if he really obious your mom's name obviously I know that you're allergic to and I know that your mom and dad's name is obviously your mom's name is a obviously your mom's allergic to peanuts obviously we'll say your mom's name on three one two three Deb Deborah Deborah right right um it's I don't know it's that's that sucks yeah best of luck to him dude good luck man that's that's a bummer I don't think he's cheating though he's not no I

think he's I think he's too dumb off she'd be like uh am I your am I your wife I don't know you got there yeah all right if I don't get to a joke within half a second Andrew's like that's not true that's not true I feel it's like when a it's like when a football players the balls like fumbling in their hands and you're like football football oh I get it um my My ultimate takeaway is still I'm like if if a some tick tocker with a microphone comes up walk away just say no man those small mics wal

k away uh cuz the the the only ones that go viral are the ones that go bad you're never seeing a positive one where it's like we traded phones oh looks like no there's nothing on them they're not going to air that one man yeah good point anyways all right next story this is from yesterday what posted on relationship advice what uh this post so we could still we could still solve this we can we can comment comment oh whoa this this title is crazy okay I a 28-year-old woman think I just watched my

33-year-old husband cheat on me during a threesome is that what just happened whoa I actually don't know what to make of this I'm so confused and honestly hurt I'm not sure that anyone will have any advice but please if you do I need someone's help my my husband and I for the majority of our relationship have been very open to non- monogamous sex Never by ourselves but with each other and another person over the years we've had many threesoms with other girls and we've both very much enjoyed it

for the past like two-ish years we've had one standard other girl who we would see a lot we stopped seeing her because she wanted to explore more serious relationships and that was totally fine since then my husband had been very interested in trying it out with another specific girl I was open to it obviously and we met with her several times she was very attractive kind and confident with this whole thing which is important because I hate the shy Persona some girls have it makes me feel weird

I thought she was a great match yet when we had our first encounter I realized quickly I was more a bystander than an active participant I literally felt like that scene in friends where Ross says he was just there with Carol and Susan lmao she was all over my husband which okay we're literally having sex so fine but it was just entirely too much every time my husband tried to make her include me if you know what I mean she simply wouldn't even though we all said prior that all of that is fine

and when they were having sex I could have thrown up it was so intimate when it never is like that with me the way they were looking at each other it brought tears to my eyes I was literally sitting there on the bed completely naked watching my husband make love to another woman not another woman because that doesn't bother me but make love to her I asked my husband afterwards what that was all about and he admitted that she was a little too into him and not enough into me which is his entire tu

rn on anyway we both said she's probably not a good match and that sucks but he says it's not that big of a deal to me it's a big deal I feel horrible I mean I know we have an unusual situation but like you would feel horrible too right he's apologized but I just can't get that image out of my head holy moly wow yall need a therapist it's giving therapy yeah I fear it's I fear this is beyond us oh yeah this is absolutely Beyond me um I I actually actually let's talk actually let me let me let me

cook on this I think I can fix this let me a dude uh wait psychology degree yeah they taught this she like uh when I was getting my bachelor's in psychology and we took a threesome class oh yeah those are those no com three parts legitimately I think I think they I think they could talk to a sex therapist sex therapist would be like yeah my the only I that made me go hm is everyone else they met together is what it sounded like their thirds were um uh like sought out by both of them together an

d she said this was the first one he brought to her attention it was like trying it out with another specific girl I was open to it and we met with her several times they met with her several times yes but he brought it brought it um and I mean I don't know how the other one started but that would be my only thing is like like moving from just as side of what went down in the sex but it's it's his relationship to her and if there's any validity in that yeah it's tough cuz you know I'm I'm a mono

gamous person so like my viewpoint on this like I know a lot of people who are in uh polyamorous relationships or relationships where they're open to this type of thing and you know a lot of people really can make it work but they make it work through just so much communication um I think that's what's needed here I mean he was was very fine afterwards of being like yeah she was way too and if she trusts that and believes him yeah and and he doesn't show anything sus after yeah yeah I mean it's

like how do you it's it's such a subjective um experience yeah and it's like it's it's really something that they kind of need to communicate about right her feelings are so valid yeah no cuz it's it's like it's like you can't deny when like you even when is really subjective like to to you it's like well yeah I still felt that feeling so it's like you can't felt that way no matter what that's she ex yeah but at the end of the day I'm just like make sure he's not going to the coffee shop with he

r that's it yeah make sure he's not scrolling Facebook in the coffee shop yeah yeah um some comments here why didn't your husband call it off after she wouldn't include you op said you know I was thinking the same thing she was still trying to include me and so was he and he did but it was just so off um someone else said I thought you said earlier she refused to include you op said I don't want to say anything specific sexually LOL I mean she was including me in some ways touching me and not in

other ways what we actually all want and agreed on um 167 167 down votes that's the funniest joke what yeah yeah um uh someone said said yes good to keep explicitly sexual remarks out of a conversation about checks notes your husband having sex with another woman in front of you someone else said unfortunately this is a risk you take when you bring another person into the bedroom you should have said something while it was happening I'm so sorry op said yeah I guess it is just the risk thank yo

u though um yeah like you're bad yeah I mean yeah if you're like having a lot of threesoms I feel like your batting range for one being kind of weird makes sense if you're doing it a lot this there's no like I I mean the thing with like I mean sex probably generally but also threesome is like there isn't really like a rule book and it's like it's like a lot of it's like subjective and it's like you know your communication with that other person and it's like you know what are you comfortable wit

h BL blah like right um yeah most of the threesome stories I've read on Reddit are people trying it for the first time and it goes horribly that's like it's become like a joke on of like well here we have another one but this one's very different CU it's like they've done it a ton of times feels like that person's not meant for her and her husband right and he has seemed to agree to that I mean if if they both trust each other it's like okay yeah this is a problem if he brings her back or he kee

ps talking to her or their thre sus only exist in a world where this woman also does too because This Woman's clearly a trigger and his right she didn't it wasn't it wasn't a fair exchange uh I think she needs to talk to her husband I think they would benefit from talking to someone else and just I I don't think it's hopeless though I think like I think they can absolutely communicate and figure this out is my opinion I do think it's funny that she's like I don't want to talk I don't want to uh

I want to keep explicitly sexual marks out of the conversation it's like well then we don't really know this the situation too well but but her feeling her feeling is valid her feeling is valid I think um damn that's tough yeah yeah I've rarely read actually I don't think I've ever nobody's going to come to Reddit talking about worked out perfectly everyone loved submit yeah no that's that's that's on r threesim r threesim that went well I bet you it exists cuz why type it out you know okay next

story this comes from Petty Revenge hell yeah my favorite chapter of the book my boyfriend cheated so I ruined a childhood friend friendship I would like to start this off by saying that this isn't something I am proud of it was the one and only time he might be a little proud of it but I I am posting it on Reddit it was the one and only time I had ever done anything like it I told my partner from the beginning of the relationship that if he ever cheated on me I would sleep with his best friend

okay all right you had us in the first half and now just like crazy now we're in an early 2000s movie that's okay if I okay if I I would never and I never have and I never would cheat on someone if someone said that to me I'd be like I'm out that's crazy thing to say I be like all right what um I I would I told my partner from the beginning of the relationship that if he ever cheated on me I would sleep with his best friend he had mild insecurity towards his friend being into me so I figured it

was the perfect Revenge as they hung out almost every single day and were friends since they were children Lord every time I would say that to him he acted very shady a lot so I was suspicious he would get all weird 9 months into our relationship I found out he was cheating on me the whole time I of course went through with my threat and messaged his friend asking to hang out I slept with him that night and ruined their friendship they haven't spoken since and that was 2.5 years ago please don'

t message me inquiring about sex um I hate all of these people yeah I truly hate all of them I don't know I think they're all awesome don't except the third friend who was just like dude was to B dude our friendship means nothing that friend waited no time part of me is like you know what she gave the threat and she did what she threat hon but she also threatened it a lot she didn't just say it once she threatened it a lot and she threatened it because she knew he was insecure about his those ar

e two people that shouldn't have been together don't be with someone if you're that if you're in that space like break up what are you doing waa uh it's like this is giving their all like 18 and it's like their first like relationship like these are these are young people that's true it's giving like their excited to do something wrong yeah just just zero commitment zero like actual but that's that's crazy that's crazy that's all crazy and he she messaged him that night yeah yeah and he slept wi

th her that night that night they were just like immediately they're like let me just finish algebra homework zero loyalty I mean yeah I just don't love like the whole like manipulation that like oh here's what's you're insecure about so I'm going to threaten that no like and like that's so bad don't don't be in a relationship cuz sometimes we have to be very clear like obviously cheating is bad and like a very like unnown way but this this is like a different surprising way of of of being crazy

being no I mean he cheated I don't like him either yeah no no everyone's bad everyone is bad here uh comments well you are a woman of your word and you can't say he wasn't warned yeah Fair yeah no it's fair sure uh someone said isn't that kind of a weird thing to say at the beginning of a relationship like if you want to make your partner insecure tell them you've already decided who you're going to if things go bad I have no intention of cheating but would still hate being told this something

tells me this whole relationship was toxic from day one she goes this was a really good first dat I'm really loving what we're here's a list of people I will sleep with in your life that will ruin you this doesn't work out who are you most jealous of okay just for me to know like I would be I would be scared like imagine imagine you you go on a date with someone and they're like hey if you ever cheat on me like I'm going to your your your friend or your best friend and then I'm I'm going to be l

ike well like even if I don't cheat on you and like just like we break up or like something happens I'm like so that's just like in your like you're just kind of okay with that yeah that's like that's like you're yeah just starting any relation ship off with a threat I wouldn't say is a good bad advice yeah yeah yeah don't do that uh another comment here I have one question how many times did you bring it up to him and why was it out of the blue or was it brought up in conversation technically t

wo questions I know Opie says countless times and it would be either randomly or when I would try and talk to him about my suspicions of him randomly 181 down votes um yeah okay I am hopeful that this is all a fake story cuz this just seems now nuts but I also know that people like this exist dude hear me out threesome oh uh someone said no wonder he had insecurity toward his best friend you kept telling him you'd sleep with him I'd be out the door if my partner threatened to sleep with my best

friend for something I hadn't yet ever done especially if they threatened it I haven't yet ever done that babe um I would if my initial thought if if that was threatened I'd just be like oh so you want to have like you're going to cheat on me yeah I feel like she doesn't even need to threaten it if they bring it up multiple times it's just not something you like no it's weird it's weird as hell super weird um especially bringing it up countless times I'm just like I don't know this is my view no

w after so many experiences in my life of just like if you're that suspicious don't be in a relationship what the are you doing you're wasting your time yeah just bang their friend just bang their friend okay we have another one this is also from like yesterday these are piping hot dude these are from from the oven people be cheating right now a 30-year-old woman has named her son after my husband male 32 another so op is writing that another woman has named her son after her husband okay it's h

is sister that would that'd be the only situation I my husband is from Slovakia the last time we were there visiting family his cousin took him out for a drive around the village I had food poisoning so I was sick in bed while they were out touring the village when he got back he told me his cousin took him to it to this apartment block and called some girl that my husband used to hang out with she came out with a child in toe turns out the boy is named after my husband he was confused as to a w

hy the kid was named after him as he hadn't seen this girl since he was a kid and B why his cousin took him to say hello to her bearing in mind this is a tiny village with no opportunities in Slovakia so I'm guessing as a kid he made an impression on her I'm not sure how to feel how I feel about it I don't speak SL IC either so I don't understand what they were saying or even if they talked about it when he got back he didn't have to tell me about the encounter but I'm scared the kid could be hi

s he was in that Village without me in 2019 and he said the kid is about five or something the dates I trust him and it's probably my anxious pregnant mind and overdrive but what if that kid is his we have an 8-year-old pregnant we have an 8-year-old 3-year-old and another baby on the way I guess I'm posting to see what others think if this kid was his is then why isn't that woman asking him for money he has no social media at all so I can't even check her out to see if the if the child looks li

ke him my husband didn't have to tell me about this at all I'd never have known he thinks it's weird too that the kid is named after him he said if I'm concerned he will arrange to meet up with her and the kid next time we in Slovakia edit the kid is 100% named after him according to my husband this was confirmed during their conversation when she introduced the kid to him hence the title of the post this is this sounds like a crazy horror setup this is CRA yeah you're so right next day 24 movie

yeah so he was he was in the same area as that woman yeah he he um he was in the village without me in 2019 bro were you in the village without me trying to see if you were in the village without me uhoh okay two op two possibilities I feel like is you know he's he's being very upfront with her yeah of just like she named her son after me you know that's it's weird whatever maybe he if if it is his kid he's probably trying to play 4D chess of like if I if I'm super upfront and talk to her she t

hen will think like oh I'm on board with you this is crazy you know like but um H I want to go with you no I want to go uh comments there's a big difference between being named after someone and having the same name as someone did she specifically say I have named my son after you or are you and your husband assuming op yes he said that the exchange went something like this husband is that is that your son what's his name uh uh Slavic girl yes his name is husband's named husband really is he nam

ed after me just kidding uh Slovak girl uh yes wow maybe they got different humor over there maybe maybe stream extremely dry yeah she's like yeah I named him bad for you yeah I named him bad for you she's like you piece of of course everything's about you um what's crazy is um there is a world in which she just liked that guy's name but she named him after him she she didn't just take the name she's not saying like oh uh Charles is a great name so I named I named my son Charles it's like I name

d him after you maybe maybe it was like her first childhood crush and you never forget that one the last comment okay so to cap the baby is specifically named after your husband your sister-in-law took your husband to visit this woman and child specifically your husband visited in 2019 without you yeah if the dates line up I'd be suspicious too yeah I think so it doesn't that it unfortunately unfortunately all the element actually that I'm most suspicious of is the sister-in-law taking taking hi

m you're right specifically to me that's what got me just there I'm like that's weird I I if I were her I would talk to the sister-in-law so sorry not sister-in-law they wrote sister-in-law but it's the cousin but the cousin the cousin took him specifically to go see this woman and this child yeah a trip specifically to go visit a child yeah I would talk to the cousin if I was her I'd talk to the cousin cin and I'd be like what what's the deal with this with this kid why did you do that man why

did you do that yeah a lot of unanswered questions I'm I'm hooked though me too I'm hooked I'm ready for episode too yeah no this could all be a cult and they're about to get saf yeah yeah no that's what like it's like that's like how they get you in they like have a kid and they name it after you yeah and the dates lined up you were here right and then they go back and the kid the kid doesn't exist yeah the kid is the kid is actually like a 30-year-old man and he looks exactly like you yeah yea

h and it's him that's your husband what William defo uh a lot of questions on that one hopefully we get some answers that's why I want updates I want an update okay next story uh it's 23-year-old woman my boyfriend who's 25 sent me a nude but I'm not sure it was for [Laughter] me I received a nude from my boyfriend yesterday when I was outside not to be too graphic but it was a pick of him naked in the bathroom in front of the miror Oh Oh I thought I'm going to be sick gross peed us out the thin

g is that in our two years of relationship he never sent me any nude we've sexed it from time to time but that's it it has never been an issue for me since we have a pretty good relationship in sex life what was very weird also is that he wrote in my bathroom as you asked cutie oh oh got a dead rights bro with a with a kissy with a kissy heart B boys booking boys sending the cops I'm trying to translate in English the best I can because it's not our language that was so weird because I never ask

ed for it and he has never called me cutie ever he has a whole other nickname for me also why did he say something like in my bathroom sorry to hear spener what he has a whole other nickname for me and Spencer goes AO ass you're in my wife in parentheses who I hate who is ugly as who is ugly and who I do not like okay he he has a different nickname for me also why did he say something like in my bathroom of course I know it's our bathroom we live together oh my gosh yes I thanked him and told hi

m that I enjoyed it but he he didn't respond when I got back home I talked about it again I just told him it was great to do that even if I didn't ask for it as he said honestly he felt really uncomfortable when I mentioned it his voice changed and it was almost trembling yeah he was like I just wanted to surprise you H but I know him well and I can tell when he's nervous and uncomfortable that's exactly how he was this happened yesterday and even today I feel like he's being weird I know what's

wrong with him now I can't help but feel like he made a mistake and that the pick was for another woman maybe another part of me is trying to convince myself that I'm tripping not sure what to think is it is it suspect or am I just imagining things I don't want to accuse him of anything without any proof any opinions or advice uh yeah he's cheating man that's that really sucks there there's I I hate to say it I don't think there's any other explanation I actually no for sure in my bathroom room

yeah uh did you guys ever this happens to me and my brother sometimes where my brother will be like yeah my mom and we share a mom and I'm like why' you say my mom it's our oh my yeah I don't know like things like that where it's like um that's very funny to be like my bathroom it's the my bathroom but it's the just like you asked cutie kissy it's like it's like he he completely switched like languages like to to talk and then he didn't respond to her when she was like oh thanks like yeah cuz l

ike I would imagine any guy who's like if if that's his intention to send like their partner a nude it's like oh I'm sending my girlfriend I'm sending my girlfriend or my my wife a nude and it's like and she responds you'd be like yeah for sure like here's another like uh and here's my kitchen H our kitchen and now here's my living room and in our in my here's our dick in my living room our um this sucks this absolutely sucks and she's also being like really like yeah poor thing she's being like

really like I have no proof and which is sweet but like cuz like like I get it cuz you don't want to believe it no you will try your brain will go into every mode of why it's not the case but in this case that's but like cutie you never act and everything afterward he's uncomfortable he's not like like if he intended to send that to her I think his demeanor would be so obvious and the fact that he's literally never sent one after two years after two years to send one and be like just like you a

sked it's it's damning top comment this is an easy call he's cheating on you no question about it what you do with that info is up to you but any denials on his on his part are just more lies op says I think you're right unfortunately someone else said that was for another woman he is cheating don't Gaslight yourself just go ahead and break up with him now and save yourself the headache if it's not that easy go through his phone if you want more proof and need to see it for yourself Opie said I'

m thinking there's another woman too I know it's wrong and I never did it but I really want to go through his phone now I think if I'm hurt you can just break up yeah cuz anything you see is just going to stick with you forever so right I'm just like I like look you having been stuff it's like I'm so glad for all that I don't know to a degree cuz I'm just like I'm removed and I'm out and I'm like you can you'll always be like was there more is there more and like some people yeah maybe for their

closure they want to but I'm like you see it and that's going to stay with you forever you can just know that oh I shouldn't be in this relationship and get out I'd be like I'm breaking up with you just like you asked cutie yeah dude you fired the Nerf gun the Nerfs were the Nerfs were in the chamber you're 23 you've been in this relationship for 2 years uh like it's so sad that's it's so sad hey she's got her whole life ahead of her though yeah 23 in the big city any big city it's so devastati

ng though I feel so bad no that sucks it's our last story let's hope they're not cheating but they probably will be this is a 30-year-old woman my husband who's 34 keeps sneaking out in the middle of the night maybe he's a robber okay maybe guys maybe he's a serial killer maybe he's a robber he could be sleepwalking maybe he's going to his favorite coffee shop throw away because my husband knows about my Reddit account as the title says my husband keeps sneaking out in the middle of the night fo

r basically as long as I can remember I've gotten up at around 4:00 a.m. or so to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night that's just how my body is and lately when I do so I won't find my husband in bed in fact I can't find him anywhere he does have pretty bad insomnia and sometimes on really bad nights I would find him in the living room watching TV or playing a video game also it's not every night it's maybe every other night that he is sneaking out I'm trying not to let it bother me bu

t this has been going on for about a month now and I'm starting to get really annoyed SL worried about where he's going and what he's doing at such weird hours of the night it happened again the other night and I stayed up until he decided to come home at 6:00 a.m. hell yeah mind you I don't know how long he was actually gone just that he hadn't been there from about 4:00 a.m. until then I admit I was pretty cranky and annoyed when he got home and I asked him where he'd been he told me not to wo

rry about it and let's go back to sleep okay I kept pushing and he said he just goes out for a walk I wasn't satisfied with that answer but the conversation kept going back to him just taking a walk to burn any extra energy or to clear his head when he couldn't sleep so I decided to drop it as I was pretty tired and had to be up in an hour to go to work anyway well it happened again tonight SL this morning I got up to go to the bathroom and I couldn't find my husband anywhere again I was really

annoyed and I stayed up to see when he would get home it was 5:35 a.m. so that's an improvement at least when he got home he looked so sleepy and climbed into bed and without saying a word I got out and took my pillow and blanket and came to the couch where I am now I know it's Petty to give him the silent treatment but I'm frustrated and I just want to be by myself right now I can hear him snoring so I guess his walk worked I'm not sure what to do now I'm exhausted and honestly just want to kno

w the truth should I confront him I'm not big on confrontation but at the same time I really want to know what's going on I'm just like I he's going to his his goon cave yeah he's going to his goon cave I I'm like either like yeah either he's seems pretty obvious like that's very questionable Behavior if you're going to try to brush that off no that's I'm like that's what what did he say he's like don't worry about it don't fuing worry about it it's good bit okay Batman it's like what the dude l

ike you you're out in the middle we didn't we didn't consider that option whoa I didn't think wait what if he's Batman man guys no it's just like oh no I'm going for a walk at 400 a.m. at night it's like that's dangerous that's yeah that's really bad I bet you can do that Mr Man but I can't you must be careful there's tapers out in the woods uh some comments okay I've suffered from insomnia all my life and done what your husband's doing a lot going for a long walk isn't uncommon but when you're

living with someone else you owe it to them to sit down and talk about what's going on not after you walk in or before you go to bed before or after dinner when you're both thinking clearly he needs to talk to you someone else said why should op automatically have to just take his word would he do that if the roles were reversed even if he was just walking walking for Two Plus hours seems excessive I would absolutely have a conversation with him and explain though you shouldn't have to unless he

's just dense that odd behavior warrants questioning and he shouldn't be uh shocked by that op said and that's basically my issue why are the walks so long am I crazy for thinking it's weird to take hours long walks at 4:00 a.m. it is crazy it's crazy to do that and to not be communicating to your partner like super huge especially when they ask cuz like cuz like I'm thinking if it's if he is going for two hour long walks in the middle of the night if something happens to him and he just doesn't

show up and she just wakes up and she's like I don't know where the he is he disappeared in the night it's like that's why you communicate like I'd hire a really buff sexy male actor to come in for the two 2 hours he's gone or he she could his best friend or she could his best friend but then he would come back and and she and I'd be like oh he was just here while you were gone because you have to go on that walk I'm not touching him or anything I just needed he's just like how's it going man h

e's like eating cereal he's just like he yeah yeah and he goes what who is this I'd be like don't worry about it don't worry about it good good got him uh update all right no I don't want to hear do you think this goes good or bad can you say update he was building me a castle in the middle of the night and I'm actually so happy because my castle is huge I I want to know what's your what's your I I haven't read anything yes is it good or bad do you think it's going to be a funny thing my predict

ion is he's training for like a decathlon yes does that involve walking which one has walking I think has a lot more than walking he's going out in the middle of the night and finding dogs that need help bringing them back to health and he's not telling her because one day he will give her all the dogs all right oh no hello all I wanted to provide you with an update apologies for taking so long to update my life has been a whirlwind for the past 8 months because I have a bunch of puppies in a ca

stle and I honestly haven't been in the best mental state also trigger warning this update touches on topics of depression drug use and cheating so about 2 months ago a police car pulled up to my house and two police officers knocked on my door they told me they were there to do a wellness check on my husband's name because his girlfriend hadn't heard from him in 3 days and was worried about him they asked me if I was his sister or what my relationship to him was I told them I was his wife and b

eyond that I can't even remember what I said I was in shock I just remembered them leaving and Me closing the door and crying he was at work at the time and when he got home he could tell I was upset I mean it was obvious because every time I tried to speak I just I would just start crying again I eventually it got to the point that I guess he knew he had to come clean and he told me everything so yeah I found out he had been cheating on me with an ex-coworker of his not only this but had been s

upporting her and her two kids because she couldn't hold down a job and he didn't want them to end up homeless the reason she couldn't hold down a job is because she was Slash is into drugs and would go on week-long Benders where she just wouldn't show up to work and he says that about a year ago she called him out of the blue and cried to him saying that she was about to lose her apartment because her husband was cheating on her and had basically vanished ironic I know leaving her with all the

bills that had to be paid and her two kids needed food and new stuff for school he says that at first it was just financially supporting her and her kids until he started doing the drugs with her and that's when things escalated he told me he had to cut things off with her 3 days before the police showed up and that's why they were doing a wellness check so I asked him if that was where he was going when he was sneaking out he said yes for the most part he also said to be fair I really would jus

t go on a walk or drive around sometimes okay oh thank God thank God sometimes you my god dude I you have no idea the wave of relief me to be fair to be fair I really was just going on a walk or drive around shut the up you fing piece of and I know there are going to be questions about how I didn't notice the missing money so here's my answer we have separate bank accounts he pays for his bill and I pay for mine and our joint bills come out of my account and he pays me back whatever the total is

for those bills and well he never stopped paying me for those bills and household things that were in his name never got shut off so I never had a reason to think anything was wrong in that area I have been so emotionally numb for these past two months that he has been begging me for about two months to make a decision about our relationship uh as in divorce or work things out because being in limbo is really stressful for him yeah babe you're you're stressing me out he's like I haven't been ge

tting the best sleep I have to wake up in the middle of night and do my other life and then get right back I honestly just don't want to even put any energy into thinking about the future at all right now all of my friends and family are telling me to get a divorce but I don't know everything had been great up until 8 months ago and our lives are so intertwined that feels so stupid to say but I'm basically paralyzed with numbness I did however make an appointment for coup's therapy so I guess I

will see how that goes He seems up to it and I just want to extend a thank you to all the people that took the the time to read this and the last one I know the like the typical response for all of these and it is my instinct is to just be like divorce get out but I'm like really come on like he's he has shown you so little respect yeah but I also get it I I've had um in my relationships it's easier like what she said about the shared community and the shared life oh yeah you're life it's so har

d and you're like I'll lose so many friendships I'd rather just like keep this and then not lose others but like at this point it's like it's like financially scary to live with this person oh my God yeah but I totally get it she just needs to like be reminded like that she's not alone there's a lot of elements here cuz Not only was he completely lying to her and it's like sure they have separate bank accounts but like make doing such a huge financial thing and not he cheated on several layers h

ere um and she's like things were great up until eight months ago and I'm like I'm questioning that I'm questioning that things were not as bad as they are right now cuz things are hell or you weren't privy to and he made it's entirely on him that he made your guy's life living I can't believe he's like please it's been two months tell me what you want to do I'm living in limbo this is so uncomfortable um yeah I just I also don't love that it's like I I'm exhausted I can't think of the future I

did however make an appointment for coup's therapy so I guess I will see how that goes he seems up to it I'm just like end it there end it like if he's not the one making those steps to fixing your Rel like I do think like I will say at the end of all of this like there are cases of people like cheating and they find a way I do think your relationship is over and you have to start a new one but I think if the person who cheated isn't doing everything in their power to to like fix things it's lik

e no you shouldn't the person who got cheated on shouldn't be the one trying to fix it like that get out I don't know but it's super complicated if I was in this situation I understand why you just you want to fix it in your head but it's like this guy is going to do this again this sucks yeah it's a bummer anyways um which out of all of these all these cheaters who do you think had the most like convincing guys who do you think like cuz most of them were bad most of them were really not even tr

ying I was taking a walk I just going for a walk going for walks or what were the other ones it was like uh we had uh the the nude oh the guy in the village yeah the village yeah he that was a crazy you think it's weird I think it's weird too what if the guy what if the guy who's going and getting coffee is just a master and like he knew the sister was going to come so he was like faking it what if he like leaves his phone there I mean I think that one's kind of crazy because the fact that the s

ister saw him be mean to someone I'm like yeah that's a crazy wrinkle dude what if he's seeing the sister whoa whoa whoa and what if the sister was stealing money from everyone bro all of us and they named her kid after I yeah I think that one is the most like I don't know but all the other ones it's like yeah suspicion will we waiting for updates yeah we're going to get a lot of updates I mean will we you think we'll probably eventually Circle back to some of these is so excited two of these ar

e from yesterday so oh yeah I do think that coupled with the threesome I think they could work this out oh they're fine yeah yeah they're okay I think there's I think we fixed them I think I think out of all of these they're the only ones that I'm like I think they'll be they they could work this out but also with just the history of everything I don't know yeah no I just hope to God he doesn't text that girl yeah anyways well thank you both for being here um that was a lot of fun that was reall

y fun yeah this was great thanks for watching wow look at that it let us know what other subreddits themes you'd like to see on this show uh and we'll see you next Saturday uh don't cheat we'll see you next Saturday bye