we laugh how hard is it for a woman to be to
attract a guy sweet thin nice sex at any time don't NE don't argue winner yeah know not enough
men like lead I think when your relationship you got to set the rules let the girl know what you
will and won't tolerate people just put up with [ __ ] you know and like girls they hate weak
men they'll test you you like you they'll start testing you they'll even test Stronger Yeah no
back what I Ed yeah they'll test me too you just say no should I get
tested I've never had a girl
not test back when you used to sleep around you know I always like to figure out female psychology
sometimes I'd find out girl as a boyfriend I would always ask K why are you cheating you ask wait
before after the after after [Laughter] good what was the reason I get answer this when I really
started waking up I expected to hear like he's anle hits me every single time it was because
he's too nice too nice there you go you got it and he's weak he does what I tel
l him someone say
I'd even test him I'll ask him to do ridiculous things and he does it so now I need a guy that
I can't can't boss around so so I think this is the Matrix I really try to use with people when I
try to help them men we get validation through sex sex or compliance that leads to sex women get
their validation from attention but attention that eventually leads to resources our resources
or time or money or whatever as men when we give our attention to women for nothing our atte
ntion
is valueless I'm leaving Hardy emojis I'm paying for her only in those cases when I'm doing those
things I'm giving her attention and not only does she not have any value for me she actually starts
to resent me you'll see that men who give women money on a repeated basis I I talk to them all
the time make fun of these guys to me constantly women will make fun of their sugar daddies to me
constantly for women for so when a man gives his attention for nothing he loses value when a woman
gives her sex for nothing she loses value and she's supposed to but exactly righted now in order
for her to do that so what men are doing now is they're confusing compliance and attention they're
receiving attention from women and they think it's compliance and they're responding with attention
for us as men to give sex cost us nothing sex is fun for us to give and we don't lose value to give
it so for women to give attention is also cost them nothing their attention is worthless as a
man
if I meet a woman and she's really attractive I'm never going to compliment of her because of
her physical attractiveness she's always going to do some if I saw a woman and she was posting
a picture she's like I just paid off my house I would like that photo I was like congratul you
paid off a house congratulations saw a woman and she finished her master's degree I'd be like
congrat I would like that photo we have on here I have never liked a photo with a girl where where
in a bikini never
because what am I doing I'm giving my attention losing my value in exchange
for no compliance I'm getting attention from her and her attention is worthless if you just have
guys go on that idea like basically compliance is below the belly button and attention is above the
belly button then it's just much easier for them to make mistakes she sent me news that was with
her thumbs that's above the belly button that's attention she came to my she came to my house and
made me dinner that means
she had to move her ass that's compliance I'll give her I'll reinforce
compliance I will not reinforce force or validate it's amazing how you have to kind of explain it to
guys like that but it's it's important because so many guys are ill equipped to deal with women and
understand these things and going back to I hate to bring it back to the tradcon thing but they
don't arm you with this the Bible is not going to teach you the difference between attention and
and compliance at all and the
thing that kills me is that if you don't know this stuff you're going
to get destroyed and here's my thing and this is really this defeats the tradcon in two seconds
basically I say this I tell guys to have these things in place make their money get in shape have
prerequisite experience with women you know I say 50 girls but if you get 30 you feel like you're
good whatever 20 whatever my point is this I want you to be in a position where a majority of women
are a going to respect you and B
you'll be able to gain some compliance and then C I want you
to go in to this relationship and this marriage that you might pursue with your eyes wide open in
no way am I telling guys [ __ ] 50 girls and stay a player for the rest of your life no I'm giving
you the tools set so that you can choose you want to be married and have a family my's 50 girls is
my vasectomy you know cuz here's the thing this is what kills me bu don't you [ __ ] watching this
podcast right now need to look at yours
elf in the mirror and ask yourself do you live the lifestyle
you live right now because you chose to or because you had to and most you mother watching the show
right now are living a lifestyle because you had to maybe you had pressure from your parents marry
that girl or maybe you maybe you were broken you couldn't get anything besides that fat Becky that
you're with right now chose for or she chose for you you better put a ring on it or I'm leaving you
and that's the reality for most men
and a lot of you guys I'm talking to you [ __ ] right now you
guys did not choose where you're at you're where you're at because you were forced to be there
I'm giving guys the [ __ ] tool set so they can choose to do what the [ __ ] they want to do you
trained for MMA professional fighter if you know you got a fight coming up in 6 months you're train
hard I'm not just going to walk in there without training guys right when you get into a marriage
with a girl that's acking fight fight for y
our life cuz you can lose half your money you can
lose your children you can have to pay alimony it the stakes are crazy high it's a Pay-Per-View
fight mother literally pay-per-view for you if you lose there's literally nothing where Stakes
are higher and you know less yes so my thing is if you're going to go if professional fighters go
into a fight and train like their life depends on it for a fight you're telling me you're not going
to train for the fight of your life with the woman that
you're going to be with cuz it is a fight a
relationship is adversarial like we said it's a battle between the two to see who the and if the
man does have the it loses every single time and a lot of watch right now that this content you found
out that you no longer have leverage that's why you're here so I'm giving you guys a tool set to
get that leverage back you got to make the choice of what you want to do I'm not telling you go out
there and a bunch of but what I am telling you is it mi
ght require you Fu a bunch of so that you
can make the choice that you don't want to do it anymore yeah the girl also has to know there's a
chance that you'll leave her if she's misbehaving if she's giving you attitude and she knows there's
no chance you're going to leave her she can just keep going she can go cheat on you she can run
around she can go get blacked out with with a guy like you exactly she's not going to do anything
why wouldn't she religion what does it do do the right thing
stick it out she's treating you badly
doesn't respect you you know what be a good person stick it out my thing is to your question for
solution why don't have both have the wisdom of understanding the world that you live in right now
how women operate how men operate and choose for yourself what you want to do then add to that what
your B system is which is maybe Christianity or Islam whatever that may be and have the foundation
so you have both int working together versus is having one is
like all right be a good boy do
this but you don't understand what's happening on this side because you don't understand the
real world use red pill awareness and religion to put yourself in the best position man and to
for yourself W it's almost like we're trying to equip you and educate you with the red pill G
I wonder too I want to say this too because a lot of guys let's be honest a lot of guys hate the
term red pill cool you don't have to use it for us when we're using it for the firs
t purposes of this
podcast it's just the truth man that's all we're saying this is what you're all talking about is
I had a interesting Twitter exchange that kind of opened my eyes where I said something like this is
why you don't get married for statistical reasons and this guy was a tradcon pill and da and he says
you know uh what and I don't want to misquote him but I said marriage should not be confrontational
it shouldn't be a fight it shouldn't take effort it should be easy and effort
less and he came
in you obviously don't understand how marriage works and d d you know and this and you'll find
faith and support through God and I'm no no no I'm not arguing think of this concept for to give
to the traditional conservative type of guys all want to track how about a marriage where there
isn't any arguing because you lead and she knows to follow how about you're a hardworking man you
establish the family you ests the household you provide for the family nobody gives you Guff
and
not only does your wife pimp you got to have the pimp the pimp can never be dispensed with it must
be there I I I get I get we are going to jail all all I want to do is introduce the concept of a
happy marriage in one of my books I talk about the percentage of marriages that end up being
happy you know what percentage of marriages end up being happy for who the the male or the female
guess can they be happy at the same time is that possible well okay but generally and I it's till
how
many marriages make it till death do them part or one death makes them part it's 14% so but you
way higher than I expected though I must conceed yeah but that's just till death do they could have
been at each other the entire time most marriages are miserable James ston would back that up at
a million half a second I am trying to there's everybody at this table trying to give traditional
people the concept and the tools and the idea that if you follow these rules if you're empirical
about w
omen's Behavior you're going to drastically increase your chances of having a happy marriage
nothing sounds worse to me than being in an unhappy marriage till death did somebody part
and if you the the idea that marriage should be hard and it's a struggle and you need Christ and
through religion no I got a great secular idea how about She Loves You does what you [ __ ] say cuz
she loves you you have to also be a good man you can't be some drug ad you got be a provider got be
a provider we g
ot to put a bur of performance on the M you got to be a provider you got to deliver
for your family deliver for your wife holy the idea of how about you just are nice and sweet and
stay you know we we laugh how hard is it for woman to be to attract a guy sweet thin nice sex at
any time don't neag don't argue that's a winner
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