Orion Kelly - That Autistic Guy is live

another random chat another random live hangout and uh I'm just sitting around on a Friday morning much going down not exactly a very summery Friday morning here in the land out under it's quite overcast not very hot I understand yep back Serene ties greetings in the UK hey Rob good day Whitney hi Whitney El abido sorry I said that badly it's great to see you Rose morning Milo from Salt Lake City Utah hey you guys can all hear me okay hopefully Honey B hey from New York Lisa hi Ernestine yeah I'

m still I'm still struggling um I'm still struggling with sore throat and a cough and headaches and all that kind of stuff anyway it's taking forever to um to get better this has been the most unproductive week of my whole life um rocks Garden hey thanks for that last video on the love language it's been really helpful I'm happy to hear that how was it helpful rocks what was helpful about it quirky hi our side hi Joshua hello rocks from Northern California yeah able defense I am I just can't get

over it Andrew hi Rose I'm glad you were having a copper and you got the notification you can hang out for a bit that's what we're really doing here Chloe from Cornwall welcome welcome Chloe from Cornwall Bob how you doing good to see you guys here it's a um I was like I was saying at the start it's a gray gloomy old summer's day where I am on in the southern hemisphere on a Friday morning it's been one of the oddest couple of weeks I'll tell you we've had days near 40° we've had bush fires we

had thunderstorms we've had power outages it's it's so weird it's all happening Fran morning good evening everyone Dawn hi from Michigan Lisa you got your AUD nois on Monday my videos have been helpful well congratulations my friend it's congratulations welcome it's great to have you as part of us and I'm so happy for you Joe hi yay I got another notification sorry you're still ill that's good J I appreciate that Thomas hi Ernestine does anyone else have mad anxiety about leaving the house to go

stay somewhere else yeah I think that's pretty common um in what context though you like you mean like to go and stay somewhere else like on a holiday or family or Partners or friends or but I think that's right I think that's right Carl morning are you going to a birthday party friends birthday party and you have to go okay yeah I hate um I hate staying at other people's places and I hate other people um you know staying at my place not because I hate the people but there's something about hav

ing people in my space that makes me feel like um even though they're doing nothing to block anything just having them there whether it's trades people or friends or family um I'm unable to kind of do what I wanted to do and it kind of renders me just inoperable useless and going somewhere else's place like you've lost all your Comforts so I totally get it it's really hard for pip hey pip happy to catch you live rocks and Gardens the drawback is that I feel like a puffer fish when they try to be

come more physically affectionate and okay I think that I think that's um that's pretty normal I think it's a pretty standard respons I think you said you class yourself as Demi Demi seexual which is basically someone who needs like a strong emotional bond you know for a sexual attraction um to someone who in effect um you know would would have the reverse feeling um that a lot of people have that are able to do things you know like um one night stands and those type of things um so yeah I total

ly understand that I'm sorry to hear about your day uh Fran yeah I understand understand It's Tricky it's a tricky situation how was side staying somewhere as for one night's horrible exactly holidays can be a bit different as you say cuz it's kind of that's your place for a while and you kind make it your own yeah totally get it groovy Lisa hi pip same deal with strangers or people in the house rocks and Gardens yeah so PDA public displays of affection kind of like uh yeah make you blow up like

a puff of fiship totally understand that Amy do artistic people ever enjoy staying with others hoping my son doesn't always feel anxious about it so the thing about this is um Amy is well there's two things so the first thing is um you know autistic people rely on on you know the routines the sameness the things that keep them regulated in a world that tries to you know disregulated them then of course you have to manage your sensory sensitivities and you can do that in your own space right so

this keeps you regulated now of course if you know you're going to go somewhere else and you can't control sensory sensitivities or you can't control the way things happen the samess and the structure and the rigidity of the day and you know that's not going to be able to be done you know you're going to be disregulated you might shut down melt down you either way you're going to feel horrible of course you're going to be anxious any human on the planet who doesn't become anxious over over reali

zing that an upcoming experience will you know will make them feel bad um isn't a human so that's like that's just a human response but through an autistic lens based on the the sensitivities and the sess and the rigidity and stuff um even the idea of having someone in our house watching TV right so do I have to I feel like now I can't just watch the shows I want to watch I've got to kind of watch a show they might like or let they take control and and what am I supposed to do twiddle my thumbs

it's like so will your son ever get over it your son your son will definitely get over it to the point of he may find friends or a partner who he connects with or you know and they um you know they're meant to be um friends or Partners um and and that that will change but that's because then you know um they would have a connection where they'd go you know you do what you got to do in my place why you here in my place you do what you got to do to make this kind of you know sensory friendly and u

m you know whatever you got to do to help yourself regulate it so it actually comes down to the person and and other people working together um that was a long answer thank you my friend congratulations on your diagnosis I appreciate um appreciate you uh saying that about the stuff I'm glad you connected with that's what it's all about right validating 100% Luna hi James love your live videos where is CLA h I don't know where CLA is I think I think cla's doing a live stream with Tay um tomorrow

but I'm not sure where Claire is I feel like I've become a Duo the Orion and CLA show or something where I go she must go and vice versa maybe she'll be here soon who knows um Amber hi cub and cubes hello Chloe can I ask how do you cope with being seen on camera being visible seen is something you had to get over it's a good question Chloe um two things I don't like seeing or hearing myself so I don't put it this way I don't like to look um at me when I don't have to in any respect and I certain

ly don't like to I certainly don't I mean I have to edit my videos but I don't watch my videos or listen to myself or blah blah blah and and here's the other point you know um my special interest when I was a teenager was very much about broadcasting entertaining of course so I got into radio so I I um you know I worked in the radio industry as a professional on air broadcaster what you want to call it right so working in radio and then bits TV here and there and that kind of stuff that really t

aught me to have to really disassociate if I'm being me bro you know I'm entertaining I'm communicating I'm doing stuff I love which is this kind of stuff disconnecting I disconnect the idea that people are watching me um or people are listening to me and I almost feel like I'm just talking to one person here like yourself or myself um so there's no there's no reflection of me in on the planet that I like or want to look at nor is there any uh audio reflection that I want to hear or like um so I

disconnect that I just assume people AR aren't looking at me or listening to me and I just do my thing and then somehow it connects to people and they like that and that helps them and that helps me but I just I just I've just dis and and radio helps so think about it from Radio point of view you can't be on the radio you're autistic so this is what you do you sit in a small Studio Box by yourself pushing buttons and talking into a microphone the only time you ever interact with humans would be

people that call into the radio station which is you push a button and you hear a voice and then you hang up on them when you want to that sounds pretty autistic to me what do you do for a living I go I go to a building and I sit in a box by myself for six hours I talk to people I can't see uh and then I go home what do you do then I sit in a bigger box and talk to people I can't see and I go to sleep um that teaches you a lot of things if you were making content because you like to listen to y

ourself and see yourself you shouldn't be making content and we know that they exist we know like you know these moronic content creators or influencers are basically um all they're about really is allowing people to watch them and see them and hear them it's like what are you talking about anyway um that's my answer not too sure what the question was oh seen myself htin just have such anxiety and inertia which I didn't even know inertia was a thing I thought yeah you thought it was just crazy y

ou're not and that is autistic inertia is a thing right it totally is yeah um you know an object at rest will remain at rest an object you know in motion will remain in motion unless you know acted upon by an external Force so that option that autistic person at rest would need some sort of external Force to put them into motion and vice versa now for autistic people this can be really hard when you think about it too you know you might tell someone you could be your partner or your friend or yo

ur kid it's dinner let's eat and they're doing something right it doesn't matter how many times you say it they don't care you've worked hard on the dinner they don't care they don't want the dinner because they're doing something right and that that actually so you know that actually to go from this to this you're saying but I'm the external Force no you're not you're a roadblock um you're a roadblock to the movement and now they're at rest you've blocked the motion and now they're at rest and

now you want an autistic person at rest to be in movement to dinner you see what I'm saying anyway so autistic iner is really tricky and I totally get it um I experience it just just as being an autistic guy and an autistic dad um yeah that's that's true Fran about staying at someone's house not knowing the aess of He's supposed to be a guest he's supposed to help what he's supposed to do it's it's fore and again they comes down unspoken languages and signs and verbal cues and signals that allp

can struggle to pick pick up on I get it I totally get it and also too like if you have people over at your house what the hell are they doing sitting on the couch like this is some sort of like bed and breakfast you anyway lucky Laura so your daughter is about to attend uh college so finishing high school going to UNI not sure about if she she should stay on campus so in like a dormal you know campus rooms because of her stimming well I mean there's two points of this this question um you might

notice a lot of times I say there's two things to this question and unfortunately that's ingrained law school providing with different counterarguments the first thing is um it isn't her job to make other people um feel comfortable that she she is different her being autistic um is is it just a fact just like them having a certain colored eyes or hair that's just a the fact um it isn't your daughter's job to make them feel comfortable um it's your daughter's job to be respectful and them to be

respectful to to her you know to people but no they can get they can get P they can get stuffed right they can get stuffed piss off you don't like her stemming piss off I mean you know I'm autistic this is how I regulate myself would you rather me not regulating myself and then you can really see some fun stuff my friend so I'm frustrated for for you know people like yourself who have have kids going through this it's bloody and I've got a young child I hate it that they have to deal with this c

rap um if the best option for college is to you know to stay in a dorm on campus presumably that's because the college you go to is nowhere near your house I get that it's it can be kind of different in Australia but I get that um then this is the option you must take based on what's right for you in your life what do you want to do with your life who cares about them um and if if they counterargument is yes but I care about what people think of my stimming um then I would say um you know to you

r daughter um I get it I get it but I think you know pretty well and just as much as me that really no matter how hard you care about what they think about you being autistic it's not going to change is it um so you're better off getting that energy and focusing on you becoming the person you want to be getting the education you want to have creating the life you want to have based on being you because you know there's a lot of people that you know can be undiagnosed till later in life and they

wish they could go back and live their true authentic self much earlier than they got to so that's what I would say um I mean seriously people that this is their problem not your daughter the idea that that your daughter has gone through such issues in life right where the where neurotypicals have said you making me uncomfortable with this simming stuff that now she now is worried about that shows these people this is their problem in life oh this is different person this is artistic person in t

he dorm and they they do weird movements from time to time or they act different like this is their biggest problem if that's their biggest problem they're not going to they won't be there after week six it's like you know when you go to UNI you go to college it's like week one of semester one people everywhere big smiles in their face happy excited isn't this fun I always say I can't wait for about week six that's my favorite week CU basically 2/3 of the all the all the people have gone they ei

ther are staying at home or whatever and and the other PE the rest of the people that are still on campus have looks on their face literally um like every person they've ever known or loved in life has died it's just it's sheer depression it's like wow this is not good I don't like it here this life is bad I love it it's my favorite time of year week six just go there [ __ ] look at all these people you're not smiling now are you mate you thought it was easy didn't you sucks to be you yeah it's

my favorite part apologize I've gone off track where was I oh thank you Whitney for reminding people to hit that like button it's very important that you hit the like button guys even if you're here for two seconds because my autistic son who's nine um is a is a real um little boss he's a little boss when it comes to how many watched and how many liked and if he can't get an even number he gets it's he's a tough boss to have so if you could hit the like button everyone just do it for me once and

it'll help my son live um and fight another day and M and masus hello I can't I'm sorry I apologize cherries hi how you doing cherries great to see you hi from Netherlands to Orion and chat smiy Smo hi House of aasil tarot tarot I think I said that badly I just watched your unedited videos they were so real thank you I appreciate watching my unedited videos they're much easier to make because I just hit record and hit stop and put them out there so thank you for watching I appreciate that Cassi

dy hey from Philadelphia glad you made it in time you made it in time Cassidy thank you for being here Tommy Tommy last night I mentioned being attracted to people who are on my wavelength oh this is in the last live stream I did and the guy I'm talking to randomly mentioned today that he's autistic what an odd coincidence I'll be down Amy I was talking to Amy I think about her daughter at College thank you Iran appreciate your help hopeful for the future I'm really grateful you're doing this to

raise awareness my pleasure um Luna D I have autism my partner has ADHD so you already know we are the life of the party 100% htin you're always warm huh you wear tank tops in Winter you're running on a warm engine autistic people and temperature control autistic people and body temperature I'm telling you I don't know anything about this but I'm telling you the some sort of study or research needs to be done it's not I I put it to you the autistic people autistic people's cadium rhythm is is o

ff you know the Rhythm you kind of you get um when it's sleep time and wake up time and it kind of warms your body or cools your body or whatever it's off I always get that like cadium Rhythm where I get hot as all crap at a certain time at night when it's not it's like off anyway it's something in this so I can't help you but it's something in this but I'm I'm putting it out there okay I mean I'm pretty much letting most of the comments just roll but if if I see one even if it's out of context

and I haven't read the rest if I don't like it I'm just going to hide them from the channel I apologize guys I'm just trying to keep it safe for you guys so if you get hidden from the channel and you didn't do anything wrong it's just because I decided I didn't like the look of your comments so I just ditched you but I'm I'm letting most go through but if You' come if you've come here to you know to kind of make trouble for autistic people well you know I'm just gonna I'm just going to ditch my

friend it's not really something I'm too it doesn't bother me but if you want to start um making it bad for my community um no excuse Patrick new subscriber hey Pat thank you for being here compat PTSD and OCD diagnosis suspect ASD W my friend um well it's great to have you here and what we're all we're about guys is validating and supporting each other so welcome to the chat chat amongst yourselves say hey don't need to worry about me but it's all about validation and support so it's great to h

ave you my friend um light Gran adz quick thanks mate you've helped a lot oh thank you I appreciate that I'm I'm happy to have you here um Heidi just wanted to say I've been watching and appreciating for a few weeks now me and my son um both autistic and add cool great to have you guys thank you for being here Tanya hello help me not work at work that's what I'm here for my friend Ernestine would love to have a channel but can't stand stand how she looks on camera I don't think you should worry

about that Ernestine I mean it yeah I don't um there's not a single part of my appearance I like but I don't do it for people to say wow I like the look of you you know I do it for the reverse which is wellow that guy is not right and I like it sometimes you just got to you just got to do stuff if you if that's something you want to do of course Bob left with permanent burnout in the radio business well I can imagine I can imagine autism reads ASMR I welcome Chloe I appreciate that massive um ma

ssive thank you um for for being here I'm glad that my um content um helped you and there you go again Chloe thanks me for being brave and seen that's what I'm talking about doesn't matter how you look that's not what it content's about that's what influences are for right you know those people that wear like special clothes and stuff and look amazing could on them cool man but that's not what I am um if I was I wouldn't delete the multiple emails I get every day from corporations trying to get

me to do influencer stuff I don't even read them soon as I see like the you know the the title I just delete like what do you want me to do you want you want me to help you sell a product what what what you what are you talking about what does that even mean um yeah Dead Poet hiy yo Gemma hey Gemma gemma's Journey Grace you watched my autism grief video you recently lost your nana well I'm so sorry to hear that I I you know I've experienced that and it's it's horrible it's rough I get it um and

thank you thank you for watching and I'm I'm glad it helps you in some way flying shrimp photography that's awesome name I have a hard time when I make videos for my channel I can only work if Nobody's around at all and it still takes me forever to do voiceovers or to record on camera and it's all masking yeah totally get it totally get it absolutely absolutely 100% I hate working when people are watching some and in fact I hate working sometimes when people are around my wife always says you kn

ow you need like these perfect conditions that don't even exist to do anything it's it's kind of true um yeah I totally get it um and the masking thing on camera absolutely like the one reason one of the reasons why I do the unedited unmasked videos I have a series right a series of videos in a playlist unmasked unedited or whatever I do because I don't script them and I don't try to do anything I just just go where it just be me um as opposed to the videos I do which have obviously you know str

uctured to a topic and I try to present them in a way where people want to watch them um so you know you try you put on a mask you don't even realize it sometimes um but then saying that though you could argue that my unmasked videos aren't even fully unmasked because autistic people you know are autistic in many different ways so and it's it's hard it's hard to know um cherries you loved working in radio I loved working in radio too it was amazing um I love I loved radio I love radio I'd still

work in radio um it's very hard industry to navigate for an autistic person in my in my experience it was very much like you know um no we don't need you like you're in in their way of saying it instead of saying you're autistic it's you don't seem to work well with teams I'm not a team player don't do well with others maybe maybe don't make other people feel as comfortable as they're supposed to feel in the workplace um so yeah yeah we don't think we need you anymore it's like great I can barel

y keep up with these comments guys I'm sorry I'm really sorry all right I'm doing my best guys commenter just way too fast for me to keep up with it sry it's not your fault it's my fault because I can't I'm sorry hi Jazz Helen hi again um Dino I think Dino Dino um thank you I appreciate that you need some mods at some point when you can see that's even gone I can't even find that comment now you're probably right you're probably right help me rodo from the Netherlands hi um catcher thank you com

ments already gone how many people are commenting at once here this is ridiculous I can't keep up um katcha your videos helped me so much thank you that's amazing thank you um Nicole hi bar I get to say it um Sher um you think you're far behind on the comments you should see where I am I'm I'm reading out comments I got yesterday so don't feel bad um catch a where's tank tops in winter too I'm telling you autism and temperature control it's a thing look into it uh there's no nothing to find I'm

just saying physically look into it um I hope you guys are having a great time chatting to each other that's all I care about if you guys are having a great time chatting to each other I'm fine um but there's no way I can I'm going to be able to do this as good as you guys so I'm doing the best I can these goddamn comments are like popping up and going every 10 seconds of but um but it's great to have you here and if if at any if at any point there's any part of your body that is able to touch t

he like button just once that'll be good for my son my autistic son who will be come down hard on me very hard on me tonight if he sees how many of people watch and how many people liked and it's not evenly matched so there if you have any part on your body that can hit that like button that would be amazing I don't care what part of the body it is I just want to just want to try to get it up there I don't even know where I am Alexandra from Sweden really appreciate your content congratulations

on the diagnosis and it's great to have you here thank you and oh the comments already gone Ernestine temp's a big thing 100% Helen agrees uh un undress or undress I just saw your comment it's gone something about sweaty feet I saw sweaty feet I couldn't see the rest I apologize I'm sorry um I think something about being on the live stream again great to have you here and you have sweaty feet there you go I I agree autism and heat um uh I've I've shared you on my community I really appreciate yo

ur grief videos thank you Gemma um I don't know how far old that comment was I'm so far behind I I I don't even know why I'm bothering I don't even know who's here this is ridiculous this is ridiculous I'm sorry guys I'm going to the very bottom Whitney's here dirty Kelly from Berlin I'm going to the very bottom Amanda Mia give me a shout out I just did um f2d W I think you're hot in the most respectful and I know you're married kind of way Savannah oh thank you I appreciate that um wow hey Clai

re for the Woodshed Theory are you here I can't I can't find you if you're here I can't keep up on the comments clear I'm sorry if you he hello clear from The Woodshed theory if you here I'm just saying hello because I'll probably never see your comments and it's very hard Mia you're asking me to give you a shout out again because you're a big fan this is the second time I've given you a shout out I'm a ghost lots of laugh Woodshed Theory clear you are here okay no a ghost CLE I'm doing it on my

phone you know that thing I said I wanted to do with you and then you decided to do with Taylor instead that's that's that's right that's right did you hear what I said guys yeah I said hey CLA we should do one of these live vertical live streams together next thing you know there's artwork out she's doing one with Taylor from M on the Spectrum what do you guys think about that let's do uh let's do a a poll right now here we go I'm creating a pole here we go um did CLA betray o question mark ye

s no start poll okay poll started guys um you can answer that poll if you'd like did CLA from The Woodshed Theory betray or for going on a live stream mobile live stream with Taylor from M the Spectrum before me when I asked her first this is this is like some sort of girl power thing I'm assuming anyway whatever clear and and by the way when you want to do one with me on your channel the answer's no mate just put your votes in guys there there's almost 200 people here just got to hit vote did C

LA betray me or not you do the math guys you do the math oh Whitney you think it's a joke do you m this is serious stuff Whitney this is serious stuff it's time to pick mate now I know you're going to pick Taylor over me and that's fine but this is serious stuff who is CLA CLA from The Woodshed Theory now because her name has no autistic reference people don't realize it but CLA Claire is a amazing incredible one of my one of the best one of my favorite people on the planet autistic content crea

tor in fact she may well have been you know three or four years ago the first autistic female content creator I saw on YouTube that I thought holy goodness this this chick's amazing um that's who clear is so go and check out her Channel The Woodshed Theory clear from The Woodshed Theory um don't forget to photo in the poll guys this a poll did CLA betray oy so CLA from The Woodshed Theory I did a live stream on my phone and I want and she's got a mug club and C porch coffee so hey we should do o

ne together next thing and I wake up this morning on this Friday morning and what do I see what do I see Taylor t my so-call friend Taylor from M on the Spectrum what do I see oh that's right artwork for a live stream tomorrow with Taylor so-call my friend so-call Taylor doing a live stream on their phone with my so-called friend uh what's that again CLA from The Woodshed Theory I'm hurt this is not a joke to me I'm hurt I'm hurt what is you explain by the way maybe I'm maybe it's an autistic th

ing you explain to me how this is fair by the way I message C hey C we we need to do this too right we need to do this this is going to be fun I think I even said you can do it on your Channel first mate o but you did it with Tor first too that's bloody right mate yeah I was a guest on Taylor's channel right I was a guest on her Channel I helped her achieve great because of me Taylor had like 35,000 views on a live stream in three hours you think that was her mate no it probably was actually bec

ause mine haven't done that well at all oh [ __ ] I'm the problem nevertheless I was reaching out to another friend saying hey I now I I I I've I've resurrected Taylor's Channel now I'm going to help you my friend I'm going to help you and what does she do she runs off to the other one and goes oh no I'm gonna stick with Tay on this one and they put the artwork out and everything youve seen my artwork for my live streams no there's no artwork for my live streams I just push play I just P go have

you voted in this bloody poll guys vote in this poll all right cherries I'll that's okay cherries I can do one I can do a one with you then that's fine everyone every so people are saying I'm joking um people take my I'm an hi I'm Orion I'm an autistic person um I'm never understood and my humor is always taken the wrong way um and I want to be very clear um I'm always um my humor is very dry very sarcastic I um and uh downright hurtful that's my humor I'm an Aussie I'm an Australian my M mate

so I want to be very clear um conversation about clear is there any jokes she betrayed me she betrayed me let's see how we're going here current votes say Claire betrayed me 58 to 42 hang on a second who voted no what's wrong with you people what idiot voted no what do you mean so so hang on a second let's get this story straight so I did a live stream with Taylor from M of the spectrum and then I messaged CLA and say hey this went really well you and I should be doing one right yeah cool let's

do that you want to do it on your channel I think I think I actually said that do you want to do on your channel so here I am by the way all those views that I got for Taylor that's her Channel she gets all those views I get none suddenly CLA you want the views I'll give you the views mate let's do it let's go go to sleep put my head on my pillow all I'm thinking about is how good it's going to be going live with CLA that's all my dreams we're live streaming that's not true I woke up this mornin

g and there bloody artwork mate hello hello I'm choppered again I become Chopper when I get angry hello hello toot toot hello um no seriously I wake up this morning B bang Taylor from M on the Spectrum and CLA from The Woodshed Theory are live streaming together on Friday morning or something which is Saturday morning because it's Friday morning now I'm in the future make sure to tune in for Taylor's live stream with me as a guest clear from The Woodshed Theory how dare you use my chat room is a

dvertising space for your tainted tainted live stream betrayal horrible thing ending the poll p by the way did CLA betray oion the results are in my friends yes she did the results are in so take that and yesterday I did a poll who's prettier is Taylor prettier than Orion and the poll results were no so I think we know who's who's done who's right in the right here and it's not [Laughter] me oh cry myself to sleep anyway what are you talking about that's right what am I talking about now Taylor

from Mama of the spectrum and CLA from The Woodshed Theory I absolutely love deely and I am just joking around with him you guys need to understand that Taylor from the from M on the Spectrum and CLA from The Woodshed Theory I keep saying 300,000 times because I want you to go to their channels and check them out and I'm just joking around okay so people don't let's get puffy here guys this is just humor and entertainment do you see what I'm saying it's it's impossible for you to get back to the

se comments guys I'm sorry I'm so sorry I'm desperately trying to JMS please do another vid with neuro Divergent I will I will do I will do I'm not sure if she's here today though have you guys seen her CLA from The Woodshed theory is now making a formal apology sorry oh no she's not sorry for all the totally real drama everyone so she hasn't she's using my comment section to promote her upcoming live stream that doesn't involve me although I asked her first I feel like this is like a Kirby Your

Enthusiasm episode or something what's the rules by the way if I ask someone first and they say yes and the next day I wake up and they've they've decided to to take up another offer what's the rules to that how does this work you can't do that anyway she's using my comments to promote her upcoming stream but she's not using my comments to to write a formal apology for betraying me I'm I'm I just don't know where where to look cherries because I'm an Aussie you're saying no one should know when

I am and am not joking is that saying because I'm an Aussie I I guess oh my God Dino what what did I what didn't I respond to I'm sorry I I didn't see it it's hard to see things Dino I I didn't betray You by not responding to your super message what what was what was it I apologize let me try and find it I'm sorry I don't I'm not um I'm not ignoring any one intentionally I promise you I've just been distracted so hang on I'm very sorry when was it I can't even find it mate well can I say um uh

dino I think I think we're we're sweet um or Dino Dino um thank you so much and whatever you said I agree Rono is there a topic for this live hey guys can you can you answer that question for him or her is there a topic for my live streams guys can you put that in the comments um is there a topic for a live stream is there a topic to life there's no topic to life there's no point to life is there a topic to my live stream this the topic is what's happening that's the topic no offense not trying

to offend you I get this asked all the time what what do you think this is what if you where have you come to yeah the topic is how CLA betrayed me okay that's the topic how an autistic content creator portrayed another autistic content creator and this may well and truly end any more future collabs with either of those parties and they'll hear from my lawyers that's right I don't have one I have some not true I can't keep up I can't keep up with the comments and I I I take full responsibility I

'm very sorry people wondering I'm Orion Kelly Orion Kelly like the constellation I'm autistic and I'm from Australia I'm I'm an Australian autistic guy who makees content why just so you guys can have a place where you can feel validated and supported and also the loved ones of autistic people validated and supported that's who I am if you're wondering who is this guy why am I watching him what am I doing here fisherman extraordinaire hi how you doing no Cindy the not be a quiz I promise oh yes

Amanda betrayal is the topic I need mods I get it I I do um yes that's right Terry connecting with others is a topic that's right um I do need mods but you know what I don't I don't even have enough I don't have any ability to keep up with your comments less and Alone um moderated hi Lucy nice to meet you Dante thank you Billy's craft room I appreciate that hey cherries I don't think I will enjoy the comments someday I don't think I will I don't think there's ever a point where I'll ever go bac

k and watch my own video um is there any comments I should have enjoyed that I haven't enjoyed please bring me up to speed uh dino dino I always said this wrong my super message was you're an inspiration for me made me stop doubting if I have autism and less ashamed about it love you mate keep up the good work appreciate it thank you awesome thanks Dino um Heidi hi autism reads ASMR how is your kitty doing Iran yeah little Roger is about 15 weeks now he's doing great tals from the Spectrum hey b

uttercups hi buttercups you know you made it by the way you know you made it when multiple people are telling me I need a mod I mean I take I take that as um I take that as a compliment I take that as a a win I take that as pure success by the way um I've never had more people hang out with me on a live stream nor comment in my entire lifetime of my channel so that's a good thing my friends we've made it we have made it my friends sure we're not Taylor from Mom on the Spectrum or CLA from The Wo

odshed Theory level right and when they start you know kind of when they start well let's let's be clear when they start to you know work to conspire against me um there's no other chance either it's a joke shut up um that's a funny one Jerry's you'd say ask CLA to be moderator but that's right that's right seetin Lucy how much life you miss I've been going I've been going for 54 minutes so I'd say you've missed about 90% of what will be the total live stream it does roll too fast during the liv

e during the live I agree rolly pan poly 100% cherries there were a few comments about how attractive you are but you hate those say I don't want to see those and there wasn't there isn't and there shouldn't be pure delusion um asby punk Dawn glad I caught this live stream glad you did too I don't know how many devices you're using to see this or watch this but if you can like on every one of them right now That'll be amazing it's not for me it's for my 9-year-old autistic son who will look at t

his video see the numbers and go why are there more people watching than liking it's very easy it shouldn't take a lot of effort or emotional stress just got to push the like button once that's it Tales from the Spectrum hi oh man in my eye Terry says bury the hatchet with CLA and book alive good advice Terry good advice and in true uh in true autistic fashion to that I would say no I'm an autistic person I give people one chance one chance and that's that you get one chance in life I to go who

you are get one chance and then you're out that's autistic oh man QC aquaholic hey congratulations my friend I'm so happy for you that's amazing QC um and congratulations cherri's the winning lottery tickets for tomorrow were not given in this chat I have not missed the winning lottery tickets for tomorrow though technically I am in the future where I don't know what it is where you are but I can tell you it's 10:31 a.m. on Friday where I am so technically I could give you the winning lottery ti

ckets from tomorrow because I am in tomorrow even though the late great Apollo Creed says there is no tomorrow technically there is in this instance I am in tomorrow Annabelle hi Annabelle how you going happy happy birthday I believe Tales from the Spectrum what's a mod exactly if you ask my 9-year-old autistic son I'd say it it would the only thing he would say would be a long 30 minute rant on Minecraft in this instance I'm pretty sure it's where someone in the chat gets empowered by me with a

uthority to you know get rid of creeps in the comments section I believe that's what it is Hannah hi Hannah how do you make friends as an autistic adult you come to Orion Kelly that autistics live streams that autistics that autistic live streams that autistic guys live streams and you talk to people and meet this community because this is the best community ever my friend so this is how you make friends is an autistic adult I reckon you reach out to your community and you find people you connec

t with this is the best place so don't worry about me just talk to them and and it's great to have you by the way thank you um yes a moderator people keep saying what's a mod um people are saying mod isn't short for moderator um thanks Katie Billy craft room is struggling to access waiting list in um for old ads in the UK absolutely I'm sorry to hear that it's really horrible thanks heid yeah follow us all over the world it's pretty amazing the time difference in all the different people tuning

in from there some people it's like late at nice and Al small thank you I appreciate that I don't hi from Norway hello money hi Amiri hi Britney Britney you got your assist coming up soon good luck congrats oh I've lost control again I'm really sorry guys I'm I reckon I'm about I reck I'm about 50 minutes behind you I'm responding to comments from from yesterday I apologize guys I'm so far behind this is ridiculous Mony Uganda that's amazing greetings from Toronto Canada Beer a doo Jin hi um wha

t I've missed so many comments I'm so sorry guys hello from Sweden is this a pre-recorded stream huh it's live right now I just I'm can't catch up on the comments Joseph watching from Ireland great to have you my friend thank you so much for being here and I appreciate you loving my shirts Steph hey from England just received my sign copy of your book you did Steph that's amazing thank you I'm glad I got there there have there's not many left my book is my book autism fuels an earthing guide is

available worldwide on Amazon so you can get it forever but if you want to order a a personally signed copy by me of my book um that is on my website Orion kelly.com and there are I'd say there we're probably down to under 80 now 80 and um they won't be around for long and I'm I'm not ordering any more so if anyone wanted a signed copy of my book you don't just want to get it from Amazon which is fine by the way ebook or standard um you better get to the website and sort that out soonish because

I'm not I'm not getting anymore that's it's and when I die they'll be worth a fortune and that's that's imminent um any who yes ID it is Friday in Australia all right I can't keep up so let's go to the bottom news hey from Chicago that's okay ASB Punk it's fine what is my book about uh CIS it's it's a well it's called allm fields and earthlings guide so the title is a pretty good Insight but it's a um it's a book written um by me from my perspective um about all the different challenges and dif

ferent strategies tips and experiences of being an autistic person so I think a lot of people find it interesting to read because they can relate to it um again it's about validating and supporting so Sparks yo hi from Chicago you checked out my videos while I was there oh the videos of me in Chicago yeah they were that were one one of my most fun videos to make just walking around Chicago videoing stuff and making up jokes about stuff it was I loved it it was great fun again I'm very sorry if I

missed your comments they're going way too fast I'm doing my best um and failing miserably so I'm not ignoring you I promise you it's not what I'm doing I'm not my attention I'm just very slow I don't know how you guys are keeping up with the comments Renee just wanted to say hi hi Renee great to see you narcissistic I should use my laser eyes to catch up that's right I do do I have laser eyes by the way guys on my podcast channel it's a different Channel Orion Kelly podcast on YouTube I did a

podcast on superpowers and special needs and all that kind of stuff and at the very end if you watch to the end I actually shoot lasers out of my eyes Heidi getting Whiplash from the comments you're right mate I agree Sparks my ASD partner sends your videos to me a I'm happy to hear that I'm ASD as well on it's our love language amazing thank you that's great to hear St I was diagnosed autism last year had my first job interview tomorrow for a mental health nurse due to qualifying summer your vi

deo has been such a great help that's that's great congratulations my friend and good luck that's a that sounds fantastic Al M when Orion stares the camera it's menacing Mia what football team do you support what type of football Mia be specific Aussie Rules Football AFL AFL ESS and bombers NRL National Rugby League St George ilara dragons is that you happy you done are we done what European football club do you support there's an Australian coach who is BAS who's from Melbourne this Victoria th

e state on from an Aussie coach and POA kogo who's with hot Spurs I don't know if he's going to go somewhere else he's he's a killer coach so wherever he is I'll support them so it must be Tottenham at the moment okay but frankly he should probably be at an even higher up team now maybe he will and he was he was in he was in Scotland right and he he got a uh he won a Premiership with a with a team in Scotland and then that got him to the hot Spurs I believe so he's so yeah I like I like I like w

atching sports depends on what it is but you most most football sports I like watching but anyway um Australia is not Australia is not in the EU by the way just we're clear if people don't know where Australia is um then you the system has failed you um I mean I know where all other countries are why don't you and that' be my question um yeah so Australia is its own continent we are we are our own own continent and we are in the southern hemisphere so you go to Antarctica and look up a little bi

t you're going to see New Zealand and Australia um anyway Cindy it's near Middle Earth is that right I guess that's true Middle Earth was filmed in New Zealand and we are very close to New Zealand in fact technically on a legal point of view you could say New Zealand is a state of Australia it is but you could say it is because it is it is in the original constitution of Australia New Zealand technically would have been a state of Australia so part of the country of Australia it's in the Constit

ution didn't go so well they're their own country now but in the end it's one of those things like go well I don't know what that even means um green rock hey so Tails from the Spectrum are we going to have an argument about this whole continent thing we're part of the Oceana region but we are not part of the Asian continent we are our own continent Australia is a continent and Australia is a country right Australia is a country that's right Australia is a country it's also an island and it's al

so a continent and we are part of the austral Asian and the you know Oceanic regions Australia is certainly not um part of another continent we are our own continent now in saying that and being you know I'm I'm more than happy to say I'm completely wrong and you're right that's fine whatever helps people that's my understanding Jean from south Brazil I'm the father of an autistic six-year-old girl called Maria her behavior is very stiff sometimes she does not like changes how to shift that okay

um Jean um so Jean um this is really interesting my friend so you know your daughter is autistic um it's not about being stiff or or you know to change um it's about she she's autistic um and it's the change that deregulates her in a world that dis reggulator uses a wheelchair and she's you know she's very against walking um so she's autistic um you changes to sameness and routine and structure and rigidity they are going to dysregulate your daughter um which can lead to burnouts and meltdowns

and shutdowns and different things and no one wants that for their child um so I think it's more about embracing the idea that that's actually part of how we maintain some sort of normality in our life um so yes we are going to fight back on changes um and that's not us being you know like um Troublesome or you know like stiff to change um that's us surviving um of course as a parent you still need to navigate that so you know like for example um we have a son um and transitioning is hard yeah u

m and and transitioning is always about um being open and honest with enough notice um I've done videos on things like demand avoidance and those types of things which would be very helpful as a parent like how to beat demand avoidance those types of things um it's all about transitioning whether you're an adult or whether you're um a child it's not so much about a stiffness to change it's about how is the change coming about is it unexpected is it any notice are you just ask it to demanding it

to happen these are the kind of things to look into okay I hope that helps dead Soul says sunscreen is cheap in Australia what does that even mean what what are you talking about sunscreen as cheap how expensive is it where you are Steph would love to visit Australia if it wasn't for the spiders spiders the least of your your worries my friend I look around because they're we live with them so anyway Mony come for a tour in Uganda wow that' be awesome dead Soul you hardly see spiders and snakes

in Australia well unfortunately my friend where I live that's not the case I live uh you know regionally and on the coast and I can tell you if I didn't see spiders it would be amazing unfortunately most of our stories are um my my kids my boys and their interactions with spiders kangaroos wombats koalas foxes snakes lizards um anyway we all have different experiences and that's fine your favorite of the animal righto is a cabar and we hear those all the time those things um are very easy to hea

r and they're great for snake I love grabbing a snake for a snack anxiety is overwhelming for an autistic person is that normal yes it is hi again from iseland Sunshine hi my favorite Aussie animal is o oh thank you how dare you Andrew from Kent in England thank you my friend it's great to have you here it's overwhelming isn't it you find it overwhelming just trying to keep up with all the comments it is really hard such a random conversation when you have these live streams and you just can't k

eep up with comments you go from one thing to the next miles thank you my friend appreciate that Mr Joel definitely changes your life I agree I'm literally just skipping comments and going to the going to the most recent ones because I just can't keep up I'm sorry that weirdo girl thank you for being here it's great to have you my friend Cindy our little kitten and our cat are much more integrated now though the uh the older cat who's a female she is um she's a bit of an a-hole it's still kind o

f hissing and the swatting sometimes like seriously mate give it a spell he just wants to hang out anyway Al small good luck have a great one to see you New Zealand patriotic Darren and Travis from NZ big fans of yours hey guys thank you for being here so Madam um you have to use a you I have to use a cam in stream now but how do you keep from rubbing an itchy nose I can't seem to I don't I itch and rub wherever I want to itch and rub it means nothing everyone does well I don't I don't itch and

rub everywhere I want to itch and rub on camera but yes anyway Michelle hi from Melbourne hi thanks ID I'm my new cat thank you Stacy hi from UK Zack yes s I'm a strain I'm Aion Kelly that autistic guy I'm from Australia tactical kak okay um I got a late diagnosis found your channel it's giving me something to relate to appreciate it it's fantastic br Bri wants to know how big the spiders are here how big the spiders are here it doesn't matter how big they are the smaller they are the deadli the

y are pretty much um you know there's big we we have spiders called Huntsman huntsman spiders which are um like my hand is a good indication of of an average size they can be bigger um but yeah it doesn't the Size Doesn't Really Matter it's the the ones that you want to watch out for um yeah Ron out outstanding job and channel thank you for all your hard work I appreciate it thank you so much New Zealand patriotic do you get any funding for your autism I'm not sure what it is like in New Zealand

but yeah we um in Australia the ndis the national disability insurance um scheme does provide funding for autistic people depending on each person's individual case um so yes the answer is yes um a lot of like my son does um and you know ortis ads definitely can apply for it and some can get it um so I mean in short the it's a big political question in short the answer is yes um to some degree it's much trickier for adult th it's like what do you need it for what do you want to use it for these

kind of things um but yeah it's U it's a bit of a Hot Topic at the moment but it is something that happens nistic did you know there is no Orion fan Reddit this is unacceptable may have to rectify that what's what's what's what's an Orion fan Reddit mean is that like a fan page on a thing I don't even know really about Reddit but that's interesting I can rely on you narcistic thank you um trucker 29 how you going it's Andrew uh my friend good to meet you Andrew hopefully you can feel a bit more

accepted here aspy punk you rescued a daddy long legs in your house yes so you know house we we don't we don't touch Daddy Long Legs um we they're our friends our family we name them they get very big that's because they're actually great pest control so daddy long legs do a great job keeping other things eating other things and stuff so we we let them just kind of you know oh they're over here today over here you part of the family that weirdo girl I'm with you my friend I'm with you totally a

gree Del engine thank you I mean I'm still recovering healthwise I just can't get just can't get better I have not repeat not recorded a a video to be released on Monday this is the first week I've missed in a long long time because my voice and my throat and my nose and my head and stuff so I'm bummed out by that but I I figured if I pushed myself in the kind of things it would just make it worse and in instead I've just been hanging out with you guys on on my phone which has been cool Andrew h

ave I done meet and greets with with viewers if not can I please can I come to England I have I haven't um probably because um it would be me in an empty room um I haven't um but and it sounds like a nightmare for most people um how that would work but I appreciate you saying that it's nice of you Cherry's Cherry's what did you just join I don't understand you just joined just joined what a group I can't catch up on all these comments thanks Ida good night Uganda thank you Mony hi Bella Michelle

you think it's hard to keep track on the on the chat comments trust me I'm with you it's nightmarish it's not marish Jer you're saying you joined a Reddit for me is that what you're saying what does that mean I moved house a week ago Chang is killing me any advice absolutely Sarah I hate like most people hate moving house but in fact for me I find for the there's a period of time when you move into a house where it doesn't feel like the other one felt as in like it doesn't feel like you know th

is is my room my space right and there's this window in between that and then when it just clicks and you go oh this is my this is my space um and I hate that period And I think the best thing you can do is um the best thing you can do is provide yourself with as much um as much downtime or kind of alone time in your new space to to feel more regulated because if you're going to continue to push yourself you're going to feel unregulated and you're going to associate that with the place but I tot

ally get it it's horrible I totally get it Aubrey you asked me to say your name no I'm not going to say your name Aubrey sorry zip wde obviously created people n people are not separate autistic people can be creative but what am I doing artistic autistic people are fantastic at creating and arts and those types of things so Jenny aspy welcome um 88 minutes late um two days in a row well I I can't do a video this week so I just haven't had the ability with just filling crap so I'm doing live str

eams just to catch up and hang out with you guys because there won't be a video on Monday and also um you know for those that might be new to the stream um we were having a bit of a chat earlier because I did a live stream a mobile um oh thanks Cherry is that that's a link or something is it um we're doing a live I did a live stream during the week with tayor from M on the Spectrum and um he went really well so I uh you know reached out to uh CLA from The Woodshed Theory see if she wanted to do

one and she said yes went to bed last night woke up this morning it's Friday morning in arrayer by the way 11:04 Friday morning woke up this morning and the first thing I saw on my feed was artwork promoting a live stream with CLA from wood Woodshed Theory and Taylor from M of the spectrum what's wrong with this picture hang on a second what's going on here so I'll be honest with you it hurt just can't get a head around it Ry pan Polly but did you set a date no we did this is the thing Ry Polly

we didn't get I didn't get that chance so you know I've asked the question want to do one great let's do one right because this time differences in Australia and America right so you sometimes you might only get one or two messages before the next day but before I had a chance to set the they've locked in artwork and a date for theirs which is you know again I I'll never fully recover I've been how is it possible to be heartbroken by two not one two autistic content creators I think we I think w

e agree that they've made the right decision um as in everyone in there anyone in their lifetime who has made the decision to not do something with me or to choose someone else over me has has made the right decision it's the only decision that's ever been made most people it's a story of my life so I think they done the right thing um choosing someone else anyone that isn't me um to do a live stream with um so you know good for them can't wait narcissistic I think I do have a Reddit profile acc

ount um I just don't use it or go in there regularly but I do think I do I'm pretty sure um there would be my name and my picture um but I don't think you're going to see anything on at all very much or um to answer that question so I did make a forum I didn't know I made a forum I just thought I logged in this is a problem with this kind of stuff I honestly couldn't tell you guys honestly I have no idea about all this kind of stuff well uh uh we've been going for 92 minutes 92 minutes I think t

hat's a lot 93 92 93 minutes it's a long live Whitney I agree it's a long live and and please don't take anything I say seriously about Taylor and CLA I'm just joking that you know um they're friends sure they betrayed me um and we'll never speak again um but they're just friends they're still friends but you know friends will betray you okay all right I think it's only I think it's only fitting guys that I leave um to hang my head in shame really to hang my head in shame yeso you're witnessing

a live breakup this is a live breakup and and as usual I wasn't the one that got a choice uh yeah hey guys thank you for being the the best community I appreciate it guys thank you so much for being you and hey hanging out together and and um feeling like a community and a group I'm I'm I'm so happy for you guys um we have more likes currently than people watching so that's good for my son if you haven't liked it please like it it'll help him um but thank you guys for being here I really appreci

ate it and uh these are different aren't they doing these live streams on my phone they're way easier to do um but they're very different very different experience we'll keep we'll keep trying different things and seeing how we can go to keep you guys connected and having fun thanks dead Soul thanks everyone um but I appreciate you being here and watching and liking and and if if anything all I can really say is um you know if you can all formally boycott um the live stream tomorrow no that's no

t true um okay thanks everyone I'm going to cry myself to sleep drown my sorrows after two I'm not keep saying it's funny oh it's funny because it's true all right guys have an awesome night Day morning whatever it is for you and and and enjoy yourself there's a spider behind you you better go and get it all right catch you later guys see you bye