Don't let them win, like the second that they see it affects you, you let them win. What is something no one... *jumble of questions* What is the most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to you? "Someone I barely knew once said that the only reason I got my board position was because I was pretty, not because I deserved it or worked best." oof. Well, people are haters.. For anyone who worked so hard and get to a position where you deserve it and for someone to I guess be a little left, I think it
's really really difficult. As unfair as that is, sometimes that kind of makes us rise to be even stronger. I tell myself every day, "I'm a failure." "I'm not worthy of love and happiness. I should just leave so everyone's lives would be easier." A lot of times, I think the most hurtful things are the things you tell yourself. Even if you're feeling like you're at your lowest the next day can be your very highest so just keep moving on and looking to the future. "I used to be a bit overweight du
ring middle school and a friend would draw comics about me eating everything and just made me feel bad for being who I was. Still to this day, I'm not happy, even after a massive weight loss in high school." I can relate to this and even after I lost weight, I still had the "fat" mentality; I still thought of myself as fat. Everybody's going to have something to say, you are never going to please everybody. Focus on the people that are putting positive in your life versus the people that are put
ting the negative. I promise if you can do that you'll feel much better about yourself. If you feel better about yourself, everybody feels better about you. It kind of EXUDES. "My mother told me she would send me back to foster care and put me back up for adoption." The fact that you're in that situation, isn't your fault, but it wasn't without purpose, so I pray that that situation affects your life in a way that you can affect others so that no one has to go through and feel the way you felt a
bout how she said. I used to get anonymous messages from someone who would call me truly hurtful things and would try to convince me to kill myself.. and for a while, I tried to. Anonymous, I think it's worse to get them from anonymous because you're just left guessing who hates me so much? I wouldn't know what to tell them, but I'm glad this person is still around.
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"The most hurtful things are the things you tell yourself" That hit home...
My father died in 2011 and in 2012 someone told me "I wish your dad was still alive so you can see how much of a disappointment you are to him" I know nobody will read this but please, if you argue with someone, never go low enough to bring up a dead parent or children.
“I waited and prayed my whole life for a daughter and all I got was you”
“you’re the reason your father passed away, because you’re a shame to this family and especially to your father.” -my grandfather to me.
my mom told me to “stop being over dramatic.” I was having a panic attack
sometimes it's not about what's said, it's about who says it
"That my depression is just me being moody and that I'm to young to know what sadness is"
I don't know if anyone is going to read this so here I go... When I was 11 to 13 I was sexually abused and molested by my step father. I was suicidal, depressed had very bad anxiety attacks and developed trichotillomania... I'm now 15 , and still deal with those mental illnesses. I still have very bad trichotillomania (it's a compulsive disorder which makes you have an urge to pull your hair even without noticing) my mom knows about my tricho and what that monster did to me... one day she told me "Stop pulling your hair, stop playing the victim... that happened a lot time ago". She have said horrible things to me, she makes feel worthless, depressed, and I just don't love her. How could I love someone that has damaged me so much?
"You're too broken to ever be loved" My dad to me, just before he committed suicide.
The worst thing I ever heard was from my teacher, she said "The smart one got dumb", it was in the middle of the class.... after that I cried.
"You were just a passtime." - My ex-girlfriend who I dated for 3 months.
"Even if you're feeling like you're at your lowest, the next day could be your very highest." this.
My mother once told me "You are not worth it. You shouldn't have been born." My mother was kinda exhausted, tired and frustrated when she said that so I kinda understand but it still lingers on my mind.
"He choose me over you." its kills me inside when i heard those words
"What is wrong with you" it made me be afraid to be myself.
I once heard my mother say to my father: 'She'll never be a good mother' It still makes me cry At least it rhymes tho...
The most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to me: When will you realize no one loves you?
the most hurtful things said to me mostly came from my family
The most hurtful things anyone has ever said to me was that I wasn't even pretty enough to be raped. I still don't know what that means... Edit: thank you to all for the kind words I really appreciate it ❤️