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The Gay Civil Rights Activist Nearly Erased From History

Unknown to many, Bayard Rustin was the heart and soul of the civil rights movement in the United States. As Martin Luther King Jr.’s chief organizer, he helped translate the philosophy of nonviolence into direct action by organizing the 1963 March on Washington. So why isn’t he more famous? Bayard’s commitment to speaking truth to power was matched by his commitment to living out his own truth as an openly gay man. But being his authentic self in an era of widespread, open homophobia often kept Bayard away from the spotlight. From the home they once shared in New York City, his longtime partner Walter Naegle reflects on the life, love and legacy of an American hero. This Great Big Story was made possible by P&G: US.Pg.com SUBSCRIBE: https://goo.gl/vR6Acb This story is a part of our Human Condition series. Come along and let us connect you to some of the most peculiar, stirring, extraordinary, and distinctive people in the world. Got a story idea for us? Shoot us an email at hey [at] GreatBigStory [dot] com Follow us behind the scenes on Instagram: http://goo.gl/2KABeX Make our acquaintance on Facebook: http://goo.gl/Vn0XIZ Give us a shout on Twitter: http://goo.gl/sY1GLY Come hang with us on Vimeo: http://goo.gl/T0OzjV Visit our world directly: http://www.greatbigstory.com

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- [Woman] This Great Big Story was made possible by P&G, Love Over Bias. - [Man] Bayard Rustin was one of the most important figures in the African American struggle for civil rights and freedom. He organized the 1963 March on Washington. He helped Dr. King translate the philosophy of nonviolence into direct action. But a lot of people don't know his name, largely because he was a gay man. - My name is Walter Naegle, and Bayard Rustin was the love of my life. I met Bayard on a corner at 42nd Str
eet and 7th Avenue, Times Square in 1977. I was 27 years old, and he was 65. There was this tall, handsome, very attractive man standing next to me and we looked at each other, and I was pretty much toast. Bayard was open about his being gay, really, from his teenage years. He just believed in being his authentic self and speaking his own truth. Bayard always said that Dr. King didn't really have a personal problem with him being gay. Dr. King really needed Bayard at different times, because Bay
ard was a person of great creativity, great intellect, and he was doing things for the movement that really nobody else could do. After the March on Washington, he became a much more visible figure. He was really out there in the thick of the movement. - We're interested in making it possible for people to live like human beings. About the so-called destructive child. - [Walter] But as the movement took off, he needed to step back and get out of the limelight for a while so that people wouldn't
be distracted by the fact that hew as gay. That was really the piece that kept him from rising in the movement the way he could've had he not been. If you were to look at Bayard and me, on the surface, there were great differences. There was an age difference. There was a race difference. But we shared a deep bond and a deep love for each other. In 1982, Bayard adopted me so that we would have some legal protections under the law. We were legal, father and son. This was a time when gay couples h
ad no protections, no rights. Other people were maybe a little shocked. It didn't really matter to us. (serious music) Bayard died in August of 1987. We decided to organize a small, private foundation in his memory, the Bayard Rustin Fund. It was really designed to get Bayard into the history books. He didn't have the visibility of a Dr. King or of a Malcolm X. He would want to be remembered for being a person that played a great role in making social change in this country. (serious music)

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@NateandNoahTryLife

I had never heard of Bayard Rustin before, but he is clearly of note. It makes you wonder what other historical leaders were pushed aside because of their sexuality.

@bmazin1377

Weird we learned about Bayard in school but never knew he was gay

@lostking01

This man should have his own statue in the capital of the United States, because for a man to be openly gay during a time of racism and homophobia... that take both courage and a strong will.

@nickc3657

A crucial figure in American history!

@mperry4939

Can't believe I never heard of him. Proud to be black! I love that he was never ashamed of his sexuality this is the type of leaders that needed to be brought to light during the Gay Rights Movement. #POWERFUL

@insan8ty

Aw, their relationship seems so loving. Thank you for telling us who he is, we will remember him. But I also have a question. How was he legally able to adopt you as his son despite you being over the age of 18?

@sjenner76

I knew of Bayard Rustin and his role in the Civil Rights Movement. And I knew he was gay. But I never knew this side of this great man’s story. Thanks for sharing it!

@justthat69

Not gay but I can understand how this mean for gay,trans people.

@johnmccormick1061

What a great man ... people should know his name, he is an integral part of American history 👍

@anndillm

Thank you for sharing this story. It's important to hear that there are people of all types standing up for healthy communities These are the stories that help build bonds!

@ivan_14_

There should be a movie about him

@elris452

happy pride month 🌈 really loved this story. kinda sad that people don’t know much about him.

@siewheilou399

And it took so many years, and his lover to bring this part of history to light.

@isaiahjohnson3316

we need to learn about him in our schools!!!!

@howHumam

A good man true to himself. Know love, however that works out...

@aroundthegoodworld

Love the way this story unfolds! You're such a great inspiration for my channel. Keep it up :)

@Usef1371

Wow... Never cease to amaze me how many wonderful Afro-Americans that we have in this country

@coleman6036

I just discovered Rustin tonight and everything I have heard so far, I love. There is so much to learn from this amazing man.

@polishherowitoldpilecki5521

Bayard Rustin broke so many barriers before 2015.

@paolabueso

So inspiring! Thank you for sharing this.