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we are back with more absolutely Bonkers Reddit stories uh but today we are specifically doing Reddit stories that have updates to them uh this comes from a recommendation from a comment uh by Daniel Franco uh he said I think y'all should do a video where you all do nothing but posts from best of Reddit updates and have the people on the couch try to guess what happens before reading the update uh Daniel Franco great suggestion that's what we're going to do today so I'm going to read uh the firs

t parts of these Reddit stories and then chance and Angela thank you for being here you will try to guess what you think is going to happen next um do you think you're gonna be pretty good at this no no I think together we could maybe alone no no but as a team you've got this also Daniel fenko yeah Daniel Daniel Franco your check's in the mail Daniel yeah it's been a subscriber for eight years all right awesome way to go um that means you subscribed around the time I joined so maybe it was Me Ma

ybe Story number one boyfriend won't stop telling me I have Bo this comes from relationship advice okay I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything has been great except for one thing every single day at least once he will tell me that I stink and smell of Bo when we met I showered every day applied regular deodorant in the morning brushed my teeth three times a day now I am so paranoid about smelling bad that I shower at least twice a day I apply new industrial strength deodorant

every few hours I have a reminder on my phone perfume and I brush my teeth anytime I eat or drink something that isn't water I feel like I'm going crazy I didn't think I smelled bad in the beginning and I don't think I smell bad now but I obviously smell bad to him right I'm that weirdo that keeps sneakily smelling their own armpits I've been to the doctor and he has said there is nothing medically wrong it has honestly gotten to the point where I literally shoved my armpit in friends and Famil

y's faces asking if I smell bad they all say I don't smell like Bo at all one friend even said I smelled too clean like a Lush store I am getting so paranoid he won't cuddle or anything when he says I smell I really don't know what more I can do all right that's the first post okay she just went on to Reddit asking for advice okay her boyfriend every day tells her that she stinks okay obvi I'm thinking it's him it's definitely him yeah yeah but but it's like balls or something he don't wash them

stories you think he stinks he smells like smelly and you think it's his balls well people don't boys don't be washing their balls often enough what he thinks is his girlfriend's Bo it's his wow yeah through his jeans or just like his own Bo yeah I think I've done that before I'm like oh you smell bad and it's actually me wow yeah yeah okay um I but I think that's the obvious answer and this is Reddit stories and you guys find the craziest [ __ ] so I'm like What's even crazier than that like w

hat if what if his nose is [ __ ] or something well my mom used to cook salmon all the time she used to put cumin on salmon and for so long cumin smelled like Bo to me interesting so long just that one spice and every time I was like this house smells so soft okay and it would reek for days um but this is every day okay so you don't really you think there's something wrong with his nose I just think it's something crazier than just his Bo yeah okay okay so I I know what happens here because I ha

ve read this but I can tell you what I thought when I initially read it yeah I'm not gonna tell you if it's wrong or not I thought it was his I was like okay it's maybe it's something with his nose and maybe it's something like he needs to go to the doctor and get checked because maybe there's something like like you know like I don't know you know how there's weird symptoms for certain things like it's like oh yeah I my girlfriend smells like Bo and it's like oh you have cancer like like I don'

t know like yeah that was my initial thought of just like what what is this so I'm not gonna tell you if I was wrong or not so here we go maybe this is like psychological maybe he gets oh I like that I like it's off on clean on a woman cleaning herself or or just insulting her in general just like putting her down yeah so disgusting yeah you might get off on that oh okay I mean I don't I don't think that's right right but you're just okay it could be a possibility okay update so unexpected edit

I waited for him to make a comment this morning so I could talk to him it was less than an hour after waking up uh that he said God you stink I had already showered and put on deodorant I snapped and asked what exactly was he smelling because at this point I'm one of the cleanest people on the planet and if I still smell bad to him then he we should just break up he got all panicked and upset I eventually got out of him that this is what his father always said to his mother apparently his father

told him that if it was a Surefire technique to have a woman never leave you because she will feel too low to cheat will love only you and will always be clean needless to say his father is wrong he's packing his things and moving out of my house today uh so you got it with the psychological sort of yeah you kind of nailed it um a very specific technique um uh some comments here hey son you know the woman who gave you life and brought you into this world and probably loves you more than you can

ever come yeah get there here's how I dehumanize her so she sticks around you should try it with your girlfriends someone else said op's ex is beyond pathetic and so is his dad insulting someone into staying with you is such an [ __ ] move his father must have a very low opinion of himself if he believed he needed to do that to get a woman to stay with him yeah that's crazy and that's also like and we also have to we also have to realize this is coming out of this is from her mouth from his mou

th so the father could have just said it as a joke I guess I mean she'll never leave here yeah he's like I mean well no because he's like this is what his father always said to his mother so I think he grew up hearing his father save his mom and that's just what he's saying that's what he's saying yeah she asked why do you say that and he goes but then it's for you to stay apparently told his father told him that that was a Surefire technique to everyone never leave you I think it's as scummy as

it sounds it's like it's scummy it's like blatantly bad scummy but it's also stupid it's really dumb because it's like like drowner and cash or something else right but it's right but it's also like so easily disproven that like it's a dumb thing that that's the one thing he stuck to I know it's just weird yeah because it's so also just a man waking up and going God you stink yeah he's a he's a piece of [ __ ] but he's also really dumb yeah I think there's so many other ways if you wanted to ma

nipulate your partner's day there's so many other so many better ways have you ever look have you ever have you ever met a bad person but they're like stupid in the way that they're bad yeah and you have the thought of like it's like you could be better you could be a better battery you're gonna be better at being the worst you need to think about how you're bad you're not doing it well I have notes like when people lie in the dumbest ways and I'm like mad that they lied to me in such a dumb way

that I'm like do lie better that's what this is like if you're gonna be an [ __ ] do it right okay okay yeah all right so we're off to a good start or bad start bad start don't don't and I know I don't smell that bad I smell like laylabo so back up [Laughter] okay here's the Second Story uh this is also relationship advice my best guy friend just told me he's in love with me two days before my wedding okay I've been with my fiance for three years engaged for a little over a year my best friend

and I have known each other since freshman year of college we are all in our early 30s this morning I woke up to a long ass text from my guy best friend that he had sent around 6 A.M sorry that's crazy basically it was him pouring his heart out he said he's been in love with me for years but always hoped I'd end up breaking up with my fiance and finally noticing him he asked me to call off the wedding and run away with him it said I needed to tell you before it was too late I just feel gross and

sad I have no feelings for him Beyond platonic love I've drafted a response and deleted it over and over I haven't even told my fiance I don't want him to have to worry about me so so soon to our wedding I know I need to but I don't know what to do or how to phrase it what's worse is that he's become my fiance's friend too I'm also pretty pissed that my friend chose such an unfortunate time to cause me such distress there were so many times over the years he could have just bucked up and told m

e how he felt but waiting until right before I'm married like I would just cancel my wedding and leave my fiance because of a goddamn text I want to tell him to not come to a I want to tell him to not come to the wedding I can't trust that he wouldn't try to pull something I don't even know if I want to talk to him again but the thought of losing my best friend is heartbreaking hell thought of not having him at my wedding is really painful he's put me in an uncomfortable impossible situation I w

ish it wasn't on me to uh to deal with these feelings for him I wish he had either stopped being friends with me when he realized Us ending up together would never happen or had told me a while ago I don't want to kick him while he's down but I need to make it clear that I have no feelings the wedding is still on and I don't want him to attend we have been friends for over a decade I've been crying over this all day I feel almost disgusted knowing that this whole time he had ulterior motives how

do I even go about dealing with this I'm supposed to get married in under 48 Hours edit I'll be showing the text to my fiance after he gets home from his brothers I won't send anything until he's here with me that's good I like that she's very smart yes I want to say like this is the most well mature response to this you can have yeah but also I'll say being on Reddit two days before your wedding okay I hope they end up together okay I'm not gonna lie I kind of hope they do too her and the frie

nd I famously will always fall in love with my best friend famously straight we're gay bad and I'm always like it could happen it could I want to believe that it could happen I like it in the sense of if this was a movie yeah in real life I feel like that would never look or be as good as the movie not the wedding it's the Wedding part that's [ __ ] up yeah there's been so much thought and planning and tickets bought money and I'll say it's not the Wedding part that's [ __ ] up too it's the text

part text yeah not a call well it's not in person 6 a.m so maybe he was I mean I don't a letter a letter is a crazy time because that mean like I could say like oh he was very very drunk but like 6 a.m so weird too late to be drunk and and crafting it she would have said that the text message made no sense she'd been like it looks like yeah it was grammatical that's that's really he's he's he's going through it yeah he's really going through if you're in that headspace at six a.m oh my God at l

east the guy in Love Actually like wrote it on posters right all right let's cut that out actually actually in love okay okay are we ready for this update wait oh my god did we guess I mean you're you're guessing I mean I like the prediction of you're hoping they end up together yeah I think because of this oh you're thinking they're gonna end up my brain's going crazier because I know that these people are always just those stories are always wild and Mike I'll give a crazier guess I'll give it

crazy I guess um that he's he's protecting her from something oh the fiance's done something and he knows yeah so instead it's easier to do that okay so a 6 a.m Hail Mary test a six and a half six a.m Hail Mary text like he's been like he knows the best man groom has been sleeping with someone or okay or okay last one or we're gonna get the update that the fiance came home and then they got into a huge fight and then they get married and she's out with him I don't know okay somehow I'm trying t

o win right right my husband I love being able to say that now this is later oh my God we don't know who she made her too which one my husband I love being able to say that now and I got back from our honeymoon yesterday I turned on my phone and opened the Reddit app and it was still signed into this account so I had an oh yeah moment and figured I'd post an update so a lot of people here really helped validate the icky mess of feelings I was having thank you for that posting here really helped

put my thoughts into words so that night my fiance got home from his brothers I let him sit down and when I showed him the text he read it and watched I watched his eyes get bigger and expression angrier of course I started apologizing like an idiot and he told me I didn't owe him an apology for anything we talked and he told me he figured the guy had a crush but kept it respectful and really he had we were close but beyond a side hug during greetings and goodbyes there was no physicality I even

let him read out past messages just to see that there was no emotional affair or me leading him on I never even vented about my fiance when we would have arguments because I knew better than to do that I'd talk to my mom Lowell so my fiance asked me what I wanted to do and I said uh that while it did sadden me I didn't want him at our wedding I was afraid that he would try some nonsense we typed up a very brief message it said friend I'm sorry that you mistook my friendship for something more t

he wedding is going to happen and it'd be best if you didn't attend to be clear I let fiance read this message and he stands by my decision to uninvite you we wanted to make it clear that uh that it was me who wanted him not to come not just my fiance knowing him he'd probably claim that the fiance forced me to uninvite him he read the message and left it on red for for a while I honestly started getting pretty anxious over it and my fiance asked if I wanted to block him part of me wanted to and

part of me wanted to hear him out and when he finally responded the text was so long that I had to click on it to read it it was horrible he called me a liar for leading him on for over a decade that he hoped my fiance left me in that there that we were infertile it was just horrible thing after horrible thing and I started crying fiance took my phone into the other room while I sobbed I think he called him but I'm not sure what I do know is after about an hour he came back in handed me my phon

e back and told me that my friend was now blocked on everything would not be attending and the best man and my maid of honor knew of the situation and would handle it for me it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders honestly after reading that message I really wasn't so sad that my friend wouldn't be attending anymore and our wedding [ __ ] rocked We Had the Time of Our Lives surrounded by people who loved us and we loved them it still feels like a dream to be honest and if the friend tried t

o show up I never heard anything of it I guess that's the update it's not nearly as dramatic and crazy as I people hope for I feel like but I'm happy yeah so so that one was a little more predictable I guess but uh you know it's hard to know with these stories uh some comments on here dude saw Love Actually and thought he might be the one to make the wedding scene work for him where it failed on screen um so disturbing that someone you considered a friend for over a decade could turn on you that

quickly because you don't want to sleep with them he was hiding the real him for a decade that's what I was thinking I was like homie has confused love with Obsession easily because that is not how you treat people you love right but you don't do that yeah I mean I I that guy has to think if if he was pretending and that's what it was he was pretending to be someone's friend yeah for that long it's like what are any of his friendships yeah like does he have any actual friendships yeah or is it

all just transactional they were friends for 10 plus years 10 plus years that's I have another friend right now that had like a falling out with her friend and I have this weird thing that I think like if you're like five plus years ten plus years of friendship it shouldn't be able to be blown up in a second no like everything should be talked out at least like tried yeah you know what I mean like that was just one and done he wished you infertile and that was it insane like yeah absolutely insa

ne uh it also probably makes it it also probably make made it easier for her oh my God now I don't have it yeah yeah probably hurts so bad but also yeah I guess you could say the silver lighting is like okay now I don't I get to just completely remove them from my life because there's no I mean him doing that 48 hours before the wedding there's no coming back from that anyways like I I guess it could have been really complicated if he was like I'm so sorry I didn't mean to I I that was wrong of

me or if he drunk texted that yeah then that would have been really hard like that then if he's like I didn't want to send you that I didn't want to say it yeah it's like I took my phone yeah oh my God that was Jeff wait I thought this was somebody else um oh sorry I thought that's my other friend for 10 years oh sorry oh my God my cousin something stupid on my phone he also made my Facebook status I love poop everyone used to do that yeah yeah one more comment uh as someone who has had feelings

for a friend and never moved to a romantic level this dude [ __ ] sucks they've known each other for uh for known each other for years and he decides to shoot his shot right before a wedding and then his reaction when she told him she didn't think of him that way gross Beyond gross if you actually love someone truly love them then you want them to be happy no matter what you want to be in their life and have them as your friend and talk to them and laugh with them and cheer them on at all the g

ood moments in their life and be there to support them during the down times you don't throw away that kind of Friendship with someone just because they won't [ __ ] you if you genuinely love them that is this dude is just a selfish ass who gives off clear in-cell Vibes and oop is completely right to eat him the [ __ ] out of her life yeah yeah it's it's sad that it's it's obvious that it was like he viewed her as an object for like 10 years yeah because if he really did care for her as a person

yeah you let it go you would have also he would have also had clearer vision to go oh she's really happy in this situation but she clearly couldn't he couldn't think that way I think he made it easy on her him being a clear [ __ ] at the end is just like clear block yeah instead of like your best friend being heartbroken and he doesn't even feel bad about it yeah I mean maybe someday maybe years from now to suddenly wake up yeah uh all right next story am I the [ __ ] for being late when I was

previously someone who was chronically late uh what am I the [ __ ] for being late when I was previously someone who was chronically late so this is someone who was they were late but they used to be late all the time but now they're not okay but they were late okay okay hi everybody I would like some judgment on this because I've been getting some serious backlash from my friends but personally don't really see the issue last week I was invited to brunch with some of my closer friends we meet u

p quite regularly so this wasn't anything special or uncommon now I'm going to be honest I used to be someone who is chronically late to everything like 20 to 30 minutes I just couldn't seem to manage my life enough to be on time however I've seriously taken the time to change life planners reminders and overall more awareness of time and stuff have helped me a lot in the past two years I've never been late to anything if there wasn't a genuine reason trained getting delayed or something like th

at now uh all my precautions have failed me last week and I found myself running late not terribly so big maybe 10 minutes behind schedule I let the others know via text that I'll be late and then they can start ordering drinks already and don't have to wait on me I thought everything was dealt with and hurried up and got to the place maybe 15 minutes late in total I was already ready to apologize and sit down at the table but as soon as I sat down everyone got up and left me there they told me

that if they weren't worth my time I wasn't worth theirs either and they left the restaurant together I later saw an insta that they went out to eat together somewhere else now I would have understood that if it was in my late era but I thought that it was clear that I've changed and wasn't late just because I could my friends are late sometimes too so I don't see the reason on them being always on time uh judgment not the [ __ ] uh for for that one uh but what are your what are your thoughts on

why did they do that that's insane so I haven't read this one so my initial reaction because a thought that I often have reading these Reddit stories is that I'm like okay you're not giving us the whole story yeah you're twisting this 100 so a part of me is thinking she wasn't 15 minutes late like I think maybe she's like changing this up or there's there's there's some detail that her being 15 minutes late like [ __ ] them over a lot more did she give a reason why she was late she just said um

she just said now all my precautions have failed me last week and I found myself running late uh she didn't say specifically why she just said like she's doing life planners reminders all these things but all these things failed her this past week also on your note she could be like running late and her late era wasn't that long ago yeah also uh she said a little Taylor Swift she said she said in the past two years two question mark years so like she's like saying roughly two years she's been s

he has never been late to anything also her self-proclaimedly error I just find that funny yeah and hearing that and saying 20 to 30 minutes late in La like everyone is so yeah I don't know where 23 minutes is like the norm I don't know where this is yeah um people that are late all the time feel I feel like they know that they're late they just don't care they're just like I'll show up when I show up like they're not worried about being on yeah I've never been too bothered by it there's it defi

nitely I would say 20 to 30 minutes is like once it gets past that is when I start getting like a little frustrated um it depends on what it is right if it's brunch with with a group of people I'm not too bothered if one person shows up 30 minutes after but uh I I I used to have uh and it was a whole group of friends who were like this that we would be going to see a movie and they would pick them they would be picking the movie they'd be like dude we're seeing this movie at seven and I'd be lik

e sick and I'd go to the movie theater and it started to become like clockwork that I know they would be an hour late to the point where we that we wouldn't make that movie and then we would see whatever movie was like later and it started to become the point where I was where my other friend and I when we got invited to a movie we would go all right so we'll leave we won't go to see that movie yeah like we're gonna we're gonna be they're saying eight o'clock so we'll go to the theater at nine y

eah and it started to work out like that and I was just like it started to become like stop you're not late just stop being uh optimistic about how soon you could go to a thing yeah start start saying something later yes just um yeah I'll tell my my dad always used to be so so late so my mom used to tell him an hour before yeah and then you show up on time so I did the same thing with my friends now too well let me so I'm picturing that she shows up she walks in late and they all get up yeah see

I think that's insane maybe maybe it's a dinner for a cake maybe there's a it's a special thing yeah there's something maybe it's a thing like they were like there was like a commence not commencement but like some kind of thing that was supposed to happen at this time to get up and go to another restaurant yeah is so much effort yeah I think I'm too lazy to do they took the server I hope they tip the service yeah I wonder what the situation this this seems weird okay I wanna let's but we think

okay I think the only prediction is do we think it's her fault or do we think her friends are she okay I'm gonna say I think it's her fault okay yeah I think she's I don't know if this girl though would would come in and update us and be like I actually own up to what I did that's a good point you're right she's an era girl [Laughter] um she's on friends yeah I think she's gonna update us and say that she's not friends with them anymore and all this drama happened okay what are you going Shane

God I don't know I think it's gonna be something I think it's gonna be neither I think it would be something weird it's gonna be something like your dad she's not the [ __ ] they're not the [ __ ] there's some sort of weird [ __ ] thing that happens let's [ __ ] go okay hello everyone a few days ago I posted about a situation where I was late to brunch with friends someone sent me a message asking for an update so I thought I would just post it publicly now first of all thank you so much for eve

ryone's feedback I was ultimately called not the [ __ ] but I'm truly happy for every judgment the year of the [ __ ] as well reading through all of the comments was basically impossible however there were some prominent ones due to so many recommendations I now have an appointment for an ADHD diagnosis which I am really happy about I also use many comments as tips on how to get ahead of my schedule even more just in case I'll never run late again thanks so much for that however long story short

here is how the situation turned out in the end brunch with my friends usually starts at 11 A.M I arrived at 11 15 a.m so I was 15 minutes late however one of my friends had an appointment at 1pm which led to the brunch being pulled forward an hour now starting at 10 A.M now here it gets a little confusing usually these things are simply posted on the group chat in advance everyone reads it and is all all is good now the 10 a.m brunch was planned at the brunch uh the week beforehand which I did

n't attend due to an appointment now I was meeting up with one of them a day later and they were supposed to tell me about it however hanging out they simply forgot about it no problem happens to everyone you know so I was arriving at the 10 a.m brunch at 11 15 and called that a little be a little behind schedule which made them angry as it seemed really ignorant that explains the huge reaction to be honest now we all had a talk after a few days and it took about five minutes of confused discuss

ion until they realized that they didn't tell me they started apologizing profusely immediately to sum it up we're all good now it was a misunderstanding and that happens next brunch is fully on them Lowell thanks for everyone's judgment hope this update helps out understanding the situation and isn't too confusing it was very confusing to write to be honest okay so I was right neither of them were the [ __ ] and it was a weird confusion yep I will still say even if she's an hour and 15 minutes

late them getting up and going to another restaurant I still think is a little crazy because there's no way they didn't eat for that pull out right so so so here's some comments how does it make sense that they had to push up the brunch to 10 a.m because of an appointment at 1pm but then when ate an entirely new restaurant at 11 15 a.m doesn't that just defeat the purpose of meeting early someone says I think oop just saw a photo post of their friends with their brunch and assumed it had happene

d after they left since oop didn't know brunch had been moved forward and their friends would have had time to eat before they arrived it says they ate somewhere else so they either didn't wait at all for op and ate somewhere else immediately just to go back to their normal brunch spot to meet uh op which doesn't make sense if the pictures posted weren't at the same same restaurant they always go to it's a pretty safe assumption that they ate after the way I read read it is op thought they left

to eat somewhere else when op arrived 15 minutes late but in reality op arrived an hour and 15 minutes late to brunch so everyone was just leaving because brunch was over um yeah it seems I guess it's confusing but she made it sound like they left and they went and ate somewhere else they immediately got up when she sat down and did only one person have an appointment because maybe yeah Jesus this one person should have just left early right yes that's what I was going to say so so maybe the one

person who had the appointment went to the appointment but the others got up left and then they went and ate somewhere else I still think even if they got up and just left immediately and then all went out to eat somewhere later that day and didn't invite I just think it's all like big reaction to like you were late like yeah I don't know I guess I guess everyone's different but I don't see it as like a type of disrespect where I'm like you [ __ ] ruined my day I'm like you should have played t

o brunch like at the very least that's one of those where I'm like I don't need to like punish you as a friend yeah the punishment is like hey I'm sorry brunch is over like I'm I'm sorry like yeah that's the punishment like if someone shows up late and I'm like I gotta go like I don't feel bad at that point but I'm not like now we're gonna all making we're gonna go get dinner later tonight we're not gonna invite you because you relate to this I'm like oh this is like my parents give like a kid a

punishment for the lesson learning of it all and you're like this actually is not gonna help the kid learn no no like just being like when she sees that we actually went to a different restaurant she'll never be late again it's like it's weird yeah someone said I get that this was a miscommunication but it is horrible that they didn't even hear Opie out and all got up like a bunch of children I wouldn't be friends with people like that uh someone else said frankly I didn't get the reason behind

ditching and uh yes their reaction was very sitcom level of miscommunication definitely sounds like one of those problems that could have been resolved with the barest amount of communication rather than storming off without getting giving the other person a chance to explain and considering the time for the brunch was changed I don't know how it didn't occur to any of them that maybe op forgot or wasn't told no one thought 20 minutes in when they hadn't heard from him hey someone remembered to

tell op right maybe he needs a reminder yeah it's just it's all very impulsive yeah this is on the motherboard that didn't tell her about their time yeah and they got up and went to a different room yes yeah it was on several people for realizing like you weren't there last week when we planned this and there's no written documentation yeah and she gets lost in group chats even if there was like there's so many people I'm very curious how many people are involved in this group too yeah like if

it's like four or five people I'm like that's a huge reaction to one person yeah oh that's so mean it's so mean moving on ready am I the [ __ ] for refusing to honor my boyfriend's family's tradition okay what is the tradition what is the tradition my boyfriend Eric 29 uh male fake name I love when we get the ages and I 27 uh female have been dating for three years for context I have met his family and they are friendly we don't meet them very often because they live in my boyfriend's Home Count

ry I don't want to reveal country names either for privacy reasons but my boyfriend and I are are of different nationalities and we both work in my country the conflict happened during our last visit last weekend we have been looking up houses to move in together in engagement rings while we were having dinner we mentioned this to his family as it's a big step in our relationship for us we are not engaged yet his parents and brothers Express their happiness for us then out of nowhere his younges

t sister-in-law asked so is she going to take the test I asked what test in summary boyfriend's family has this tradition where the future mother-in-law tests future daughter and daughters-in-law to see if they are good enough for her sons apparently his mother and aunts went through this same test the tests include how to clean and keep a home how well they can cook Their Manners Etc basically life skills most people learn from childhood I found it ridiculous because one if I'm good enough for

my boyfriend he should be the one deciding it and two I don't fit in their targeted category in his mom's words you can't be a good uh stay-at-home wife and stay-at-home mom if you can't be a good Homemaker and she wants to make sure of that to be clear his mom and all three of his brothers wives are stay-at-home moms and although I respect their choice I'm not quitting my career and did not under any circumstances make my boyfriend think I could compromise on that I hate House tours and I would

rather buy homemaking gadgets and hire staff no matter the cost than have to do chores myself I told my boyfriend's mom all this and it caused an argument that eventually ruined dinner and an extension our visit boyfriend doesn't care whether I'm a working wife or a stay-at-home mom but he thinks I should have just done the test because it's just a test and it's not like they would reject me if I failed it he thinks it's a fun tradition that everyone was looking forward to and I should have gon

e along with it anyways my boyfriend thinks I'm the [ __ ] and suggested I make this post if I really am the [ __ ] I'm sure you guys will let me know so so am I edit adding this as it's been coming up I know disclosing the country may or may not bring up some unwanted arguments that will violate the rules here but just for context it's a family tradition not a national culture that is an important thing that is an important so this is this is very so yeah for context uh I I she is saying and I'

m supposing the boyfriend's saying like this is a very individual family tradition yeah right this is not nothing like cultural to to where he's from or anything yeah so she gave a little more info on this one of those things that one family member does and is passed down from Generations like baking a huge cake on the anniversary of someone important in the family not everyone in that country does it but it's a family tradition I don't know if my example makes sense but this is how I understood

it I'm not sure if the results mean anything all I know is that if it's a cooking test for example I'd have to cook a nice meal for the family and receive their approval based on how delicious it is and trust me they'll be convinced by I'm trying to take revenge on them if they ate my food so there's that but now that you mentioned it his mom cooks like a five-star chef and so do his sister-in-laws the two whose food I've tasted maybe they pass the test I don't know I'll have to ask my boyfrien

d um wow uh so I have not read this so I have no idea where this is going so I I I love the idea of a test I'm like that's so fun yeah getting our family you gotta pass this [ __ ] test but on the outside of that I'm like she don't gotta do [ __ ] right definitely not quit her career the test it's kind of fun it sounds kind of fun yeah it's like this it sounds like this community thing it's not cultural it's like this fun thing that we've done like and but I guess it does uphold gender norms yea

h it's weird because it's definitely forcing like oh you're gonna be a stay-at-home mom yes when she's not that I I like I think the idea of like of a test is kind of cute if it's something kind of like a little more out of the ordinary or silly and then if they acknowledge like this is a silly stupid tradition we have like yeah that's the difference then you are a little bit more of like an initiation into the family yeah hey when you're initiating the family you have to bake a cake for all of

us yeah like not a pass or fail it's not like if you if exactly it's like it's funny it's like man or woman you gotta do this yeah it doesn't matter yeah but but this is very much like are you a good enough like it feels like it's saying like are you a good enough traditional one that is what it feels like and that's why it's yucky and that's why she's allowed to have a problem with it yes but I don't know I also feel like she should have strategized too she should have take she should have stra

tegized with the husband outside of the family instead of starting to fight I just I will avoid a fight at all cost can I can some like how are we going to do this together what would be the best way to go about this to your family because I'm not yeah let's say group think this let's group think this I understand too like it's a family tradition or cultural traditions and stuff and it's like and I feel like the emphasis a lot of times in these is like oh well this is their culture so she she ca

n respect this but I'm like she has a culture too yes 100 and they have to like a fam the family can also acknowledge like oh our our son is is dating a woman from this culture oh and she probably doesn't yeah adhere to our cultural norms yeah so either like let's just clean slate it and say oh we don't have to like do that to each other or like respect her as much as she can respect us and like find the middle ground I I think we get into scary territory when we repeat things in the name of cul

ture yeah despite why we're repeating them right right it does sound like like when it sounds like a sweet moment to like have to like cook a meal for your future family like but I also understand what that makes her feel like and especially when there's like chefs in the family or whatever like that does sound scary but it's also yeah I don't know as soon as she brought it up that it's a problem it should have been like oh we don't have to right we have to do this right but it sounds like they

want to they really have to do that and I get that he's the type it sounds like he's the type to just be like oh whatever who cares like but I I think he could probably wake up for a second and go oh she's feeling really uncomfortable by this but I know that's tough to be put between your family like a lot of people have a really hard time saying no to their families yeah but he's got to learn to do that here like so what's the twist or they just gotta update their test yeah you know what I mean

just like it's just not going to stand the test of time I think they should make the test sillier yeah make it silly and make everyone take it yeah yeah to make everyone do it right right exactly that's a good question so any predictions The Twist the twist there's no way it was a bit oh it's a prank it's a prank that could be funny and they go we wish you had a sense of humor there's a lot of prank families there are Imagine marrying into a prank family oh [ __ ] that that [ __ ] happens to pe

ople there's been a trend on Tick Tock where people bring their significant others when they've meet their families and they're sitting down for dinner they stand up and say the Pledge of Allegiance before dinner as a prank I love it oh my God that would I that would be tough I would do it too and you know what I know every word hopefully all right so wait any predictions it doesn't have to be like what the whole story is just anything that you think is going to be involved in this story um I me

an maybe she had a change of heart and she cooked she's gonna do it or or they they reassessed okay I like what you said where's his test yeah I I wonder if there's like a test for him like he should go out and have to hunt the food yeah he should go he needs to go he needs to go kill a a a moose and then she'll have to make the Moose yeah okay that's teamwork I want the same I want the same test okay she got to do it he got to do it okay I like that yeah all right here we go several things have

happened since my post and I received requests for an update so here it is this will be my only update I got a lot of insight from the votes and comments in my original post and I would like to thank you all for that I showed my boyfriend the responses and judgment on the original post most of you felt I was not the [ __ ] and like you would guess he was upset by this judgment he tried to make his own post but was the [ __ ] so badly he deleted it in less than an hour yes yes it falls in line w

ith the rule of Reddit whenever boyfriends post on there they're the [ __ ] they're always like I want my girlfriend to cook for everyone right why am I the [ __ ] anyway I talked to my family and told them about the test yesterday they called us home for dinner and told him they would let me take his family's test if he let my dad and male cousins put him through a similar test he blew up at about how it was ridiculous uh sorry he blew up about how ridiculous it is because it's a family traditi

on for his family but for mine it's something we came up with at random that's how Traditions start wow wow look they're starting a family tradition uh he ended up saying it's okay if I don't do the test but my parents and I were being childish he let slip mid-argument that his younger sister-in-law didn't want to do the test either but look at her the perfect wife he's there it is he let it slip yep he said a lot of things but long story short he still is still supportive of whatever I want to

do with my life after marriage but his family will never think the same way however I was starting to see a pattern so I asked to take a break it was great while it lasted it's not a fun or cute update but there you go time for me to binge watch heartbreaking movies with a giant tub of ice cream once again thank you for the comments and judgment uh one more comment they left it still sucks being me for now but between work and getting home fast so I can read some chapters or play at least one of

my games before I nod off I barely have time to think about my ex the tiniest chance that I could give it another chance vanished when he started spamming my phone with misogynistic crap like I'll be single forever if I don't bow my head good riddance LOL yeah he needed to go I love that they gave him a test she said she said she said look look at yourself that's a mirror look at yourself look at what you're doing and he didn't like what he saw God I love that he let it slip that his sister-in-

law also didn't like it I know and but look at her perfect wife it's like so sad that she had to do it I know but but she dodged a bullet I know she also just like slipped under there she was like also there's a couple behaviors that are being repeated that I don't like and I'm like that's always what ends up happening with these am I the [ __ ] posts like when she's posting about like he does this one thing yeah and she's like also he cheated on me so I broke up with him yeah also yeah he says

I stink everything yeah yeah it's like okay there's more um there's some comments honestly you got to thank the family if they weren't such weirdos oop would have wouldn't have noticed she was way too close to marrying a future oh you're so good at being a housewife if you love me you drop your job in dreams so I can have cooked meals and washed socks for free if he's got a test to you to know if you're the one he's not the one it's not a cute tradition it only tells the family that women are wi

lling to let you push past boundaries without putting up a fight family traditions are like watching a certain movie on Christmas Eve or Grandpa hiding money in some of the Easter eggs a test to see how willing you are to do whatever they say is not the play that's so true yeah family traditions are like they're supposed to be silly I feel like I mean there's some though that are like rooted in like religion sure culture that I do understand yeah I think it's always what it goes back to right an

d it's like it seems like what this goes back to is control over the woman yes and that that don't taste that good I but I I don't like traditions if it's like you have to do this thing and we're telling you you have to do this thing a tradition should be like tradition should be like we do this fun thing oh you don't have to do it we do this fun thing yeah yeah like it's for us so um but that was that's weird um good for her getting out of there yes what a piece of [ __ ] all right okay so see

I love that face it's a good one so this one I read a long time ago and this one is nuts okay this is some crazy [ __ ] okay um I'll Reserve this one because that girl didn't end up going with her best friend or whatever that's true okay buckle up for you guys and for people listening this one is intense um okay a cake eater discovers that his wife has also been eating cake uh you're gonna find out what that means in a second so there's there's a subreddit called our cake eater and it is a sub f

or cake eaters not chocolate cake or cheesecake or any regular sort of cake but people who want to have their cake and eat it too who are in a happy marriage and not planning on leaving but still have an affair just because copy yeah uh so here's the first post Calm before the storm tried posting a few days ago but could not find post must be lost in cyberspace don't even know if this is the right Forum at the moment ingest a fair partner got served divorce papers out of nowhere two days ago at

work her husband knows of us me it's only a matter of time before my wife finds out don't know if I have days or hours before the world as I know it is gone took some time off work to spend time with my wife and two daughters my body is in turmoil but strangely my mind is clear it reminds me of the days leading up to my dad passing away time has slowed down and I am aware of all the things surrounding me it's a nice feeling my day today was filled with observation of details and appreciation my

wife's smelling the clothes she wore my daughter's laughter the color of the kitchen tiles the dog the yard feel blessed to have a healthy and beautiful family what will my daughters think of me I I look at my wife that I love with all my heart and I see a woman who stood by me no matter what we had our fair share of ups and downs like most couples but I never imagined a life without her how do I justify a six-year Affair is that even forgivable I don't know what the future holds all I know is t

hat the storm is coming and I am here basking in the sun until the clouds come rolling in I plan to confess over the weekend even if I know the outcome I pray she does not leave me this was so [ __ ] not worth it any suggestions on how to confess how do you start what do I tell my daughters I have already made an appointment with a therapist what else can I do wish me luck uh edit thank you all for your comments and suggestions some of them were hard to read I don't have time to address all comm

ents but we'll reply a few to clear some things yesterday I reached out to my brother for advice he left his wife some years ago and married his affair partner he seemed happy with her the grass is not greener for him after all and he is planning on leaving her but it's it but it is stuck at the moment his advice is not to tell my wife and to minimize it if confronted he also said I should let down a fair partner gently so she does not go nuclear on my wife and family I am hoping for the best bu

t preparing for the worst in the comments people doubt that op really loved his wife he did cheat on her for six years and all he responds I am not confused I never was I don't have a problem separating love from sex my heart is loyal to my woman and she is is she is is for me so many responses about how I don't value my Affair partner since I'm on a pour my heart out role here let me tell you about my Affair partner she is a gorgeous and smart woman who is funny and open to different experience

s she is younger than myself and my wife fit seductive sexy as [ __ ] but she is not my wife and does not even compare six years on and off is a long time to invest as I see it she is an adult woman who made decisions to cheat with a married man on on her husband for whatever reasons do I care for her yes six years is a long time do I love her no did I say to her I loved her yes of course I did but I lied just as I lied to my wife did I use her yes I did did she use me of course she [ __ ] did w

e both knew we were playing with fire the reason I strayed uh was has nothing to do with my wife we have a good sex life in general but I do have some Kinks that she is not into at all my Affair partner was into the same Kinks that's how we met and that is why the affair was ongoing for six years what led me to starting the affair was my wife being in an accident that took a toll on her body sex was off the table for over a year I gave in to Temptation and when I discovered the affair partner sh

ared my Kink I was hooked so all you people saying that my wife was withholding sex and intimacy no my wife and I are very intimate having sex with my wife is making love sex with Affair partner is just sex my wife meets 90 of all my needs my Affair partner needs 10 percent so he gets advice on whether or not to tell his wife most commenters tell him to come clean but if you don't including his brother in real life so this guy is a real piece of [ __ ] unlike Emma the [ __ ] post you have people

like they they don't like they maybe know they're doing something wrong but that kind of in their head they've twist it this guy is blatantly saying like I've had an affair for six years I don't think it's wrong well this is like years of six acceptance years and he's like okay like you know I guess I have to tell my wife it sucks that I have to tell my wife it's like dude what the [ __ ] I mean if you do something wrong over and over and over again it's not wrong anymore you're just doing it r

ight I guess that like like he doesn't feel wrong this has become normal life for him yeah like someone who's constantly late they don't feel like they're late when they're always late you know I mean like he's so desensitized yeah um I think there's a site okay don't quote me on this but I'm pretty sure that there is a psychological study to doing bad acts makes you like desensitized to doing bad acts like and it will make you feel less bad about doing it like it's a it's kind of a retroactive

thing of like doing a bad thing can make you worse unless really actively like here's the other thing here's the other thing I'm reading a book on polyamory and he wants a polyamorous relationship and he we he I'm not defending him no but we do not have a lot of research or tools to equip us to even have that conversation sure and even sometimes starting the conversation of can we have an open relationship rips everything apart like even the even the start of it because we're not equipped yet to

be at a place no yeah I totally I totally understand that the issue is the real issue is the line yes like that's the real issue because because yeah I there are people who are in polyamorous relationships and that is totally fine yeah because there's honesty there yeah yeah if two people meet and they go hey we both want to sleep with other people right totally really great they're both like yeah great right awesome yeah he's like explaining the reasons why he's with her sexually and that's no

t why we need the release it we need the reason no on why you're not talking to your wife no right he could be yes that say that again um we don't need the reason why you're sexually attracted to your Affair or your partner we need the reason why you're not telling your wife yeah because she now for six years has been living in a lie and like not knowing like that's what sucks oh important thing to remember the affair partner is also married so yeah to be to be clear where this all started is th

e affair partner got served divorce papers so she's getting divorced and so this guy knows that this is about to like blow up into his life and everything what do they say this the storm is the calm so we don't know the twist yet we don't know the twist yet we don't know the twist so we just know that she's getting served divorce papers and he's like I need to come clean to my wife before this all tumbling and his brother's like don't tell her he's like don't tell her or minimize it which I'm li

ke no no digging you in a deeper hole you have to come you know what I think that this is that I really hate what I I think this is what it is about the lying is it's the most disrespectful thing you can do yeah and like there's a quote that I I'll just say my mom said this forever ago is that she she was like respect is more powerful than love and I think that's I think that's true because I know like people talk about love like oh yeah like you love can go all over places but like respect is s

uch a choice and he's choosing to disrespect his wife every day I mean like still and he's still going okay maybe I'll minimize it if she brings it up he knows it's a big deal right yeah and he's like but I'll minimize her feelings it's all disrespect not even to mention the reason why they stop being sexually active seems like an accident or like seems like a health thing yeah that's really [ __ ] sad yeah also like I don't know he talks about like this all sort of yeah if this all started with

an accident to her that took a toll on her body and it's like oh he acts like it was a tough thing for him yeah I'm like she also couldn't have sex through yeah like bro um he really doesn't want to lose his affair like no well he's a cake eater he's posting he's posting on Cake Eater yeah he posted this on I think this was posted on our adultery but it was reposted on Cake Eater perhaps uh the responses were posted on cake eaters um okay well let's find out what happens do we want any predicti

ons uh I know what happens I can't oh my God oh my God okay you want one guess you first okay um I'm hoping I'm hoping that um I'm not even hoping that I I I think I'm like they talked it out they worked it out you think they're gonna work give me the wife yeah okay the wife was like I am I'm showing Mercy okay and I'm believing in us and I know you yeah and he's like oh my god I've never seen this Grace he's like I'm with her because we both have the same Kink and it's something so gross to the

wife she's like you know what take your cake and eat it too we fart on balloons yeah she's like she's like but you should have asked you should have asked because I said yes she goes I'm pissed but I won't do rabbit stuff or whatever we dress up as bunnies we get an Easter Bunny costumes okay all right or yeah yeah here we go his next post is in the aforementioned cake eater sub and it quickly becomes obvious that he did not come clean first update never saw this coming throwaway posted once be

fore check it for background this is the sub I should be on I was prepared for all scenarios but not this one the doom day did not come in the shape I was expecting a fair partner ended up convincing her soon to be ex not to spill the beans to my wife in exchange for a smooth divorce I thought I was in the clear yesterday a fair partner sent me a blurry photo of my wife in the car with another man she claimed they walked hand in hand to his car from a store in a nearby town to ours she got a sho

t of the plates too after some digging I now know she is having an affair don't know how long for sure but at least six months he is a single dad our age and is telling her to leave the marriage she is telling him she loves him uh afraid to confront her feel numb at the moment took a day off of work any advice I love her and want to stay married edit any advice on how to proceed should I just let it run its course and monitor should I confront and hope for the best should I confess to my Affair

and hope we all can come clean and make way for a new marriage I am so [ __ ] utterly confused I have rehearsed the things I would say and do if she wants to find out about my Affairs I was not prepared for this he manages to get a hold of his wife's phone while she's in the sauna and confirms the affair over WhatsApp logically yes we are both getting our itches scratched what's the big deal I am not ruled by Logic at this moment my maybe later but now my emotions are overpowering every logic ne

ver in my life have I experienced this type of emotional and physical distress I can't even think straight never thought I was going to ball my eyes out and throw up on the carpet [ __ ] off I am desperate to talk this out to know why this happened and how invested she really is in this piece of [ __ ] if she is doing this out of Revenge maybe I have a chance because if so she does feel something for me at least I can't imagine her being emotionless throwing away our over 20 years I know this wo

man like I know myself deep down she's hurt but also so very stubborn and proud I just want to know if she knew about my Affair why the hell did she not confront me I would have chosen her over a fair partner in a nanosecond and what the hell is she hoping to find with this douche he is no better than me sleeping forget it he is no better than me sleeping with a married woman oh [ __ ] I am trying to respect her wish to have some space but I am desperate desperate desperate just to talk to her y

eah I don't know how to how I feel about being on the other side never had fantasies about my wife [ __ ] other men we had a good sex life minus my Kinks she was not aware of hence the uh the affair partner I am thinking what do I have to lose there can only there can be only two outcomes she loves him and she leaves she loves me and she stays I'm hoping this is just a fling and nothing serious God wait she asked for space did I miss that no no I think he's just he's playing out tonight okay oka

y oh my God there's another update this one keeps updating okay I will tell you exactly how I would do it I would go to her and I'd be like there are three things we need to talk about like one serious nope three it's a three set plan oh you have to do three-step plan in my head that you have to do three step hand number one it's the hardest it's the prop it's the hardest part to get away it's an umbrella I what do we think of having an open open marriage it's kind of hiding that he knows that s

he's in a marriage and it's bearing the hatchet that he's having a marriage what do we think about that conversation that's the first thing we have to talk about right and the second thing is okay great I have something to admit to you I've been having an affair that's the second thing right he's got to admit it he's got to admit it if they're going to move forward he's got to admit it yes and then the third thing before if she doesn't come clean he's gonna be like and I know you're having an af

fair okay right and let me just say I think the sickest weirdest of this all is how did his affair boo find a picture yeah she snapped a photo of her walking with another what are they living like a [ __ ] five-person town at the same grocery store and be like can I wish can I point out something though like the issue is I that I see where you're going with that yeah it still doesn't make up for the fact that it's like but also I lied to you for six years it's like okay so if you can lie about t

his I can't trust you in any right sphere it's like can I trust you with money can I trust you with with like my safety because I trust you like that's the issue with life right is it sets up the precedent of like [ __ ] like I now don't know what to think he's got no choice and there's something he's got no choice something small that he said that I think is [ __ ] up that he barfed on the carpet yeah no yeah never had fantasies about my wife [ __ ] other men he's only thinking about this as li

ke she can do this if it turns me on it's like but wait if you want an open marriage that's not about 100 that it's about like uh like no it's like oh me sleeping with another woman is for my own satisfaction I know it hurt her but whatever it's from my own satisfaction oh she can't sleep without the men because that's not for my satisfaction yeah like it's it right when you read that too I went what a weird detail it's such a mention why did you write that like yeah back to your [ __ ] Kinks my

guy right okay any any predictions there's anything she's she's not in love with him or she knew she knows well he was kind of saying that he was like he was like this is Revenge so you think it's for Revenge I think she knew a couple years ago and has since fallen in love not out of Revenge but just because he's accent and she's gonna leave his ass let's see okay second update my marriage seems to be over confronted my wife this past weekend confronted Saturn down without warning and told her

I knew she was having an affair and with whom asked her if she loved him and what her plan was she was caught off guard went to the bathroom for 10 minutes when she came out she looked me straight in the eyes and said I know about your Affair too yes the song uh I know about your Affair too I have known for some time now I love him and I want a divorce yeah yes days were a blur I tried to talk to her but she shut me down she has moved into the spare bedroom and is making appointments with law fi

rms has told our two girls I have signed up for emergency therapy I'm on meds for dealing with anxiety and lack of sleep this is surreal heard her talk to him last night and cut the Internet cord kind of crazy because I need [ __ ] internet for work and she just switched to her phone oh man so many emotions are running through me I love that he writes that out he writes out oh man oh man I made love to her past week and today she is a total stranger how does this happen how can she not feel any

[ __ ] emotion over 20 years gone all the love friendship partnership intimacy jokes memories plans for our future gone just like that no looking back feels so blindsided and the only person I can talk to is my mother is my brother who lives across the country sorry to vent here till you find people on here just need to get this out uh he gets his ass handed to him in the comments more or less and I wanted to call out this comment uh made love to her last week how does she not feel any emotion t

his is simple she has learned how to separate love and sex she has sex with you but loves her a fair partner you taught her well um because yeah that's something he said earlier um uh there's some comments here anyone else notice that one point he used to justify his affair was that his wife wasn't into his Kinks then he goes on later to say she wasn't even aware of his Kinks this guy man yeah um yeah she's not even aware also that she was in an accident that body and meant she couldn't have sex

for a while congrats to him on making her feel extra shitty right it would be funny if it wasn't so [ __ ] up I truly deeply and utterly cannot understand how someone is capable of functioning with this level of cognitive dissonance between his actions and his wife's actions I don't get it I really don't get it how does someone cheat for that long and manage to be so angry about their spices and be so angry about their spouse's Affair how do they not see people are scary uh yeah I think this we

irdly goes all back to what you said about his view of the world and his view of the world being that like his wife is having an affair and it doesn't even turn me on is like a [ __ ] psychosis like he is a narcissist all right so we're not getting to all the stories but we'll do this again sometime please because there's another so that I hadn't read that story I had read a different story that was very similar of a guy cheating on his wife and then he finds out his wife's cheating on him and i

t also goes crazy in different ways but uh same situation where he was cheating and he was like yeah there's nothing wrong with this and then she cheats and he's like devastated okay last story this one also blew my mind uh this is a 26 year old woman my husband who's 29 is obsessed with my boss a female who's 38 and it's all my fault this comes from True off my chest I started this job about one and a half years ago I can't say what it is because I want us to stay Anonymous and our country is v

ery small so my boss would probably be recognized the moment I started I felt like I was in the right place my boss the owner of the company is very cool and kind she's self-made and she loves her job she does a lot of the Dirty Work herself that bosses who have 30 to 35 employees wouldn't have to do but she just loves it on top of that we have a six hour work day our salaries are 20 higher than the market and we have seven paid vacation weeks a year her reasons she appreciates us and she's gett

ing richer anyway I was so proud of working with a woman like her so I wouldn't shut up talking about her to my husband especially in the beginning my husband was as fascinated by her as I am until he met her at a company party last Christmas she must have been beautiful when she was young she could have been a model I think his Fascination became a crush or an obsession or maybe worse love now he follows her on social media her accounts are private but he stalks her with my account he also foll

ows the company Instagram and likes every picture she's in he asks about her all the time she's a very private person but when her divorce from her ex-husband was finalized in the beginning of this year we all found out because he started showing up to work he owned half of her company now and he started to try to make changes in our work hours and salaries we found out that her husband had cheated on her with a younger girl who he also tried to employ in our company she still works with us she

probably lawyers involved eventually convinced her husband to sell her back his share we're still in this process now my husband has followed all this and he was so sad for her and so angry how could anyone do this when they had a woman like her if it was him he would cherish her love her blah blah blah who leaves a woman for a girl I got very angry and told him that all men prefer younger women if they could if they could choose he laughed at me and told me only losers do that the last drop was

last Friday we were out for a movie night and we saw my boss with a young man he looked to be in his mid-20s my husband lost it he didn't know that she dated younger men he wanted us to go say hello but I refused and yelled at him to troll himself because he looked pathetic when we got back home he was frenetically going through her social media until he found the guy and he sighed in relief the guy was her nephew and we didn't see the whole company but they were out with other family members m

y husband was so happy like a weight lifted off his chest I lost it on him I started crying and yelling and told him he was in love with her and he was shocked when I pushed and kicked him out of the bedroom I locked the door he stood outside trying to calm me down telling me he loved me and I'm his girl and always will be then he said something that ruined me even further it's not like someone like her would look my way I haven't slept ding dong the witch is dead I haven't slept since then why

is he feeling like this Is It Love infatuation she's too old for my husband so what is it and why would he think he couldn't have her he's very handsome and still young she should feel lucky that a young handsome man likes her and does he mean I'm less than her to accept him or is it purely her money and Status he refuses to admit anything and what can I do now I love this job I love the benefits thanks to this job our life has improved and we can afford more than just the Necessities I'm starti

ng to hate my boss though and I hate myself for idolizing her in front of my husband edit sorry this is getting longer but I have spoken to my mother sister granny and some friends about this and about what happened last Friday and they all think I'm making a big deal out of nothing um so strange so he's obsessed with her boss yeah fully obsessed yeah like stalker upset like yeah and like looking at her phone to look at her social media uh any predictions um predictions of what what do you think

is going to happen next like I mean I know it's a weird there's not it's hard to predict on this one yeah because it's like where does it go I do you think their relationship will survive no no no no no they rarely do yeah I don't think there I don't think any of them have at this point I think I think he's going to shoot his shot I was just gonna say the exact same words I think he's gonna shoot his shot she's about to get married and he sends her a text at 6am they overlap oh I think she's go

nna shoot her he's gonna shoot her shot his shot she's gonna say no and he's gonna go back to his current wife okay okay update I just found out that my husband separated is dating my boss I don't know what to do hi I'm in so much pain and I don't know what to do I don't want to do something stupid while hurting I got a lot of good advice last time I was here so I don't know maybe you can help me out with this uh this time too my old post is linked in my bio I hope you read it before this one be

cause I don't want to tell the whole story again I went against my family and friends and asked my husband for separation I felt like my heart couldn't take it anymore my intuition told me that my husband wasn't all mine this was shortly after the event at the movies my husband was in total confusion he said that I was making a mistake making a mountain out of a molehill but he moved in with his brother however we we decided to start couples counseling too it went well the first three weeks or s

o but my husband became more and more reluctant to participate and sometimes he just canceled on me at the last second he stopped showing up this month and he also stopped calling and texting me I was even more heartbroken but it still just solidified that my intuition was right and that I was doing the right thing seeing that he is not interested in working on us anymore I chose not to quit my job I still loved it with all the Heartbreak and I really needed the benefits like I'm the only one I

know who is having a three weeks paid vacation around Christmas and New Year I never see my boss anyway and she doesn't even know of my existence my husband eventually stopped being active on Instagram and I thought it was normal we were going through adversities until yesterday when his brother shared my husband's stories of the night my husband was in a restaurant holding a woman's hand I could only see her hand so my husband has just blocked me and my family and friends from seeing his update

s I commented what the [ __ ] and this morning my husband called me for the first time in months totally scared and started begging please don't ruin this for me please don't ruin this for me I told him what do you mean he said don't tell her about us I never made the connection at first it never even crossed my mind even that woman in the picture was my boss so I started crying and screaming at him how could you do this to me how could you tell me that it was all in my head when it's obviously

all over your Instagram he said it just happened I dumped him and he was single and just happened to find her on Bumble no he begged me not to ruin this for him she knows he's in the process of divorce but she doesn't know that he already he doesn't know that he already knew who she was or that she was the boss of his soon-to-be ex they have been seeing each other for six weeks about two weeks after I asked him to move and it's getting serious he begged for a good five minutes telling me how he

hasn't been this happy in all his life and that I shouldn't ruin his happiness since again I was the one who ended our marriage I have been crying since this morning I don't know what to do I want to ruin him and his happiness but I don't know if I have any right to do that and I'm so worried about losing my job please help edit for new information okay my husband has been calling me Non-Stop and I have now answered him he is panicking about me telling her everything so he begged me to give him

the chance to tell her himself his words were I never stalked her or creeped on her I just fell for her and was scared that she would think I was creepy since you thought the same give me a chance to tell her the truth at my own pace so at least she doesn't think I'm a liar or a freak like you seem to think he still swears they matched on Bumble I didn't know what that is until now but it is like Tinder I'm just so devastated right now he has no regard for me and my feelings everything he is thi

nking of is not to scare her away when I told him this he said that I was the one who left him people fall out of love and that's okay and no one's fault and that I was in the right for ending the relationship but I was the one who ended it all the same don't hurt us and I promise to give you everything you want she is happy with me so don't hurt us so thoughts so he went up to his old wife and was like don't ruin this for me in regards because she commented she commented on his Instagram so he

called her the next morning being like don't tell her that we're getting a divorce could you imagine commenting on your ex's photo with somebody else going what the [ __ ] that is badass because it's only been weeks that they've been broken up for the audacity of him to ask her yeah not to ruin it for him I know no that's crazy of course she's and she should not feel bad at all for ruining his happiness no [ __ ] that she needs to save this woman she needs to save the boss from this crazy town [

 __ ] are you guys visualizing who this boss looks like yes because I'm visualizing Jessica Rabbit in like a Blazer absolutely I I was picturing kind of Jennifer Aniston oh I love yeah okay then any predictions okay it's got to be that it's got to be that this boss finds out and is like you're a [ __ ] creep goodbye I'm scared that she I'm scared that you're married is he attractive how she's 29 he's 29. he's 29 she's 38. what do you predict I know you know yeah I think I think I think the boss

is gonna find out sounds like she's such a badass woman she'll put the pieces together I'm scared that he's gonna get to her first and he's going to be like she's actually insane like she's like oh like a girl like gaslighter oh if I know the history of men that might happen yeah I know that's why I'm scared okay hi please see my previous post because this is just the update I talked to my boss yesterday Monday after lunch I told her everything basically how I was so happy I found this job how I

looked up to her and was proud to be working for someone like her and that this rubbed off on my husband who grew more obsessed with her each day I apologize for using obsessed because I didn't know how things were between them but that it uh was how I perceived his feelings I told her about the day at the movie and how it basically made me realize that her issues were greater than I thought I told her that I know and accept that my marriage is over and that my husband didn't love me anymore an

d that the reason I'm telling her now isn't to judge or blame her but to let her know the whole story because it's just fair that she knows what he has been that he's been following her life for over a year now because from what I understood for my husband you are under the impression that you just matched up with him on a dating app I said she was silent the whole time I was talking just listening to me until I mentioned the dating app and that's when she interrupted me it's a lie that's not ho

w we met he has been a patron at my gym for the past six months maybe a year she said I know her gym it's the one across our our workplace she works out there every morning before coming to work I didn't know he had joined it because I knew him to be a member at the gym near our home he has been without telling me working out just across the street from me every morning without telling me she looked like how I felt shocked I apologize and told her that he has kept the dating her a secret from me

and that he begged me not to talk to her uh telling me that he hasn't been this happy and so on she didn't say much just thank me for telling her today she asked if she could talk to me she apologized for everything that happened to me and asked if I needed any help I said no oh my God I love this woman she thanked me again when I got home my husband was there he had called me at least 50 times but my phone was on silent he was crying calling me bitter and vindictive and pathetic he said I ruin

ed his relationship and future she is scared of him now and it is all my fault he wants me to tell her that he is not dangerous nor is he a pervert he wants me to tell her that I was the one who wanted a divorce and that people fall out of love and uh it is nobody's fault and neither is is it creepy he hasn't done anything wrong he stayed faithful to me and would have stayed that way if I didn't kick him out he asked me if I ever felt unsafe with him to make rumors about him being a stalker in a

creep I should tell the truth I asked him to leave and that I'm starting the divorce and from now on he could only contact me once I got a lawyer through them I have been crying since he left we haven't even seen each other for weeks and he had no feelings whatsoever for me he he looked demented and full of Sorrow like a broken little boy how could he change this fast before we separated he uh he held me and begged me to believe him and his love for me was it all a lie my whole entire relations

hip good night and thank you for the support this is a throwaway and I will be deleting it soon I just thought I would update before doing that dude like that one out of all of them that's the like that's the update where I was like oh my God like that he was literally stalking this was like this is literally I've never watched you on Netflix but yeah this is oh yeah this is some you territory it is whoa that's to find out like your husband is like actively like stalking your boss yeah insane so

I love that throughout this whole thing she's like like slightly prioritized keeping her paid vacation job [Music] the friggin like we didn't meet on a dating app yes he's been coming to my gym for six months the when when they actively are members at a different gym so he signed up for that gym two memberships he felt like that means he like that means he knew he knew it was wrong he found out no that means he found out what gym she goes and bought another one and started going there also I ju

st I love the boss so much the boss is just incredible how can I help you she said do you need anything and gosh it must she must have seen like a shift in her face when he said Bumble when she said Bumble being like what yeah yeah it's the time frame two of it it's it's not like oh we met at the gym three weeks ago yeah it's no he started coming to my gym six months ago so or maybe a year like so literally for a good part of their relationship when he was like no you're being crazy like whateve

r he was active I love those moments when you're spilling the tea and then the other person has teeth yes yes um that's so true this is to two really like badass women like yeah coming together sad little man it was also sad that she felt so sad after he left again I'm like I hate I hate that she says it's all my fault in several different updates yeah you know it's like it's not your fault she said good night and I was like whoa good night good night like just I feel like she should be like the

woman in the first story where it's like you got you had to get out of jail free card like yeah you got to see him at his worst and you don't have to like deal with him anymore yeah you're right well at least in all of these all the men took L's and yes I had to walk off into the sunset by themselves do you think he worked out twice a day because of that maybe well I don't think we correctly guessed anything no um but that's how these go thank you so much for these yeah thank you for joining me

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