Soul Ties: How do I know if I have one with someone?

hello hello hello hello i don't like the way let me move this here thing  out of the way here so y'all can see me hi good evening good evening good evening everyone good  evening i hope everybody had a good day today i actually was able to catch up on some rest  today glory be to god so i'm excited about that rest is hard to come by these days but  i won't complain i will not complain at all i'm glad to be here i'm glad to see all  of you that are coming on today to to chat for our weekly tea an

d testimony this week  we're talking about soul ties what are soul ties um and how to break soul ties so if you follow my  podcast the podcast for this week is starting off kicking off talking about soul ties and so it's a  pretty meaty episode but i hope you guys enjoy it um and so if you go to apple itunes or google play  spotify um any of those streaming platforms then you will be able to listen to the full episode  but for tonight um we're gonna just kind of talk about a few key points that

i wanted to discuss  with all of you and when you have an opportunity then you can go and listen to the full episode  so breaking soul ties what are soul ties so soul ties are where two souls are knitted  together two souls come together in the soulish realm and so some people are familiar with the  term social um uh soul ties and for some people it may be a new term it may be a new term that  you are unfamiliar with so soul ties is where two people whether it be two people or another  you and a

nother person you in another organization or something to that standard where you are  bonded together in a relationship and you are tied in the soulish realm and so if you listen  to the podcast or if you listen to any of these weekly episodes where i've made mention of um  the soulish realm where the soul is from your mind your will and your emotions lie in the  soulless realm and so that is where you come together and you bond with a person of thing or  an organization so if you get a chance

to listen you'll see that soul ties actually go beyond just  relationship they go beyond just sexual spiritual connection that it's it's more than that there's  a list of things that i go through um to explain other ways that you can become bonded and you can  be connected to a thing or a person in a soul tie so for those of you who may miss the live and  catch the replay when you get an opportunity the full episode is recorded on um apple itunes  google play spotify and any of those digital med

ia streaming platforms of your choice that you  listen to or you could go directly to my website which is at the flawed and free dot com and  dfloninfree.com you can connect and link up there and you can also stream right from the site if  you don't have google play or anything like that so moving on we're talking about soul ties and so  the most common soul ties the physical spiritual soul tie that we know that we create through  sexual relations through sexual relationship so there are three w

ays that you can create a  soul tie and so one way that you can create a soul tie is physically um via spiritually  and then there is emotional soul ties and so next week's episode we will be talking  about more specifically emotional soul ties so be stay tuned stay tuned for emotional soul  ties and more to come with that but this week i wanted to kind of focus on physical  spiritual sexual soul ties which is the fair the most common right which is the most common  that we talk about and so i j

ust discussed the the three ways that you can create soul ties  and then outside of the three ways there are different types of soul ties so there are godly  soul ties and then there are ungodly soul ties so today we're going to focus more on negative  because godly soul ties is pretty simple right um golly so the way that i broke it down  in the episode um other podcasts was golly soul ties are divinely connected ties whether  it be through pastoral spiritual leadership um through parenthood um

you have a godly soul  tie with your children um you also have hi on that how are you you also have soul ties through  um through your spouse um or you know through family so you can have godly spiritual soul ties  so that's pretty easy ungodly negative soul ties can be found through a number of connections  through a number of different ways and so ungodly soul ties are negative negative negative  things negative connections in the soulish realm that connect you and they either bring destructi

on  to your life or they bring blessings to your life so a godly soul tie will bring a blessing right  a godly soul tie a godly soul tie will expand and and compliment and cultivate and help you in  your spirituality in your walk whatever it is that god has called you to a godly soul tie should  be adding to your field it should be something that should should complement who you are and  your purpose in life but ungodly soul ties are negative soul ties and they're not just  physical hey vicky ho

w are you how are you good to see you good to see you i'm glad you  joined good to see you so negative ungodly soul ties come in through a number of different ways  and so the podcasts goes through at least seven to eight different ways whether it be through  occultic practices whether it be through family um generational ancestral linkages through your  past whether it be through um secret vows or oaths or other organizations and so where you're making  a tie right retiring yourself to a commun

ity or to a person or to a thing and so i break it down um  pretty well in depth um outside of the spherical spiritual physical ties that we all are kind of  commonly know um we um uh oh sorry about that you guys know kind of the um line somebody was calling  me i meant to put my phone on do not disturb um but we um we are talking about just soul  ties just just different different ways that you can connect and be connected to a  soul tie so the most common one of course is the physical sexual o

ne so anytime you enter  into a physical relationship god has ordained marriage and god has ordained sex in marriage  to be an agree and a main ingredient of marriage right and it's a way that you can come together  in union and join and this sex was truly intended for a marriage right sex was intended for a  marriage but when we exercise or enter into a relationship outside of marriage with  someone in sex then we are swapping spirits right and remember remember we would  be like if you kiss so

mebody like oh you swap and spit technically a soul tie outside of  marriage that you have joined with someone that you are not ordained to be your husband is  a spiritual connection now it is not a divine one because it is coming in in in out of order it  is not ordained by god and so therefore you are receiving that in which comes with that person if  god has not divinely connected you to this person then you are connecting your spirits with their  spirits and so demonic spirits have personali

ties and so people may be unaware that they actually  have personalities so if you notice whenever you get in a relationship with a person and it's  out it's in sin okay it's outside of marriage and you may have never had issues with anger  let's say anger was not an issue for you right let's say um um maybe you were never an insecure  person or or had any struggles in this area you'll come to find out that when  you enter into an or a relationship that is not ordained by god that those spirits 

have been given full access and and reign there have been there's a demonic door and a portal  that is open through your relationship outside of god's will and when you're operating anytime  outside of god's will then you're definitely opening up demonic doorways demonic portals and  other access entryways into your spirit and so you are connecting your soulish spiritual realm  right you're putting those two things together so you're wondering why why you know i never had  an issue with this an

d all of a sudden so those demonic personalities that you have now opened up  the door to in this relationship in this spiritual swapping of spirits right you have now opened up  yourself to personality demonic characteristics that did not does not belong to you that was not  ordained or rooted in christ that was not given to you by the lord and so you have tied and yoked  yourself with something that god did not intend for your life and so many of us that have either  operated in fornication yo

u know sex outside of marriage um we have yoked ourselves right with  many um different spirits different people and different demonic spirits and all of them have  personalities characteristics things like that and so now it's become a part of your nature it's  become a part of of your because now you have connected and yoked and tied yourself to that  person and that thing and that spirit in which they're dealing with now it could be something  generational it could be something that they've a

ctually individually opened up through their  own simple acts and or experiences but either way you have opened up a demonic door and portal to a  thing that god didn't truly intend for your life or to a personality or characteristic that god  didn't truly intend for you and so life becomes a little bit more of a battle a little bit more of  a struggle because you're now adding something on that you really weren't supposed to have it  was not what god had ordained for your life another way that

you can that you can get or  create a soul tie is through bad company back company corrupts good morals right bad company  so first corinthians 15 33 tells us bad company corrupts good morals so anybody that you associate  with and or assimilate with so you can associate or be a part of association but association begats  assimilation so association and assembly the more you spend the more time you spend the more  energy you invest the more conversation you have then you are bonding yourself you

are binding  yourself spiritually you're bonding yourself with the thing that you are connected to so it  could be a friendship it could be a relationship it can be an organization it can be um anything  that you tied and yolt yourself to with your time with your energy with anything that you've done  to invest in and so as you are sharing space with a person with a thing or a situation  and or organization you are investing all of your mind your will your ideologies your  cultural values your

beliefs all of these things hi will how are you you're connecting all of  these things and you are assimilating so when you put association with the thing with a person  or or in an organization or in a group of people you must know that you cannot be or remain  separate but for so long right because over the course of time the more you spend the  more air you breathe in this person's face the more you tie yourself in conversation the  more you connect yourself and and their ideals and their tho

ught processes and those things that  they perceive as important or not important or those personality characteristics that they carry  and possess because of your connection with them you over the course of time will begin to  assimilate so that is how your associations can begat assimilation in a situation and so  you can create a soul tie and it can be rather a godly soul tie or it can be an ungodly soul tie  so you have to really discern who you connect with you have to discern who you assoc

iate with you  have to discern who you're operating in in certain realms in certain circles and that's whether it  be business whether it be personal whether it be your family whatever the situation is because  everything that you connect and or associate with over the course of time will eventually you  will assimilate in that thing and so as god over time has continued to move and has continued  to move me in different areas of my life i've had to discern and just and and filter through my  co

nnections in my life whether they be familial whether they be um through my um business  contacts and friendships and those sort of things so you must go through all of your contacts  everything that you're associated and connected to because everything that they are dealing with  every every personality characteristic and trait that they are concerned with everything that's  going on in their life automatically it's just spiritual law right it just automatically becomes  a part of you so if you

think that you're gonna enter into and have casual sex and or you know or  sex with no strings attached it don't it doesn't exist so take that out your head pull it all out  put it someplace else sex with no strings attached don't exist it's a myth you will pick up in the  spirit every personality characteristic and trait every situation and circumstance whether  they have an issue with it personally or whether it's a part of their bloodline whatever  it is that they're connected to you are now

when you swapping spit swapping spirits and that is  not what you want in this life you really want to be connected to the divine things you really  want to be connected to the god ordained things the things that complement and contribute to  towards your life so you don't want anything that's going to detract or distract delay or  or cause any destruction in your life because that's what the enemy is coming to do the enemies  coming to to steal kill and destroy steal kill and destroy that's th

e mission okay if anybody's ever  played video games i've never been a gamer but that's there's a mission there's a goal in in  warfare there's a goal when you're playing a video game if you're playing one of those those you  know tactical sort of battlefield sort of games the the whole goal and mission is to steal kill  and destroy so any negative ungodly soul tie that is the mission that is what they're meant  to do let's see and nedis says this makes so much sense this is why we may feel oppr

essed sometimes  when we leave someone's presence or leave a conversation with them absolutely absolutely  because you can tie and yoke yourself to anything that they're dealing with if you  talk to a girlfriend on the phone and every time let's say every time you talk to her this  is your bestie bestie best of friends right and every time you talk to her she's got anxiety every  time every time she's struggling with insecurities over the course of time the more space you share  the more air you

breathe the more time you invest with this person over time you develop a bond okay  you develop a bond and so whether it's emotional bond or whether it's physical or spiritual there  is a bond that is joined with a person and so whether you want to believe it or not whether  you think it's possible or not it absolutely is and it absolutely does happen and every  single situation relationship and circumstance and so you you really want to identify what  are you connected to what are you associa

ted to what is supposed to be there who's supposed to who  are you supposed to let go who are you supposed to maybe hold on to and as you disconnect from  those ungodly connections as you disconnect god will then be able to divinely place the people  that he's called in your life to contribute and compliment your god ordained purpose and you're  not connected to things that you shouldn't be connected that are bringing you down that are  bringing you but you know that are bringing you pain and op

pression and depression anxiety  and fear and worry and all of these things all because you're associated with a thing a person or  an organization and you've yoked and tied yourself to a thing or a person that really wasn't  intended and purpose for your life so bad company bad company corrupts good morals so i wanted  everybody to be just aware of their associations their associations their assimilation and how  your associations can contribute to assimilating to a thing to an environment to a

culture to  an idea to a belief and you can tie yourself to an ungodly soul tie just by being connected  and being assimilated with a thing or a person so i looked up the definitions for association  and assimilation so association says to connect with someone or something with something else  in mind right with something else in one's mind but assimilation says to take in to take in an  idea a culture or information and understand fully so to assimilate means you've taken in so  however you ta

king it in whether you're taking hi lena hi sistelina how you doing whether you  taking in this connection through listening whether it's through someone you're watching on  youtube whether it's a sermon or whether it's it's someone that's maybe in a negative um soul  tie situation something that you are taking in if you are taking something in fully if you're  investing your time and energy in a friendship in a in a um organization into your into your church  into your spiritual leadership and

whatever it is that you are yolking and tying your life to that  is the thing in which you will receive the fruit of that is what you will receive because there  is a root that's planted in your life when you connect yourself spiritually to a thing a person  an organization whether it be godly or ungodly you must discern godly versus ungodly and then  once you discern okay if this is a godly tie then this will bring a blessing to my life because  this is what god has ordained for me to bring mor

e fruit in my life or if i tied myself to an ungodly  negative soul time then this is something that's going to bring destruction to my life this is  something that's going to bring delay despair hopelessness oppression because ungodly negative  soul ties are demonic in nature they're demonic in nature so there are personalities that are  that are connected to demonic spirits and demonic spirits only goal is to steal kill and destroy  steal kill and destroy so yes it's very important to go throu

gh your friendship list to go through  your facebook list or go through your ig list or go through your business connections to go  through your family even your own family that you love to death you can incur and create a soul tie  through your family and then you're also tied just by blood through your ancestral links through your  generational links there's a generational bond and an essential an ancestral link that's in your  bloodline that you were actually born into and so there are certai

n personality characteristics  and traits that you may have felt a desire for from birth right from birth or you know your  entire life or as long as you can remember and so as you move towards purpose and as you are  aligning your will with the will of the father then you can then take these connections and these  things and go to god and pray in the holy spirit and say god should i remain connected in this way  should i disconnect over here in this way what are you trying to do because you he

can't give you or  send you a divine partner or a divinely connected blessing whether it be through a business connect  whether it be through a personal connect whether it be through a natural or spiritual connect he  can't send those things when there are people holding those positions when there are there are  organizations that you are tied to that are maybe not of god there are legalistic ritualistic  um occult cult-like religious organizations people have tied themselves to people have yoke

d  themselves to and so therefore now the enemy now has a demonic open door those spirits are now  having an open access and portal to your life and so then you will begin to see the fruit of  those demonic spirits that you have connected and tied yourself to just by investing your heart  your time your energy your ears and all that you've given it and so you have invest and swapped  spirits so swapping spirits is not just sexual swapping spirits is not just laying down and  and and swapping spi

t in spirits right it's more than just from a sexual nature there are other  things that are ungodly that are negative ties that you must discern by praying and meditating  on the word of god and taking it before to the holy spirit to discern who you connect to who do  you disconnect to as i have strength as the lord has has partnered and i have partnered with him  to strengthen my walk i've had to make some hard decisions i've had to make some hard decisions  with family ties i've made i've had

to make some hard decisions with friendships i've had to make  some hard decisions with people that i followed on social media that you know when i was ignorant  and unaware um because i've had to really be very careful about the things that i am connected to  because i understand now more than i ever have that my connections and my ties in my life whether  they be godly or ungodly that i will bear and reap the fruit of those tithes and that then that  demonic ties negative ungodly ties are onl

y built and sent to me to destroy distract and destruct  that is it and that is all there is no in between so you can't kind of straddle the fence with the  friendship you can't straddle the fence with that church and that organization that god may have  called you to leave or maybe something that he's sent you to actually lead but you're trying to  take people with you like abraham did a lot you you really these relationships right you have  to discern look at naomi and ruth naomi and ruth that

was a godly soul tie that was a godly soul  tie so there was a blessing that was attached ruth was able to glean into a field she found boaz  i mean a lot of things happened that led up to that but naomi and ruth's relationship was a godly  connected tie and so ruth was able to discern when naomi was trying to disconnect that no this is  a tie this is a godly tie that i need to remain connected to so today i just wanted to really  come on and chat with you guys about this week's podcast and it

goes further in depth i go further  in depth on the podcast about what negative ungodly soul ties look like what godly soul  ties look like and a breakdown of where you can go to see and identify like is this something that  affects me is this something am i connected and tied somewhere to someone that maybe i shouldn't  be and then i walk you through a soul tie breaking prayer it's a so time-breaking prayer because  okay once you identify that you're connected once you identify that there is a

soul tie in your  life okay now what do you do right and you go to god and you pray in prayer and you pray and you  ask the lord to reveal the hidden things reveal the ties and connections expose those things that  you may be unaware of and then once he exposes and makes you aware of these ties and connections that  don't belong that are bringing you destruction then you can then pray for god to release and  to remove you from this connected tie from this relationship and so in the podcast towar

ds the end  i do a soul time breaking prayer so identify these things go through your friends list there's an  old saying that says show me your friends and i'll tell you who you are show me your friends and i'll  tell you who you are so without me even having any conversation with you i can watch you and follow  you online and see who do you follow who who who who's in your circle who are you connected  to who do you talk to who who do you allow in your intimate space who are you sharing your 

time and energy with because that should tell you you should pay close attention as i have had  to do for myself so i'm not telling you anything that i didn't have to figure out on my own as well  that i didn't have to partner with the holy spirit to filter through my friendship list my family  list my you know business list my connections and all of these things that say okay god who  who are these people where are they going where is their heart where is their heart right where  is their heart

for you god or you know where's their because out of a person's heart comes their  intent comes their motive right and if you see a person that's constantly working and striving  towards selfish desires and selfish things or whatever i'm not a selfish person i don't  want to yoke myself to selfish people or people that aren't givers or people that don't love  unconditionally or people that don't you know so why would i allow myself to continue in  relationship because then i'm joking and tying

myself with their personality characteristics and  traits and so these are not things that i want in my life there are certain things that i desire  that i don't have and so the things that i don't have that i desire i take it to the lord and say  lord divinely send me help send me a friendship send me a partnership send me something that will  be of godly nature and characteristic that is in the likeness of you and so i can partner with  that thing and i can actually open up the doors to blessi

ngs and i can open up the doors to  the godly characteristic and ties that god has called us to enter into so i thank you all of  you that have come on and listened and for those that are watching the replay today don't forget  to go check out the full episode on the podcast and if you follow me on youtube make sure  you click the bell subscribe and share and i am so blessed and honored to serve all  of you until next week y'all have a good one