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Pointing Fingers: Revealing the Hidden Truth of #Baby Daddies and #FamilyMatters #Fatherless

The world is becoming more dangerous by the day. The youth are losing all sense of morals. Understanding the cause can be challenging. With that being said, I believe, 100%, that it is the result of the fatherless generations of children. I sat down with Dave, Chico, Eric and Peter to discuss, "who's responsible for baby daddies?" Men have long become less present in the home. They are no longer an essential part of the family, nor the head of the household. As far as the black community is concerned, it is stated that the Welfare System is what destroyed the black family. Fathers would pretend to not live in the home in order to keep the family receiving public assistance. Why would a father choose to leave his children? Why would a mother not want the father around? There is a constant blame game of accountability. Who determines whether a child is conceived? Some people feel that if a woman doesn't want to be responsible for a child, she shouldn't have her legs open. Others feel that if a man knows he doesn't want to be there, he shouldn't fertilize the egg. No one does it the old fashioned way anymore. There was a time when a man and woman got married, then built a family. This was a place where young girls had a father's love modeled for them. Young boys were taught to be men and females were raised to be wives. Promiscuity resulting in child birth wasn't the norm. A woman wasn't expected to be the dominant figure in the house, neither was men being expected to raise children that aren't their own. Children are now seen as a hassle or a get rich quick scheme. Again, we see black men and women forgetting who is losing in the situation. If adults made more responsible decisions, maybe the use of Plan B pills, abortions and angry children wouldn't be necessary. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Bw0FVNv5DzefGfz8kmFlt?si=dwxGmAIPQUWOWcsrNnu4VA Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-for-uestioning-with-ah-kim/id1602941134 #FatherlessGeneration #fatherlylove #dadlife #fatherhoodMatters #fatherfigures #familyvalues #parents #modernwomen #kevinsamuels #Babydaddy #modernwomen #Marriage #Welfare

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foreign [Music] who's responsible for the amount of  baby daddies Chico where you at baby it's a female because I cold hardly believe  the female just in fact because they lay down and have babies by certain different  men and our as our conversation went if they can keep their legs closed then  a lot of this responsibility won't fall on being alone by themselves it's excuses  we're going to take the uh like somebody get raped uh uh forcibly we're gonna  take that out of the equation but if you
got a uh the government taking care of the  female emotionally and you got child support for raising the kids what you think Dave you  said you said you felt it was neutral right I said I said this [ __ ] [ __ ]  just just like run the X said like it's funny because if if you go if you're  going to say is is the female's responsibility because she keeps having all these baby  daddies well if if you take out her half and all of the baby daddies it's still a dude  that is responsible for not being
me so that's why it's [ __ ] like you like yeah I was going  back and forth apparently the the females sitting be running around having a bunch of baby daddies  I guess but so she bears that responsibility as well like well damn like oh now you just want to  have another one and just like you said leave it to the government now you're presenting  the problem because that's that that's a whole nother entity that's involved in this  that don't it don't need to be this like you said about possibly
responsible but any which way  you look at it is is both parties responsibility the key word and I want you to understand what  your man said that the women have all these kids by different baby daddies once you have a child  by a female and I want to make sure we all the same page once you have a child that man had  to sit that lay down have a child by a female who bears that responsibility do the man been  in responsibility or do the female reveal that responsibility I know we all been taught
  that when you have a child by man get a Social Security number get his things because you need  to attract that man because back in the mind they know he gonna even leave find somebody else better  move on because you're not gonna look the same hey what you gotta be all right let me  just check let me give a brief background so before I dive into the combo right so I come  from I come from a household from a single parent right a biological dad Dale you know I'm saying I  could probably count
on one hand how many times I sing here God created a whole new family with two  other kids and a woman that he still is with right then my stepfather came around probably about four  or five years later ended up on drugs Etc right so that's one aspect of it the other aspect is I also  come from a point where I was married for 14 years uh uh had two biological kids and raised  another one that you know from her so and then we we split up so my background is I've  I've experienced what it feels li
ke to be a victim of that and then I've also been a  perpetrator in the same thing so I'm gonna give that background before I dive in so my  question this is a question for I guess Chico why are these women laying down with all these  different dudes emotional emotional they're looking for that everybody's looking for that love  and this is my experience this is my experience I I can't speak to everybody only thing I can do  is go about my experience we all don't think the same so hold on let me
keep you right where  you just said it because I'm going somewhere with this you said they're looking for love  right threat okay why are they looking for love the emotions the only thing the emotions they they  women see it off emotions so I don't get that love from that first man or something transpired that  I don't like I'm moving to the next man see if I can find them same scenario go back over it's the  same cycle over and over again all right so let me ask you this question where where d
oes the woman  learn where does she where does she get love from in the beginning where does she first experience  love and again this is why I say it's [ __ ] because it's the four but he's got to beat  it like she got to see this from something you know and that was going to be my point  that's right exactly now I dig it that's why I said like it's a cycle if you ain't see  it now how you gonna what do you know to expect what do you know to become as as decent  treatment or better yet if you s
ee a bad example this is why it's a shared responsibility part  of the reason I'm saying it's more on the the dad day because a female and I got like I said  I raised one daughter who wasn't mine I got a daughter that's 20. 26 year old and a 20 year old  and I'm telling you that the reason my daughters are where they are right now is not because  of their mother is because of my involvement with those girls they understood how and even  though and I'm saying like this and I just told you I'm div
orced I I left so even though he  I was there for the majority of time for them but even though I left I was still actively  involved right so my daughters learned what to accept what not to accept not everyone's just  that they felt love from the time they came out the room so they knew what real love looked like  just based off the father-daughter relationship right so like Chico said and look at these these  girls who are laying down with different people the girl that I'm currently with gues
s what her  dad died at an early age she's 30. guess what that's what type of relationships he's been  through same type of thing she's been through multiple relationships based off the same reason  that you just said one looking for love and then guess what she thought she knew love because guys  was feeding her all types of BS and she did not have the determine to understand what love really  looked like because she never experienced it from her father it had nothing to do with her mom her  mo
m was there so the point that I'm making is the reason why I'm saying just on this one aspect is  more of a father's responsibility because it's a father's responsibility to show a young girl who  becomes a woman what it means to be loved so she's not out here with random [ __ ] having babies  all right so so when you when you say that and I respect I respect what you're saying 100 because  what your background minds are similar to that mothers are raised to be nurtured am I right  or wrong we a
ssume that women are nurtures but I think some some women are some women aren't  so men are nurturing some men ain't so let's look at you let's look at you I'm not talking  about a lot I'm talking reality how culture is I'll call because a man is is not look to be a  nurture our culture a man is look to be strong right like to read to raise a a man to be a man  right or wrong right alcohol correct so so the logic of what you're saying is debatable when we  when we have our culture of our females
running around here looking for love not getting it so  I'm gonna lay down with this man and I'm gonna lay down with this man then I'm gonna have a baby  knowing it's not gonna work or I'm gonna use them as a paycheck or I'm gonna use I'm gonna use a  child against another man to make it seem like make him jealous which it don't work going back  to what you were saying I ain't even jump off that I'm going back going back to what you were  saying as far your situation your situation is ironic ve
rsus the average situation the average  situation is to me personally is that once again if a woman decide to say hey look I'm only gonna  have one child about one man and that's gonna be it if she decide to say that I guarantee you when  the responsibility come on that man not leaving or decide to co-current that we'll have better in  our environment that we do have now because these kids have just went left and they don't care they  don't care right they don't care and they're not going to car
e no more because no father is around  to help them care no that's my point that's my point like but I'm just saying as far as the first  the first the topic we said was the women laying down with the men and I'm saying well regardless  it's a man's job to raise a female a young girl so that she becomes a woman who knows not to lay  down with multiple men right you have to be taught as a child you have to be taught certain things  whether you're a female or a mayor you have to be taught and trai
ned in certain ways and if you're  not just because you're an adult like people say you grown that doesn't mean anything if you  haven't been taught anything you're going to be a grown fool because what she's saying is what you  said emotional she wants love bro and and let's be honest it's a lot of young cats out here that's  that's that's that's got game they running game on these females they selling them a dream and  they buying it because they don't know no better if you wasn't forced to te
ach your daughter how to  love would you think she'd got it somewhere else I'm not saying he was full but you didn't have  no choice but to teach her your buyers correct you had to teach you your values your  value is on how to how to love and how to be loved and regardless and also hold  on wait can I ask a question because I like everybody say well you got to teach them how  to love and and what it's been people just didn't have this like babies in in responsibility in in  laying down in heave
n baby these are all different conversations these women could be looking  for love they got to keep coming up pregnant so you have the babies is it's  only different conversation looking for like I can't say my daughter  says to me Daddy you want me to lie to you nah cause because now that so she's challenging  so I didn't teach her that I said yo listen like I want you to do what I tell you to do but I want  you to speak your mind with other people tell you to do something that you don't want
to do so she  hit me with the with Daddy then if you tell me to do something and I don't really want to do  what you want me to lie and be like okay I'm a so again they learn these things you can't teach  somebody how to be loved you can show them love yeah no when I say teach Dave that's what I'm  saying like this yeah you could exactly so you can model that and you can show them that  now again just like you can model and you can show them that you could be teaching your  daughters but listen
don't let nobody treat you like [ __ ] then you kicking them over in  the ass again if it ain't adding up it ain't making sense but when it goes back to the dude  it goes back like is it a conversation is Yo the dude got to be responsible but the woman has  so if you're talking about oh well she using him a full chat listen if he's getting used for  a check that's on him because what you mean he can't you can't go back to the dude because if if  she laying down if she laying down and having sex
with this guy to have a baby who responsible for  that the dude and her she is wait wait wait wait a minute why the [ __ ] why he [ __ ] it I don't  know wait a minute you know if you stick your if you stick your dick in a hole you gonna get  it bit off you gonna stick your dick at home let me jump in um so here's my  stance it's a hundred percent a man's fault that there's so many baby  daddies that's what I believe because you know if you having sex with a woman and  there is no prophylactic t
here's no form of birth control and you bust a nut in her there's  a 50 50 chance she's gonna get pregnant so if you knew you did not want to be there for a baby why  are you getting a chick pregnant that's my that's why I don't get to me it's as simple as that I  don't give [ __ ] how many females open their legs in order for her to get pregnant somebody gotta  bust a nut in her and to my knowledge if you bust a nut it's number one euphoric right right it's  ecstasy it's a part of sex but numbe
r two you know this it's the proper precautions are not in place  what's going to result in that I don't understand that that's I think it's all men I don't give  a [ __ ] what nobody say it's men's fault that there's so many baby daddies out there because if  you know and it goes back to what I'm saying again you decide you're gonna have a baby lay down oh no  you decide you're gonna bust a nut inside of them you can walk away at any time you don't have  to be responsible for that how many time
s have we all heard a man that ain't my baby I don't  know she been stepping somebody else he didn't make that conscious decision he just wanted some  ads she made that concert because she left her legs open pause pause that'll stop you he made  the conscious decision once he bust a nut bruh but how did how did he get there no matter how you how you need all  right so let me ask you this right yeah all the lights like back generations of  people had like 16 kids 18 kids like you know what are we
looking at that like what do we  say about that because I mean that's pretty much how you got here so what the fight again I'm  just listening to the question so it's it's a 50 50 responsibility but even offer what they said  and even off the just the logic we running with it leans more to the men because they're making  this conscious decision you do and you still did it now of course she has more time to to be  responsible for it and make another decision and now it's very easy they'd be like
yo you could  go get a pill [ __ ] it I could give you the pill right here so it's even easier for her to make a  a further decision but it's still it hit at that very Inception is on him after that it's now it's  them [ __ ] brothers and then I understand you most of the times women are not leaving their  kids bruh it's the man leaving their kids this is important hold on don't don't hang up  yo yo [ __ ] I'm podcasting um can you talk um yeah the Chick-fil-A okay good I'm about  to merge you
in hello AP yo x uh uh Chico I think Peter agrees with you Peter yes uh kill the  background noise number one but number two who is responsible for the amount of baby daddies what  you said who all right break it down [Laughter] you know because think about there's  too many uh there's too many ways of contraceptives nowadays pause pause you're not  clear I need you clear cause you're about to you about to spit some stuff that I don't  agree with I want everyone to hear this so there's too many
ways of  contraceptive nowadays for a baby to just be randomly you have you have  different types of birth control and actors my man my man at this um acting sex occurs you mean you one you  shouldn't be [ __ ] on you shouldn't be having sex with a whole bunch of different on different men  raw that's first off to you and if you are you should be on you should be on some type of birth  control if you don't if you don't want to be on birth control and you mess up by not having to  use the condom
you can go you can go take a bland um Plan B your little portion on portion belt  and then if if you still don't choose not to get um checked for being pregnant or it goes too far  along you can still get an abortion so there's way too many steps of women right before and after  um after this after having sex to having a um baby by somebody that you know I'll know is not going  to be there stop stop stop here's my question can I jump in real quick yeah go ahead go ahead okay  first of all we're
okay let me put it like this we're making an assumption that we keep saying  these women are laying down with people knowing that they're not gonna be there and y'all saying  you don't that she knows no she doesn't know she doesn't know because she has it again like I  said in the beginning it's never been modeled she don't know what a healthy relationship look  like she don't know what a man's supposed to look like because guess what her daddy probably wasn't  there because she doesn't know whe
re the healthy relationship look like and what a man real man  supposed to do so I think we keep assuming that these females are laying down with somebody  thinking that it's knowing that it's not going to work so one if you lay down if a female lays down  with one guy right and she thinks this is going to work out boom she has a baby it doesn't work out a  couple years later guess what next guy comes along maybe they dating for a while same thing she  thinks it's gonna work out he's telling her
this and that maybe he's doing the right thing in the  beginning and y'all know this as well as I know this a lot of [ __ ] out here cheating but this  [ __ ] didn't got her pregnant he's cheating and then she decides to leave her he leaves whatever  because he didn't find a new chick that's not her fault bruh I can I can agree with you uh 20  years ago but it's too much information out here now that that says different we we going  off statistics and and the statistics saying this is what happ
ened if you you got to be the  dumbest dummy to make that same mistake to have six seven kids now right I mean because again if  we're just if we're talking numbers if we talking oh man like you said you gave it that was a great  example this woman she gets tricked the first time after being in a relationship she only got one kid  she wait a few years now she knows what having a child is like and it happens again I don't think  we really are talking about those kids like can I hold on why are we
acting like kids shouldn't be  happening after marriage why are you having kids with a boyfriend or girlfriend um girlfriend  you should you should be waiting to have kids with your um partner as a man who's supposed to  run who's supposed to be to be the leader of the family the man dude right right why are we as men  putting responsibility on plan B's and abortions on a woman when at the end of the day like I said  20 30 minutes ago in order to get pregnant the egg has to be fertilized if you
so you can't say man  or woman she having all these babies bro why are you busting a nut a raw nut in a woman of whom  you know is not on birth control or you're not even sure because you don't care because Pete imma  pull your card remember you told me last year what did you tell me your friends you said my friends  bust nothing [ __ ] all the time and why'd you say they do it they said they bust a nut and just  deal with it later did you not say that foreign you said my friends is crazy they
bust nuts and  chicks and I ask them are they afraid and you said no man they they said you said when you  ask somebody are they afraid they say nah I just busted nothing to deal with deal with  it afterwards and so what did you what are you trying to add to this I don't remember  remember I told you about these same friends they try on they track girls periods and  they're with girls that will take a plan B with no problem but what if that check this  what if she changes yeah what's up what's u
p I was gonna say this so we talking about like  how the kids are getting here right but the whole conversation was about you know all these  crazy all this craziness going on because you know it's a funnel right so let's move on to this  the kids are here let's let's stop debating about who's responsible they who got them here they're  here right so whose job is it who does it fall on like why all this stuff has happened whose job  so so uh Dave you said it's shared responsibility y'all saying
whatever is more than women but  I'm gonna say like this damn you got kids right right right okay let me ask you this I can't got  kids I'm gonna ask them too or y'all think about what I'm saying if men are around guess what your  voice carries more Authority so we all know that a woman can tell a child to do something and they  gonna back talk they're gonna be Reckless they're gonna be defiant when a man steps up and decides  this is how it's going down guess what the kids fall in line so again
the point I make it the  kids are already here so if men would step up right if we stepped up and did our job bro it  wouldn't matter whether the female was doing the job or not directly if women can't control  these kids especially if it's boy they can't they can't I come from a single female uh  household you know what I'm saying my mom did an excellent job and at the same time guess  what my stepdad came around years later you feel me so but the average woman cannot control  or raise no voic
e let's be let's be honest I totally agree with you on that one I'm not taking  that from me so again the reason why you got all these these these young men out here killing each  other because guess what it's because we haven't been there it doesn't matter who's responsible  for getting them here who did what it doesn't matter if he got five baby daddies them five baby  daddies stepped up and did their job guess what I'm gonna be real maybe if two of them did  it because I'm gonna be honest I'm
great I'm helping raise two kids right now and it's not  mine and that's what I'm saying I'm speaking from experience when I when the moms I let the  moms do her thing guess what kids is out of line when I step up guess what everybody falls in  line no question and then I'm gonna be honest I'm Gonna Keep it 100. I I went to jail over my  son so I'm gonna kill this argument about women everybody wants to blame women oh well she won't  let me see my kids or the system [ __ ] the system [ __ ] tha
t excuse because guess what I went to  jail over raising my son bro I went to court I got custody when that [ __ ] didn't work out guess  what I butt the system so you can't tell me that you can't blame a woman because they really don't  want that responsibility right so let's let's kill that argument before we get started as he's gonna  he's gonna be there for them kids they turn out decent bro on average Point taking which just now  said men not gonna step over the plate because they don't wan
t to now the women going to put the  the women are going to make the women is going to make sure that she hurt you enough where it messes  you up not to go around her and you understand what I'm saying no that's the argument I'm killing  because I I've had everything you can say imagine child support alimony my wife my ex-wife's  trying to get restraining orders on me twice I had I had to make a decision it's not about  being around her I can give a [ __ ] about being around her but at the end o
f the day  I know I brought kids in the world so guess what I went to the courthouse not even with  an attorney so this is how real I'm gonna get with it Most states have places like self-help  centers I went to the courthouse myself found my own paperwork for custody went to court and  got custody of my kids bruh regardless of her appointment was trying to put restraining orders  he tried everything in the book so again when men talk about this oh what she making my life  that I don't even want
to be a writer again we all sitting here talking about how strong we  all is man and we run this and we got and we we want to be the leaders when it's all good but  when it comes to their adversity guess what being doing it we're not doing our job a little bit of a  woman gonna stop you from seeing your kids really really not everybody don't think like you you are  probably red breed and I'm and I'm going back to everybody don't think like you think they are  not right but that's the way but bu
t that's the way you should think right right like that that  should be the bottom line to it like if right is right wrong is wrong if it don't add up like like  he said right everything about that again leads the argument to being yo it is the man's it is  more the man's responsibility to show up and and provide that but if he can't and if he and and and  the reason I say that is [ __ ] is because he just like you said if you grew up without a father you  still grew up to be the person that kne
w and could teach that and and carry that principle so some  the greater responsibility of that woman as soon as that dude ain't there so I have myself right  right right but but he came in and again if he wasn't a decent dude he could have been a piece  of [ __ ] too so again like the bottom line is it's still going to fall on that one if the other  person ain't there the other [ __ ] that [ __ ] but see again now if you want to go into  midnight being there I mean again just because the [ __ ]
could block your shot  don't mean you should let a blockage no no no just just because you could block  your shot though man you ain't supposed to shoot you know right exactly like you ain't  supposed to be like yo we ain't gonna score at all because they got a big man come on get  the [ __ ] out of here so Pete Pete Pete let's go let's go all right first first off  who leads the relationships more often than not well I don't I really don't know brother  is it I've heard it's women I've heard t
he women I can tell you that women anybody  else anyone else want to guess I've never seen anybody in my family friends where  the woman's left I've never seen it I've never even experienced friends like that  where you see a man raising the kids and a woman somewhere else and let me let me double  back I can I can let me double back because I was raised by my mother and father my parents were  married today my dad died so I know nothing about um a step dad I don't know nothing about none  of th
at so um and everybody that my dad all his friends they all had wives damn any type  of relationship between a man and woman more likely or not a woman's Gonna Leave women you  said women my question would be why is that no these are like polls research  when acts like divorced women um women um why they're not with the baby daddies  um this down the third okay the number one reason is what the number one reason is because they  feel like they're unhappy now I'm gonna be honest being a man of sc
ience I would question now I'm  about to dig in your [ __ ] a little bit I would I would question who they pulled and those and  those research data because a lot of times when people are doing polls and research they're like  middle-aged white men or middle age most of the time bro you seeing a bunch of women with the kids  and the [ __ ] is not the women probably aren't some of them are full of [ __ ] some of them  probably aren't happy you know why because they're dating men who were raised w
ithout daddy so  they're dating men who don't really make who may not know how to be a man for that woman you got  to understand you have to remember that just like how we can complain that um I remember Michael  Bayson years ago said um young women of today being raised to be wives right so a dad is the  one who also teaches a daughter how to be a lady how to be treated like a lady right well if the  dad isn't there teaching the daughter that then guess what that's why you have all these mouthy
  you know what I'm saying I'm combative you know of women with a whole bunch of uh um um issues right  so it's it's vice versa with the men you're gonna have a bunch of men who don't know how to be a man  for that woman so it's a good chance of women are probably are happy that's fair that's fair for you  yeah that wasn't really the point I was trying to make I was trying to get to another point from  that all right what I'm trying to say is women um these women are leaving it's a relationship
um  with their baby um Daddy's a person that they have um kids with then you usually after they  wanted you right after they get rid of that um person a relation and a um relationship what  they don't want that person around your pee no pee let me ask you let me ask you something  real quick how many people have been done okay because I mean that that so then  there's only applicable right if if that woman act like that woman leaves so but it's  like he just said if you go anywhere else if you h
appen to be one of the only like the  only one to like lose it like one two like one chick like I but if if multiple dudes are  having multiple attention they keep leaving so because they can only be with one that's still  creating a real big it's still creating the same again I'll give you a call it unhappiness what  happened to the stats might say it it is good like if it's a relationship if we own the house  together look as soon as you get this household I can't get my money why am I leaving
this kid why  is this all of a sudden more your responsibility of being what you're saying but you're I'm  not you're not letting me finish what I'm I'm trying to get to my point and like so I  think it can't you're kind of getting confused of what I'm trying to say all right so so  everybody so everybody everybody be quiet leaving a man now now they don't want those men  being around wow so like like on who's saying they they went to jail over there um over their  kid that was me hey I bet you
can relate to the situation you might you wanted to be in your  kid's life but then you were on but then you have to fight two finale to try to actually  try to get in your kids life because you're um your um the woman that had your kids didn't  want you um and they're like correct yeah but I said I killed that argument in the beginning  like like you just said you bugged the system so you were the exception to what the system  actually does what usually happens if men will go men will go to co
urt they'll they'll try to  fight and then the system will always go on the woman's side they'll get get the agreement that  you had they'll get on they'll get every weekend or every other weekend but then then let's say uh  say the woman doesn't want to give kids that week or the woman doesn't want to uh doesn't want to  uh one want them to see their father they won't they won't bring them man the dude's gonna have  to go back to court how long it's going to take to get a court court date so it
's going to be a long  drawn out process that I'm thinking about a lot of men men do not have time for and they don't even  go down there to try to get any type of custody Arrangement and and here's a fact man I know this  for a fact because one of my friends got the same situation it's not a like it's a new day so it's  not even an automatic where the woman's you're going to get every other weekend I could have got  every other week we could have had joint custody one week one week for me one w
eek with her I  work seven days a week 12 hour days so that's the only reason they gave me every other weekend  my boy he got joint custody they do it just like that one week he got up another week his girl  got the the fact is a lot of men won't even go to the courthouse bro that's real they don't  even go down there they use that as an excuse to say she tripping and that's and they leave  it at that and that now like the reasons I said is why they don't go on they don't go to the  courthouse b
ecause even if they go it's going to be a strenuous drawn out process without a lot  it's like three pages a simple question what's your name your address who's your kids how long  are we all together it's a very you go to court one day a couple hours so this is the thing now  we're talking about an issue of priority we're talking about your legacy man everybody's talking  about chasing I'm not gonna go off with a verb but everybody will go truth in there to get to  the bag right to chase the mo
ney do this do that grind it out but now you're telling me that as  a man the big leader of the household big strong man you can't take a couple I I just got a couple  hours and go fight me again by people saying oh that's just too much I don't have time for that  it goes back to what I was saying where Chico at Chico it took a break he took a break no no I hear  you I'm trying to dodge in but hopefully I'm glad you right there it goes back to what I was saying  no matter how strenuous no matter
how draining all this would be and that getting that Eric went  through this from an ex-wife which can happen but but I say it's a better chance that a lot of  guys wouldn't put themselves in the situation of this strenuous Court situation if you thought  about who you was busting a nut in so I I would listen to e and I also listened to Peter and it's  gonna go back to what this title that podcast is and I'm gonna say a couple of phrases what all  y'all said within the last 15 to 15 minutes who
controlled that situation did demand control the  situation or did the women control that situation if we think about what you just now said if we  think about who control the situation throughout the whole Earthship through through experience and  that's a rare experience that we deal with what we talking about statistics and we talk about reality  if you go back and think about it the woman is controlling the whole narrative the whole time  the government is helping them do it the child suppo
rt is helping to do it so they control what  they do when they lay down but no bottom line but no no we're gonna go back we're gonna we about  to spin the block because it goes back again Eric did you have any kids before you got married  no did you have any abortions on your record before you got married no neither did  I didn't have any kids no abortions that's what I'm saying you before I'm saying so so  like we wasn't virgins when we got married right and we still had no abortions and no kid
s it was  because I knew I didn't want to be a baby daddy and I didn't want a baby mama lingering around my  life if I married somebody else that was a choice but everybody don't think like that but but no I  think but the point is if people did if men did then maybe we wouldn't have so many children men  and boys and girls who are socially emotionally logically and psychologically unstable logically  you're right reality you're wrong because it's not the reality we live in but our coaches don't
do  that way the Spanish coaches don't live that way but we just don't I'm being real with you we ain't  ready let's talk about our culture look we you we can't keep saying we we we already we already  dialed it to our our voice holds more Authority we have more Authority we can't be saying that we're  the strong we're strong we're the leaders of the household we're the leaders and then when it comes  to the responsibility part we put it on unless the other person that don't even stop that's li
ke  saying you're the owner of the business and when the business fails you blame the employees no  it's on you you're the leader absolutely but yeah listen we're talking about and you can look at this whenever an organization  is doing bad let's use this fire bruh the people at the top the CEO they change all  that around they don't go and and overhaul the people at the bot they they fire the  CEO bro because leadership all all the results fall on from on the leader bro so if  you're gonna be t
he man the leader brother responsibility is on demand bro you can't  say I'm the leader and then when [ __ ] goes wrong you say oh that's gonna hurt bro  that's that's you're not being accountable I'm listening to e-story now he was once again  this situation is different from the average man how many men did we know that we know in our  10 and age has ran from when they say oh I ain't got that girl pregnant I'm out and moved on and  disappeared my brother got six kids or five baby moms and gues
s what none of it was their fault you  know why because my brother was with him you know for a minute he saw them a dream and guess what  he started doing just like a lot of other men he started cheating on the side and then guess  what he left he left they didn't leave he left that's his fault he stuck his dick and  fired it for women y'all keep assuming that a female got all these different  braids we're talking about no there's a way we're standing as a generation of fatherless kids  bro it d
on't mean a woman got two three different baby daddies right what I'm saying my brother  got five different baby mamas right now here's one so what I'm saying is this [ __ ] going around  getting different women pregnant bro guess what they still got the kids they still raising a kid  they didn't leave the kids Eric made a good point you can have a hundred couples just couple 100  men and women couples right they may only have just one child but if the dad is not there  that's still a hundred fa
therless children right so so see see that is a good point y'all are  making an assumption it's a chick with 20 [ __ ] kids and 10 baby days we just said I said I said  who's responsible for the amount of baby daddies right when they say the amount of kids we said the  amount of baby daddies right meaning that men are men are are fertilizing eggs producing children  and not being there for the kids that right that is basically what we were talking about so Eric  did make a good point but here's
what I'm gonna do we will have to pick this up another time  because I don't want to draw it out too long I think we kind of made a good point and um gave  people gave people enough to think about and let the let the mental juices spur so anybody um who  watches go ahead comment in the comment section um let's but we here's what we are gonna do we're  gonna go through uh Chico first we don't go we're gonna go do uh uh closing remarks close remarks  Chico uh I appreciate this man it kind of opene
d my eyes up on different aspects um guys made some  help with some good some good strong arguments and stuff and I I can't wait to pick it back up  again it was deaf uh um this doesn't have to be at your farewell it could be if you want to make  a closer argument on the topic too as well you have any closing arguments on the topic other than  the fact that you holding your ground but go ahead uh no I think I'ma stick with um stick with me um  saying that uh if the women keep their legs closed m
oving forward then a lot of our violence  will will stop where we can focus on a a small unit of family let's take it this this  let's take it a little further than that then I can go ahead and end it the world is  starting to get a shake differently now where they they taking food away from us  they taking a lot of stuff away from my and the reason being is because they're saying  there's too many people out here in the world so they're trying to downsize on certain  things so I think we focus
on pushing The Narrative of just having a small unit family  not uh uh you I'm gonna have one here and I'm hitting one head a small unit family that we  can start working on getting these kids where they need to be at because they lost respect  and I just leave it like that respect Dave um yeah I mean oh [ __ ] yo my bad um I just got  a shot of bad news to speak to the violence and the society that we live in um yeah I mean I I  I I as I started off saying I felt like it was a um a mutual respo
nsibility but um I think that  it it does build more responsibility on the net um because once they hit somebody got to take  responsibility somebody gotta somebody has to try to instill the necessary morals and um you know  just just just this moral fabric that the world needs right now because because the violence  is is out of control it's at an all-time high yeah um if and yes if you  know if the kids wasn't born somebody be accountable and they need cool things  well at least one that didn'
t need to run it and take responsibility and ownership for that cool  man uh Pete yeah I I just want people to have a little bit more thought when they bring kids  into this world so tell your friends stop nothing and chicks and worrying about it later right I  don't got kids though I don't got kids all right um uh eight okay y'all y'all are where Peter's uh  how old are you p24 yeah yeah everybody everybody on this line is above 40 other than Peter so  maybe y'all notice that um Eric the cause
of remarks man challenge to the man hey man all the  men need to stand up man let's be man let's hold each other accountable man and let's get our  families back and then me my closer remark is it's our fault y'all I think we are letting  the youth down that's it it's men's fault men are letting the youth down that's it we out  of here [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music]

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