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The BEST Foundations for any Family: Family Matters, Part 3 - 7.9.2023 AM Service

Good morning! We thank you for tuning in to Open Door's Sunday morning service for July 9, 2023. In our Family Matters series, and we learn about the building blocks necessary for a happy, biblical family. We learn from Genesis chapter 2, verses 18 to 25. Timestamps: 0:00 Two beautiful music specials. 7:02 Intro to the message. 15:43 1. A God-oriented foundation. 29:46 2. A goal-oriented foundation. 36:33 3. A grace-oriented foundation. 49:04 Closing prayer & invitation. #JesusChrist #Bible #ODBC_Catalina . *Welcome to the official YouTube channel of Open Door Baptist Church from Catalina, Arizona! Founded in 2010, this is an independent Baptist church serving the Lord in the northern Tucson area. Please subscribe to our channel, click the like button on our videos, save our playlists, and watch our content to learn more about God's Holy Word. Also, we encourage you to share our channel with your friends and family so they can get saved!* βœ… Are you a *Christian?* Click *here* so we know: https://bit.ly/ODBC_Sub 🌐 Want to know more about *our church?* Visit our website: https://www.odbccatalina.org πŸ“± Follow us on *Facebook:* https://bit.ly/ODBC_Facebook πŸ“To join our in-person services, here’s our *address:* https://bit.ly/ODBC_Location ❓Not sure on how to get to *heaven?* Watch *this:* https://www.hopefortucson.com β›ͺ️ We hope you can meet and visit us in person. Here are the services that our pastor, Pastor Kramer, leads every week: - *Sunday School Lessons* at 9:30 AM - *Sunday Morning Services* at 10:30 AM - *Sunday Evening Services* at 6:00 PM - *Midweek Services* on Wednesday at 6:30 PM

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[Music] sometimes my life seems gentle and blessings [Music] just boys with words [Music] me always on my knees Lord I need Lord help me to remember [Music] my song [Music] oh Lord I need you when the wind is [Music] foreign [Music] thank you so much for that special Lord I need you and then Justin How Great Thou Art and I know I'm a little prejudiced but I think they should just give our our kids first place and the competitions I don't even have to hear the rest of the competitors appreciate t
heir their their work that went into that that just didn't happen just happen a lot of work and then their willingness that's huge to get in front of people and to sing and to play the piano and so we praise the Lord for their willingness to bless our hearts this morning we're gonna go ahead and dismiss our kids and by the way our young kids in about 10 years that's probably going to be you up here Jacob you're going to be at the piano playing my Jesus I love thee and maybe May and Sophia and Li
ly will sing a trio up here they're like let's get out of here real quick oh it's it's great uh um encourage young people to develop their talents and their gifts for the Lord Jesus Christ Genesis chapter 2 this morning we continue in our summer series on Family Matters and we're looking at what the Bible has to say about the Christian home and we've looked at our first message was kind of the the foundation and this morning we're going to continue talking about Foundation but the foundation spe
cifically of marriage of of making sure that there's salvation that there's surrender that there is belief in the permanence of marriage and and just a willingness to to do God's word and the parents blessing and then the following message we looked at where the only place really where a math equation one plus one equals one and talking about the the union and the marriage relationship uh physically and and mentally and Also spiritually as well I came across this quote actually this morning I wa
s reading in a commentary by Warren wearsby and and I've never heard it said like this but I thought it was very powerful because if if we're honest um our our world today our culture our society um does not really have much positive things as far as when it comes to a Christian and the home and the marriage as far as encouragement for us as Christians and in a matter of fact it can be very discouraging to look at what the world is teaching what culture is saying and at times even us as Christia
ns we can even be tempted to question well it is what God says really absolutely true and is there room for more diversity and more different thinking than what the Bible says and we're in where and where's we said this he said marriage was born the loving heart of God for the blessing and the benefit of mankind and then this was a statement that just really encouraged my heart he said no matter what the Court's decree or what culture or Society May permit when it comes to marriage when it comes
to the family God had the first word and God will have the final word and we look to the Book of Genesis and we look to Creation in the first two chapters and we see God has the first word but if you were actually to go all the way to the end of the the New Testament in Hebrews God has some very strong words about marriage in Hebrews 13 4. marriage is Honorable and all and the bed undefiled but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge then the very last chapter of the Book of Revelation Revel
ation chapter 22 and I think it's verse 15. it's talking about those who will not have a part of Heaven and one of those descriptives and again these are people who have not trusted Christ as a personal savior their names were not written the Lamb's Book of Life but whoremongers perverted perverters of the institution of marriage of the home that God has set up so so no matter what the Court's decree no matter what society and culture uh promotes God has had the first word and God will also have
the final word so in Genesis chapter 2 this morning we'll be looking at verses 18 through 25 where the Bible says these words and the Lord God said it is not good that man should be alone I will make him and help me for him and out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every fowl of the air and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them and whatsoever Adam called every living creature that was the name thereof and Adam gave names to all cattle into the fowl t
he air into every beast of the field but for Adam there was not found to help me for him and the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slapped and he took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh instead thereof and the rib which the Lord God had taken for man made he a woman and brought her unto the man verse 23 and Adam said this is now bone of my bone and Flesh of My Flesh she shall be called woman because she was taken out of man then verse 24 and 25 therefore shall a man leav
e his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh and they are both naked the man and his wife and we're not ashamed let's pray father I pray that you help us now as we look at some foundational truths for the family and for specifically the marriage relationship and God regardless of what of all the noise outside father may we not be discouraged may we not be distracted but may we look to your infallible word may we look to your word that you've given us to
be that lamp unto our feet and our light and to our path may we look to that word that's Shar sharper than any two-edged sword that divides the thoughts and the intents of the heart that word that is like the mirror that reflects shows us what manner of man we are and what manner of man you ought you desire for us and you desire by your spirit and your word to change us more into the image of the Lord Jesus Christ so help us to see truth this morning that would encourage us where we are whether
we have a family or do not may we realize that these truths are important because each one of us will be interacting with others and and have an opportunity to influence them biblically I pray these things in Christ's name amen here in Genesis chapter 2 we're going to be looking at some building blocks to affirm Foundation Psalm 127 verse 1 says accept the Lord build the house they that labor labor in vain just as any building that goes up there's work that is involved and there's hard work that
is involved so it is for a marriage to work so it is for a home to work there's hard work that is involved it takes work for that husband and wife to work together and to live together and and to have a happy marriage to have a blessed marriage it takes work for parents as they raise their children and for children to follow the leadership of their parents as well Christ if we were to look at the scriptures he's really involved in three building projects the first one as he said in John 14 and
the John chapter 14 I go to prepare a place for you so he is building a Heavenly mansion for all those who have trusted Christ as their personal savior so he's building a home for our future he's also actively building a place for our faith to be encouraged and strengthened Christ said to Peter about Peter's confession of himself in the gospel of Matthew Upon This Rock will I build my church and I praise the Lord for here at Open Door Baptist Church and other churches throughout Catalina and Tuc
son in Arizona in the uttermost parts of the Earth where Christ is actively building his church and he said the Gates of Hell shall not Prevail against it but as we just read in Psalm 127 verse 1 the Lord is also Building Homes and as we consider the home or the family that we are a part of we certainly as we're working as we're laboring we do not want that to be in vain and so three specific building blocks that will help us as we seek to have a a a a faithful Foundation a family's faithful Fou
ndation the first one is this is that we should desire to have a god-oriented or a god-focused foundation a god-oriented or a god-focused foundation Verse 18 of Genesis chapter 2 it says and the Lord God said it is not good that man should be alone I will make him a help me for him God is the one who who created marriage who started the family that phrase I will make marriage the home was formed by God it was founded by his power it was sanctioned by his authority and so when we think about a fo
undation we think about a marriage and a home a god-oriented foundation must have an authority the reason being is because in our marriages in our homes there are decisions that need to be made and what is the basis what is the foundation what is the Authority for which those decisions are made what is the what is the foundation or what is the basis for the value system that you have in your marriage or your home and it is so important if God is the one who created marriage in the home he is the
one who has the power to create it but also he has the authority to give us the direction to help us establish to see this value system in the home is something that will help your home be successful that will help your home have peace and Harmony and love and So a family is built upon a source of authority and we want to be sure that we have a god-oriented foundation what are the the value what are the authority systems that families can be built on well one a a Family Foundation can be built
upon Human Experience and to an extent all of our families that we are a part of right now are are a result and are influenced by our Human Experience now think about the the young person who grows up in a Christian home we're both Dad and Mom love God and they have placed a value system based upon God and upon his word and and we understand that no one's perfect and we're going to take a look at that our last point this morning the fact that we're all Sinners and we're all selfish we're all dam
aged and so there needs to be grace in our lives but but when it comes to a family that is a Christian Home growing up in a Christian home and having that as your experience that can help when God allows you to create your own family have your own marriage have your own children and so you can learn from the example but Human Experience is just not enough because there can be exposure to God there can be an exposure to God's word but unless it becomes personal unless the values in other words we
always went to church as a family does not guarantee that when that child starts their family as an adult that they'll always go to church it must be more than this is what we always did they must see the value they must see the importance it must be personal for them so Human Experience can be a basis or a foundation upon which families determine their value system determine the the direction that they're going and that can be good but also can be bad you think about some families that would y
ou we would use the word in in this is by no means um judgmental or critical okay I just want to preface a statement with this but you have possibly used the word or maybe some of you may have come from a family where we where the term would be used a broken family and the Brokenness comes the Brokenness comes from from sin and all of us are sinners and All Families have sin problems but in other words the family is is not um as God intended it to be as we see in the scriptures uh there may be a
a pattern or an example where in that family possessions or materialism is the complete Focus and because materialism and and possessions has been the focus and not God the focus the the propagation or the Perpetual thing that happens is when the children grow up that's the example they've seen and so they live for the material they live for the possessions if there's some sort of of an addiction within a home um and whether that's alcohol or whether that's uh drugs or or gambling or you can go
through all different types of addictions many times those addictions are passed on as a children grow up why because they saw that as as a pastor now here at Open Door for 13 years in our 14th year as we've ministered with families both within our church and also in the community and and our church fan that goes out and brings kids in many times insight into a child's life is gained when you see their home life and I'll never forget a few years ago it was on a Monday morning we are getting rea
dy to to leave for West Branch camp and we had a good group of teenagers going and we had some of our children that would come from our church van Ministry so their parents don't come to church but they had come to church I can remember two of our two of our teenagers being dropped off by their mom and and these these teenagers we've we've loved on them we've helped them and we've worked with them but what I saw transpire between the mom and the daughters and specifically the mother towards the
daughters just broke my heart and and we'd seen other things in the past but it was just a reminder for me that just reminded me you know what this is the pattern that they see every single day and by the way we don't have to be a victim of our Human Experience God can help overcome no matter what negative experiences we may have had but Human Experience is a basis of which families are marriages are created and families are are created and they grow and they just well this is the way we did it
in our home or this is what I mean I didn't have a father growing up and so Mom did everything and so in in our home I his wife I do everything and the husband won't do anything and you see how we allow human experience to become the foundation for how we live and how we make decisions as a family so Human Experience can be the basis culture can become the basis we think about media today advertising the educational system years ago the family shows were like I mean they're like archaic now but
like Leave It to Beaver black and white um you have Little House on the Prairie you have The Waltons and even as you watch The Waltons things kind of progress through time even with the Waltons but now you you consider when I was a teenager back in the 90s and and this this will date me and I don't know really what's popular and and mainstream today but the Simpsons a cartoon a fictitious cartoon Family character was very popular a perverted program called Married With Children when I was a teen
ager that was very popular and I I can't even imagine what is mainstream media today not not not just perversion within a family unit but just um with with all of the the homosexuality it's just and that is what people are lucky to to form the basis of okay is marriage even needed can't people just live together they love each other I mean is is marriage just really between a a man and a woman or can it be between a man and a man and a woman and a woman well this is the way that I am and and so
I should have the same rights as a husband and a wife should have and so we have the media uh we have an educational system I mean to think that there used to be a day where you could go to the public library and you can leave your kids there for Bible for first for the story reading time but now they have all sorts of there is an agenda driven to try and reach our children with what the Bible calls is a perversion it's a sin and so we have culture that tells us you know if you are biological bi
ologically a male and you identify as a woman that's okay um I was really excited for many years to be born in the month of June but now recently the month of June in everything that it is associated with it breaks my heart to think about the the agenda that is promoted throughout the whole month of Junie say well Pastor Kramer you're not being very loving right now no I I want for us to understand and for us to see that there is an agenda in our culture day and we can't just take whatever whate
ver the display at the local store that we shop in just because we walk in and we see a display that promotes what the Bible would call wickedness and sinfulness just because there is a display or there's an advertisement does not mean that we should accept it or we should allow it to be a part of our lives and to influence us and so what is it that people's foundations that they're building their lives upon well Human Experience but Human Experience is flawed culture well we know that culture i
s not for God it's not for the Bible the the the all that is in the world as it says in first John chapter 2 the lust of the flesh the lust of the eyes and the pride of life all that's the world um it will pass away but he that doeth the will of God abideth forever so what Foundation well we need to have a god-oriented foundation we need to look to the word of God and so God in Genesis chapter 2 he says here I will make for Adam a help me and he made a woman and he brought Adam and Eve together
and they had children in the context of a marriage relationship and so God should be the basis of our foundation and he's given us the word as we continue in this series we're going to see what does the Bible have to say about what a husband is about what a wife is what a father should be what a mother should be what children should be we look to the world we look to Human Experience and we have an idea but does that idea does culture does it match with what the Bible says well just because ever
yone else is doing just because another church may be doing it just because another Christian family may be accepting it doesn't mean that it's what God would have for us and so we need to have a god-oriented foundation again the key for the god-oriented foundation is he is the creator of marriage in the home he is the one who has the authority to direct us and so a building block for a family's faithful Foundation is a god-oriented foundation secondly a goal-oriented foundation a goal-oriented
foundation verse 24 of verse of chapter two therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh now this is very difficult for me at this stage in life this whole leaving and cleaving thing because I have two adult children now and I mean we are thrilled whenever they're home but God did not intend for our children to stay at home forever we thank the Lord for the family that God has given us so what is the goal for the family the goal
is for there to be Oneness for there to be Unity Oneness and unity as there's a leaving and there's a cleaving now um our two adult children probably within the next I I'll just say the next the next I don't know how long for one I'm pretty certain it's extended years all right but but when when I I think about that you know there is going to be a leaving of Robin and I and as they leave I will say this Kylie's not here but Cason is leaving does not mean absolutely no communication ever again o
kay and that's in the Hebrew there trust me it doesn't mean no communication but it does mean that there is a physical departure there is a departure of dependence as well it doesn't mean that you can't ask your parents for counsel as a 49 year old when I had my birthday um a little bit two Sundays ago I was talking with Kyle He says Dad are you 50 now I said not yet I'm just 49. okay I still got one more year before 50. but when when it comes to um that I lost my train of thought anyways um the
re is there is a leaving and and what our family has been in unified and committed and Oneness now that it's going to start all over again Lord willing with um case and as he gets married and way down the years when Kylie gets married there will be a leaving and that's important for us as parents to realize yes that's God's plan for them to leave and now they are to cleave as we looked at just a few weeks ago where one plus one equals one there now is uh a becoming of one there's a joining toget
her of they are becoming one flesh and that takes work but it should be a goal for every marriage and as God allows for their family to come for there to be Unity for there to be cleaving for there to be Oneness and that's difficult because we are different God creates different and we're thankful for the differences but we communicate differently we think differently and so when it comes to the goal-oriented foundation it should be a goal to we're not compatible but we should strive towards com
patibility our compatibility comes from God our compatibility comes through the holy spirit of God that he's given us through the word of God that guides us and has given us a god-oriented foundation so while we're different while we communicate different the goal should be compatibility the goal also should be commitment there should be commitment to one another and as a marriage relationship grows and as God gives children who are completely different they're born just like their father selfis
h and sinful and that's all that their life consists of is their needs being met and then they grow but having compatibility and as parents being committed to that and through the different stages whether it's the baby or the toddlers or you know the young child and then they finally get to be a teenager and all those stages God wants there to be Oneness he wants there to be Unity he wants there to be compatibility and also for there to be commitment the word cleave means to be joined together w
e need to be committed to God's word we need to be committed to a biblical definition of love it's not what you can do for me but it's what Can I sacrificially Give to make you better to make you more like the Lord Jesus Christ a fair question for us to ask ourselves when it comes to this area of a goal-oriented foundation this goal leaving and cleaving this goal of compatibility this goal of commitment what is my life or what is life like for my spouse living with me what is life like for my ch
ild living with me what is life like for my parent living with me is there Unity is there a commitment to being one or is there division if we are to have a solid foundation our family our marriage must be a god-oriented foundation God is the authority we must have a goal-oriented foundation striving for Oneness striving for Unity and by the way what God desires in the home he also Desires in the church he desires for us to strive together for the sake of the Gospel that we we be unified as a ch
urch as we're fulfilling those purposes so we have a god-oriented foundation a Grace oriented foundation and thirdly or excuse me a god-oriented a goal-oriented and then thirdly a grace-oriented foundation look at verse 25 of Genesis chapter 2. here it says and they were both naked speaking of Adam and Eve and the man and his wife and we're not ashamed and it'd be wonderful if the last verse in verse 26 says and they lived happily ever after but we know that's not what the Bible says and we know
that's not what the next chapter gives for us matter of fact just 11 verses later in Genesis 3 10 it says of those who in Genesis 2 25 they were both naked man and woman and were not ashamed Genesis 3 10 Adams speaking to God says I heard thy voice in the garden and I was afraid because I was naked and I hid myself so what is it that that goes against a god-oriented foundation god-being Authority Not Human Experience not culture but God the Bible what is it that goes against a goal-oriented fou
ndation where the goal is Unity is Oneness is commitment what goes against that is the fact that we're all sinners that is helpful for us to realize even if we have a Christian family we're all members of the family have professed faith and trust in Christ as their personal savior the thing that goes against the family the marriage that God wants it to be is a fact that we're all Sinners still in that family relationship the husband father the wife mother the the parents or the the children the
brothers and sisters and and the children in that relationship all of us are sinners not only are all of us sinners but all of us are selfish when God in Genesis chapter 3 says well Adam you know did you take the tree and the knowledge of Good and Evil and he says well it was the woman that she gave me and he said it was a snake that tripped me making excuses selfish preserving their image as as as if their sin would be overlooked if what they had done and so the the problem within the family wi
thin the marriage is that we're all Sinners that we're all selfish but in Genesis chapter 3 and verse 21 God did something wonderful for Adam and Eve the Sinners and the selfish ones says and unto Adam also and to his wife to the Lord God make clothes of skin and he clothed them although the enemies of our marriage and our home our our sin natures and our selfish natures I'm thankful for God's grace that's what those those animal skins that covered their neck in this they were a picture of God's
grace and we can look through the Old Testament and and we can see the animal sacrifice and how the Lambs were a picture of the Messiah that would come in John chapter 1 John says Behold the Lamb of God which taketh away the sins of the world and then we see Jesus Christ dying up on the cross his blood being shed um dying being buried for three days and then Rising again and here's the hope for our marriages and our homes today even though we're Sinners even though we're selfish even though we'
re all if you want to say damaged goods God's grace is available God's grace is available to provide salvation from our sins but God's grace is also available in our home God's grace is available for that husband who sinned again for that wife that sinned again for that child for the umpty time or for the parent who for the umpteenth time did not keep their promise to their child I'm thankful that in our homes in our marriages that God's grace is available and that God wants one of the foundatio
nal building blocks of our families and our marriages to be is his grace I'm so thankful it's not his Justice I'm so thankful it's not his Holiness his judgment but it's his grace there's a story that Christ told well three stories in Luke chapter 15. about the lost sheep the Lost coin and the lost son and the parable of the it's known as the parable of the Prodigal Son the son one of two said to his father I want my inheritance now his father gave him his inheritance he went off into another co
untry and he wasted his inheritance he lived of the world and then finally when he wasted all of his inheritance it says he joined himself to another man and the word join means to become to be stuck together like glue and this man that he joined himself together with he was living with the pigs and eating the pig's food leftovers what a wonderful end result of rebellion against the Father's Love and living the way that he wanted to live but there came a point where he said the Servants of my fa
ther's house are treated much better than I am I'm going to go back to Dad I'm going to say make me as one of your servants and as he went back the father of the prodigal son had such Grace he didn't sit him down and interrogate him he didn't sit him down and give him 10 steps of why he is where he is today when the son came back and said I'm no worthy to be called your son make me as one of your hired servants he embraced him he welcomed him back into the family he didn't bring him before his o
ther son or the other family members or the other servants and talk about what an embarrassment and a failure he was and talk about how he was embarrassed and how he left and how he wasted all that he extended Grace and in our Christian homes in our Christian marriages we need to be able to extend Grace how can we extend Grace what we have received God enables us to give I'll close with this this illustration my sister called yesterday and shared with her about shared with us about her son Andre
w he's 16 he he has quite a successful landscaping business and um he he's doing very well and he has expensive equipment and she said he had a really bad day today the first house he was working at never happened before a rock came up from the edger and broke glass glass door so he had to replace that second house he went to he's working towards saving for a truck and a trailer but he I mean he has the best he has this this like Landscaping cart that he pulls he's got all his tools on it and he
just finished a house and he's got his blower and he's blowing off and my sister said he noticed this silver sedan keeps circling around and as he was walking back he noticed that they stopped actually a person got out and they started taking his tools off of his Landscaping cart and so he went up and he approached me hey what are you doing those are my tools and the person proceeded to tell him in so many unkind words that he needed might basically mind his own business and thankful that um th
at he wasn't hurt I mean he lost about two thousand dollars worth of tools and so after the the response to the individual he just kind of backed up and he let them take it and so my sister was sharing all this and you know if we're not careful this is what can happen in in a person's mind who wants to just fix things all right I'm not saying that anyone did this but if we're not careful we could go through well this is what you should have done this is what this is how it it could not have happ
ened this is all these things and one of my first responses to my sister was well I'm just thankful Andrew's okay I'm thankful he didn't pull out a knife or a gun I mean this is Southern Atlanta or he's working I'm thankful that he's okay he wasn't hurt he wasn't killed and you know there can come a point for helping teach a family member and and helping them see this is why it happened or this is why it pot I mean basically it's the sinful nature of mankind why these people as these were people
these people stole his stuff all right it's because they're Sinners and they need Jesus Christ to save them from their sins but there's a proper time for that but right now what does he need he needs love he needs Grace I think about the one of the pivotal points in Youth Ministry for me when I was a youth pastor for 11 years was God spoke to my heart about the parable the goods Good Samaritan the the guy he he's got money he's traveling he gets robbed beaten up left for dead the high priest pa
ssed by the levite passed by but it was a good samaritan the Good Samaritan what did he do he ministered to his wounds he provided for him a way to be healed we could say he extended Grace there is not a perfect marriage there's not a perfect parent there's not a perfect child and all of us need to remember that all of us need to remember the Amazing Grace of which saved us The Amazing Grace and benefits that we have been that we have received of and by God's grace we can extend that to our fami
ly members so Christ wants to build our family may we look to him for our Authority may we look to him to strive to be unified and committed and may we look to him to allow us to extend Grace to our family members when they fall when they fail and help them see them restored and brought back to him let's bow for prayer father I thank you for our time together this morning I thank you that you are the Creator of the home of the marriage relationship and God there's so much confusion and conflict
in the world today and God I I pray that this message you know my heart is I've shared it and tried to share the truth of your word God made may we see clearly from the Bible of what you intend marriage in the home to be may you be the authority that gives us the direction and helps to establish the value system for our marriage in our homes God you created us different we're thankful for that but help us to not just oh well it'll always be this way we're just different may we seek to be Unified
in our thoughts and our words and our Deeds in our marriages and in our in our families with our children and God we thank you for your grace there is a time for instruction there's a time for reproof and rebuke but God we're also thankful that there's a time just to love there's a time to give your grace and to show others the difference that God can make in their lives and to show that there's hope for change There's Hope for forgiveness There's Hope for restitution There's Hope for renewal s
o God May as as you help us either in our current family or in family to be or in the families that you give us an opportunity to influence may you help us to take truth from your word and live it and share it I pray these things in Christ's name with our heads still bowed and our eyes closed in just a moment we'll have a an invitation an opportunity for folks to respond as God has spoken to your heart and Cason will play the piano in just a moment but before he does I just want to encourage you
that God wants to help you right where you're at he wants to help your home it may be broken it may it may be ravaged with sin and selfishness but God wants to help he wants to give your grace it may be that there has not been Unity that there's been every family members going opposite directions but God desires for there to be Unity God desires for there to be Oneness for there to be a cleaving it may be that God spoke to your heart about the Authority for your home and you've allowed this cul
ture you've allowed Human Experience to dictate what you believe is a basis for your value system the invitation is just simply an opportunity for you to talk to God as he's spoken to your heart if you need help if you'd like to pray with someone we'd be happy to do that if if you say Pastor I you know this message was on on the home and everything but I'm just struggling with knowing if I'm going to heaven when I die we'd be happy to take a Bible and share with you how you could know for certai
n Heaven's your home so if God's spoken to your heart I would encourage you you can pray there at your seat down here in altar if we can pray with you and help encourage you from God's word we'd be happy to do so father I pray that you'd have your will and your way in this time of invitation I pray in Christ's name with her head still bow in our eyes closed let's stand together as a piano plays would you respond there at your seat down here at an altar if we can pray with you we'd be happy to do
so God's spoken to your heart would you respond [Music] God I want you to be the foundation of our home the authority I'm sorry for it not being God I desire for there to be Unity for there to be Oneness I can't imagine what life is like for my children and the way I've been living the way I've been so irritable and angry I can't imagine what life like for my parent I've just been so so ungrateful and I'm thankful well if God's spoken to your heart talk to him about it [Music] [Music] thank you
[Music] father God we ask that as you have spoken to hearts and as you continue to speak by your word and your spirit God would you not pass Us by would you not allow us to continue in sin if we have been set in a pattern of sin God would you still convict would you still convince help us to see the truth of your word and while there may be offense when we look at the Bible when we see that our lives don't match up we see that our choices and our decisions don't mess up match up God we're thank
ful for your grace that loves us that saves us and that wants to help us God I firmly believe that that with your grace there is not a relationship a situation that cannot be healed so would you give that hope and father for those prodigal sons for those prodigal spouses for those prodigal parents I pray that they would come to a place where they acknowledged their sin in their Rebellion and God what they returned to you for forgiveness for healing and restoration thank you for our time together
this morning I thank you for our guests and I pray that you would bless each one now as we dismiss we pray these things in Christ's name amen Lord bless you have a good afternoon [Music] thank you

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